Is the marriage of an old husband and a young wife really reliable? 52-year-old married to an old man 15 years older than me!
I was 52 years old, married to an old man who was 15 years older than me, and two years later, I found that even an old wife could not be trusted!
In the world of love, age is never an obstacle. However, although love is not defined by age, older couples do not need to love themselves as much as younger couples. Ms. Zhang, 52, knows this.
18-year-old Zhang Xiaoxian, who grew up in the countryside because of her outstanding appearance, was rejected by the school and became a local primary school Chinese teacher. Two years later, she married the son of the local *** and had a son and a daughter, and the family of three was happy.
However, when she was 42 years old, her husband suddenly got cancer and left her. With the comfort of her children, she gradually recovered from the gloom.
After her husband died, her children followed one of her distant relatives to work. Granny Zhang took a odd job in the city to support her children. Two years later, her children got married and had children.
When the grandchildren were older, Mrs. Zhang wanted to work in the city and earn a little money to support the family. She works in a bathhouse, and her monthly salary is not high, but it is enough to make ends meet.
However, after hearing the words of the female clerk, she thought about her future path. She questioned her future daughter-in-law's opinion, and was also infected by the people around her, and also had the idea of a second marriage.
My sister's words made me ponder. Today, I'm in my fifties, have a secure job to make ends meet, but I'm worried about who will take care of me for the next 10 years. If my son doesn't care about me in the future, then I'll be miserable. Maybe marry while you're young.
So I asked my sister how old her relatives were. My sister said her cousin was 65 and I was 15. Despite the large age gap, he still has a fixed pension. At that time, I thought a lot: if I hadn't married a man who was 15 years older than me, would I have found a better man?
On the first day of the meeting, I dressed up and came confidently to greet his cousin. His cousin was a very attractive man, tall, somewhat obese, with very little dark hair. We had a short conversation at a coffee shop and he was very gentlemanly and made me feel very comfortable.
My sister excitedly told me that my cousin had taken a fancy to me. He felt that I was the youngest and prettiest girl on this date, and that if I agreed, he would marry me at once, and receive all his pension. I was thrilled to hear this. However, out of an abundance of caution, I intend to inquire.
And then we were together. That person is Feng, let me call him Old Feng. Lao Feng was very generous, gave me a love ring directly, and then took me shopping and bought me a lot of new clothes and shoes for me. I feel very happy and very satisfied.
After three months of falling in love, Lao Feng wanted to marry me. After a moment's hesitation, I agreed. We held a grand ceremony with blessings from relatives and friends.
After getting married, Lao Feng immediately asked me to quit my job and asked me to take care of him wholeheartedly. I happily quit my job and devoted myself to my family.
Lao Feng was very good to me, and every time he went out, he would take me away, which made me feel a sense of pride. He gave me his bank card, meaning that I was free to use my salary. When I got my bank card, I couldn't have been happier because I finally had a stable income**!
However, later, I found out that Lao Feng's so-called letting me decide my salary freely was completely a statement, in fact, the salaries of both of us were the same.
Then it occurred to me: managing my husband's credit card is not a bad thing, even though I don't make money. My husband let me waive the electricity bill, heating bill, and property fee, and I can spend the rest of the money as I like. Every month, excluding clothes and husband's expenses, it costs about 2,000 yuan in total. My husband has to drink some wine every night and buy me some fruit, which costs about 3,000 yuan a month, and there is nothing left.
However, since the second half of this year, I found out that my husband was with other girls behind my back. I didn't pay much attention at first, because he told me that I was talking to my former colleagues about work. However, by chance, I saw him on a ** call with a netizen, and some intimate actions also occurred. He persuaded me to forgive him and promised not to make the same mistake again.
But soon after, he started talking to another woman, and I saw him again, so we had a heated argument. He apologized and said no, but I didn't believe him anymore. In the beginning, I thought that an elderly couple would be happier, but in just two years after marriage, he has changed so much.