Tong Jisheng, the father of the famous actor Tong Liya, is the executive vice chairman and secretary general of the Xinjiang ** Family Association. He has composed nearly 200 songs, instrumental pieces and dances, and many works such as "Xinjiang Has a Beautiful River", "Beautiful Xinjiang", "Xibe Girl", "As Long as You Walk into the Kazakh Yurt", "Western Regions Style" and many other works have won awards in the autonomous region and the whole country.
He has also served as the planner, director, and judge of hundreds of meetings, parties, and competitions, and has led teams abroad to participate in competitions and cultural exchanges many times.
On May 20, 2021, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng officially announced their divorce, and their 5-year-old son Duoduo was raised by the two. As soon as the news came out, the whole network and fans were cheering, and in the eyes of the outside world, this may be a complete relief for Tong Liya.
However, Tong Liya's father, Tong Jisheng's biggest wish in this life, is that Tong Liya has a happy marriage, follows the "three obedience and four virtues", and takes good care of the Chen family's men. He had saved the marriage of his daughter and son-in-law, but in the end he failed. Tong Liya divorced, and her father Tong Jisheng's heart hurt the most.
Tong Jisheng, graduated from the Department of Xinjiang Academy of Arts, has served as a teacher of Yining No. 9 Middle School, chief violin, band leader and composer of Xinjiang Yining Art Troupe.
Since 1976, he has created a number of first-class works, which have won awards in the autonomous region and the whole country, and his fame has also resounded in Xinjiang. Later, he married Mao Haiying, who was engaged in art-related work.
In 1983, Tong Jisheng and his wife gave birth to their daughter Tong Liya, and the world of the two evolved into a family of three and became very happy. But because of her busy work, Tong Liya grew up with her grandmother since she was a child.
Because her parents are not around, and she lives in the countryside, Tong Liya has let herself go since she was a child and has become a wild child, and when she is fine, she runs in the fields.
Because there is a particularly large courtyard in front of the house, grandma will grow some vegetables in it, and Tong Liya will sometimes follow her grandmother to work in the field.
Perhaps Tong Liya, who grew up in the mountains, has always had a taste close to nature in her personality, and she has never been afraid of the challenges she encounters.
I don't know if she was influenced by her parents' art, or if she has the talent of the Xibe people in her bones, she has a strong interest in performing arts. At that time, her mother bought her a doll, but she didn't like it, and the only fun thing was to kick the shuttlecock.
And as a wild child, Tong Liya likes to fight unevenly, as long as a friend or little girlfriend is bullied, she stands up without saying a word, never considering whether the other party is a man or a woman, strong or weak, outnumbered or numerous, I don't know if she has dancing skills, so she has never suffered any losses in fighting.
At the age of 5, Tong Liya was sent by her father Tong Jisheng to the Xinjiang Yining Children's Art Troupe to train dance. In order to improve his dance level as soon as possible, he also went to the art college in junior high school and studied in the dance department of the middle school attached to Xinjiang University of the Arts.
In 1996, she was admitted to the Dance Department of Xinjiang University of the Arts, and in her spare time, she filmed advertisements and appeared on stage as a model. At her peak, she worked four jobs at the same time, and she was self-reliant, just to reduce the burden on her family, and during her hard work, she did not forget the pursuit of dance art.
Studying alone, Tong Liya does not feel aggrieved like other people's children, but will take the initiative to seek various opportunities, such as the National Minority Art Show, Miss Xinjiang Selection, etc.
Every time, she takes it seriously, thinking that there will be gains if you pay, so she has been working hard.
In 1998, Tong Liya was successfully selected for her excellent dance to perform in the 50th anniversary military parade, when she was only 15 years old, after following to Beijing, she was shocked, felt that Beijing was so good, and set a goal in her heart: I want to come to Beijing.
After graduating from the Dance Academy, Tong Liya joined the Xinjiang Song and Dance Troupe and became an official dancer. Although Tong Liya was in a state of contentment and happiness at that time, she had opinions on many things, and she felt that she did not have enough knowledge, so she still felt that she wanted to go to college.
Later, someone in the group also asked Tong Liya if she wanted to take the Chinese drama exam, and with the mentality of having fun, she passed the three exams in the professional subject, but her cultural performance was very poor, and in order to be able to go to university, she could only make up for the cultural subject.
