When I got up this morning, I saw that it was white outside, the snow was still falling, and the work in the field could not be done, so I nestled at home to bake the fire, thinking of yesterday's events, and the focus was still on Duo'er.
Yesterday, after breakfast, I went to pull firewood with my wife, and my neighbor Uncle Qian also came to help when he saw it. My wife hurriedly said, "Uncle, it's so cold, you also come to help me carry firewood, it's really embarrassing!" ”
Uncle Qian replied: "Every time I ask you to pull things without charging money, I have nothing to do with the fire, I see you pulling firewood, I carry a load of firewood for you, and I want to ask you to pull a refrigerator in Chunzhi." ”
I said next to me: "Tell me, I'll pull it for you when I'm free, neighbors, when you need help, don't be so polite!" ”
At one o'clock in the afternoon, I went to pull a refrigerator for Uncle Qian and came back, I forgot to put on gloves, my hands were frozen, and I went into the house to roast for a while.
Their stove for the fire, in front of Chunxia's bed, Chunxia has cerebral palsy, can't walk, can only sit. Chunxia sat in the warmest position inside, wearing a new cotton jacket and cotton shoes, and there was a new cabinet at the head of Chunxia's bed. ”
Speaking of which, Dore's mother is extremely pleased! I was also a little moved, and I couldn't help but think of Doer's past and personality.
Duo'er, born in 19**, in that era of family planning, she was a daughter, it was a bit redundant, her parents named Duoduo, and she became Duoduo by the way, and after a long time, Duoduo became more and more cute, and adults simply named her Duo'er, which was more cordial.
Duo'er was raised by her biological parents for less than a hundred days, and her parents gave her to her aunt's family, and her aunt became her own mother.
Duo'er's mother (aunt) has a biological child who has cerebral palsy, which is the Chunxia mentioned at the beginning.
Duo'er's mother (aunt) saw that she was well-behaved, so she regarded her as her own, she had such a lovely daughter, life had hope, she was happy all day long, her heart was relieved, time passed quickly, and before she knew it, Duoer graduated from junior college.
After graduating from Duo'er, she went to work in the southern factory, and during her work, she talked about a partner, her boyfriend was an only child, and her home was in Hebei near the Mongolian desert, with barren land and harsh climate. After my boyfriend's parents lived in school, they washed bed sheets for a hotel in Beijing** and worked there for a long time.
Duoer and her boyfriend have been talking for two years, Duoer doesn't want to get married and go away, she wants to stay with her parents, Duoer told her parents what she thought, and it just so happened that her parents thought the same, but before her daughter said it, she was still a little worried in her heart, and her daughter was willing to stay by her side, and her heart was naturally happy.
Duo'er's boyfriend's parents also think that our side is better than his hometown, and they also agree to be their son-in-law.
When Duoer got married, her parents-in-law were still working in Beijing, and she was afraid that she would quit her job and lose her job, so she didn't come to attend her son's wedding.
Doer's parents entertained guests at a hotel not far from their home and organized a wedding for their daughter.
After Duoer got married, she had a lovely daughter, and after her daughter was one year old, Duoer and her husband still went to the south to work, and the daughter was taken by her grandmother (grandmother).
When Doer's daughter reaches the age of kindergarten, Doer comes back to take her daughter to kindergarten. During that time, she became ill and was hospitalized in the county hospital. At that time, my brother-in-law was also hospitalized in the county hospital, I went to see my uncle-in-law, walked into the ward, and saw that Duo'er was feeding her second child, I greeted her, greeted my uncle, and had a good time with my uncle. After Duo'er fed her second eldest and settled it out, her uncle-in-law and the companions of the adjacent bed asked me whether Duo'er was married or not, and they all said that Duo'er was a good girl, and now it is difficult to find a good girl like Duo......'er
Duo'er is a lonely old man, her adoptive parents are guardians, her parents take care of her daughter with cerebral palsy (Duo'er's sister) at home, and Duo'er accompanies her in the hospital.
Duo'er's daughter is about to go to school, Duo'er discussed with her husband, bought a house in Foping, and planned to manage her daughter's school in the county seat, so she had a wish to accompany her daughter to read the book.
Duo'er's husband can't do other work, so he still goes to work in the southern factory. My parents-in-law are in their sixties, and I can't do the work of the Beijing hotel, so Duo'er took my parents-in-law to Foping and managed her daughter's study with her parents-in-law.
Parents-in-law are northerners, like to eat pasta and cold sauerkraut, Duo'er distilled two buns for her father-in-law and mother-in-law every meal, and mixed a plate of sauerkraut, and the family lived happily.
While taking care of her in-laws, Duoer goes back to the countryside to support her parents every weekend and holiday.
Duoer is not only a good wife and mother, but also very business-minded, going to the village in the mountains to collect Sanghuang, retailing online, and sending it to health care product processing factories when there are many goods.
Two years ago, dogwood was good, and processing dogwood could make money, so she did it without doing it, and bought machinery and drying equipment. She harvests fresh dogwood outside, her parents process it at home, she gives a salary, her parents have something to do, and they can earn money, and she herself has money to earn.
Once upon a time, I heard that Doer's father was killing sheep, the sheep were fed by himself, they were free-range running goats, and I was also a rural person, and I felt that there were very few sheep that grew up eating grass, and I planned to buy some. I went a little late, and saw that the sheep were all scalded and washed, a sheep was divided into four large pieces and hung up, and a bunch of people were all buying mutton. I asked if there was anything else, and Do'er's mother said, "There is another one, you want you to take it, Do'er's father loves to eat it, he doesn't cook it himself, I cook mutton, and I feel upset when I smell it." ”
I weighed the lamb on the scale, and I said, "I have a little less in my family!" ”
Duo'er heard and said: "You are too idle, cut two or three catties down, my father loves to eat, my mother can't cook it, I cook it well, my father put it on a trip is very hard, you should have a good meal of mutton." ”
Once I saw Duo'er's mother eating breakfast and preparing to go to the construction site, holding a can of milk in her hand to drink, she said while drinking: "Duoer was afraid that I would be tired from work, so she bought me milk and asked me to supplement my nutrition." ”
One day two years ago, I heard that Duo'er discussed with her husband and asked her husband to come back to Foping and take her husband to do business, as long as she can endure hardships, she can earn money to support her family.
Her husband is a smart person, but a bit of a nerd, he can't do anything else, he will only do his own profession, and he doesn't want to come to Foping, saying that he will retire and return to Foping to support the elderly.
Duo'er realized that after a few years, her husband was no longer a person with herself, and the road behind was still long, and she had lived a life of separation for a long time, and many places were inconvenient and too difficult! In desperation, she divorced her husband by agreement, her daughter followed her, and her parents-in-law went back to her hometown.
In the late spring and early summer of this year, Duo'er's cousin had a cerebral infarction, and during his hospitalization in the county hospital, Duo'er lived in the county town and delivered meals to his cousin and his companions every day, treating his cousin as a family member.
After Duo'er divorced, after a while, a local guy who was younger than her chased her, and after a period of contact, the two met each other. Years ago, her adoptive parents' family killed New Year's pigs, and I was also helping, her boyfriend was also busy working inside and outside the house, and when eating, her boyfriend was late on the table, and finally served a pot of celery pig blood soup, and after a while, the soup was finished, and the people who ate it were full of praise: Who made it? It smells so good! Doer's mother said that the dishes on this table were all made by her son-in-law, and she gave her hands.
Speaking of which, I know and pay more attention to the guys. The young man is a little taller than Duo'er, can endure hardships, and is careful, looking smart and capable, especially with Duo'er and husband and wife, people who came over and came to a conclusion:When people who are husband and wife come together, they can be happy for a long time.
Duoer is beautiful and generous, kind-hearted, practical, does not talk much, is consistent with words and deeds, shrewd and capable and honest. In the eyes of the neighbors, Uncle Qian received a daughter, and the family enjoyed the blessings of their daughter, and their hearts were full of envy, jealousy and hatred!
Through the bits and pieces of life, it is not difficult to see that Duo'er is a veritable good girl.
Diary of February 21, 2024.
end– vernacular proseAbout the Author
Chunzhi, born in the 60s, is a native of the mountains of Shaanxi Province, loves literature, and often writes essay diaries.
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