Tong Liya, who has poor oral expression, does not speak Mandarin very well, and often can't even distinguish the sound when she speaks, causing her classmates to laugh at her, but fortunately, while laughing, they will help her correct it.
In 2004, Tong Liya was admitted to the Performance Department of ** Drama Academy. Even if she went to college, Tong Liya still didn't dare to relax in Mandarin, as long as she had time, she practiced Mandarin hard, but fortunately, her mother taught Chinese and slowly helped her correct it.
At first, Tong Liya regretted going to the acting department, and from the beginning, she imitated monkeys, mental illness, etc., and she couldn't pull it off because of her good face. Later, it was changed to ** acting, and Tong Liya, who loves to read, slowly transformed the first place from the bottom of the class into the first place in the class.
During her time in school, Tong Liya, who had excellent grades, successfully starred in dozens of dramas and stage plays, organized a group to participate in dance performances across the country, and even participated in the dance performance of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, stunning the world with a new ** dance.
In order to be at ease, Tong Jisheng discussed with his wife Mao Haiying, and was afraid that Tong Liya would suffer, so Mao Haiying came to Beijing to take care of his daughter Tong Liya's life, so that she had enough time to study and work at the same time.
Every morning, Tong Liya goes out to film at five or six o'clock, and Mao Haiying has to get up at four o'clock to cook for her, which is very hard. So much so that now Tong Liya often tells her mother to take care of her body, live an optimistic life, and live a long and healthy life.
In 2007, on the campus of the school, an assistant director said that he wanted her basic information. At that time, there were many directors who would ask students for information, but many of them were like a stone in the sea, and nothing came of it.
But unexpectedly, Tong Liya, who was not hopeful, received a message from the assistant director a few days later, saying that Hong Kong director Er Dongsheng's movie "New Love" needed people.
Tong Liya, who has a unique temperament, successfully entered the crew of "New Love", in which she played the young singer Li Zaiai. Tong Liya walked into the audience's field of vision with a beautiful smile and elegant and moving image.
It was also in 2007 that the fire of the TV series "Soldier Assault" made Chen Sicheng resounding all over the country and became a popular actor.
Chen Sicheng has always hoped to become an excellent director while being a good actor, and is working hard in this direction.
On the other hand, Tong Liya, after graduating from Chinese opera, starred in "The Mother of the World", portraying the Han Dynasty beauty Zhao Feiyan, Tong Liya, with a lovely image, coupled with excellent performances, has become a classic.
Later, in the filming of the TV series "Palace", Tong Liya and Yang Mi became best friends, and it was precisely because of Yang Mi that Tong Liya also ushered in the love of life.
In the fall of 2010, the TV series "Beijing Love Story", written by Chen Sicheng, starring and directed, was filmed, because over the years, the popularity in the circle was good, and Yang Mi, Li Chen, Zhang Yi, Zhang Xinyi and other star friends joined in the star.
It's just that the start is approaching, and Shen Bing, one of the heroines, has not yet been finalized.
One day, Chen Sicheng was interviewing actors in the film and television base, and suddenly walked in a girl with delicate facial features and elegant temperament, which deeply attracted Chen Sicheng.
It's just that after a while, after the girl looked around, realized that she had gone to the wrong room, apologized, and turned around to leave, seeing that the girl was leaving, Chen Sicheng's brain turned quickly and blurted out: You are Tong Liya?
The girl stopped and nodded, and at this moment, she also recognized the person in front of her, who was the "Chengcai" of "Soldier Assault".
In fact, some time ago, the assistant director also recommended Tong Liya, but she was eliminated by Chen Sicheng, thinking that she was not suitable, but she didn't expect to meet her in person, and there were ripples in her heart.
Originally, Tong Liya was going to audition for a crew next door, but she met Chen Sicheng by accident. Chen Sicheng looked at Tong Liya carefully.
Although she didn't wear makeup and dressed plainly, she still couldn't hide her beauty and dignity. In order to be able to keep Tong Liya, Chen Sicheng said: You went to the wrong room, and it is also our fate, let's talk about it and see if there is an opportunity for cooperation.
After chatting for a while, Chen Sicheng changed his mind, and gave the script to Tong Liya, asking her to go back and communicate after reading it. Afterwards, Chen Sicheng went to learn about Tong Liya's past and felt that she was the best candidate for Shen Bing.
And Tong Liya couldn't put it down after reading the script, she felt that she and Shen Bing had a lot of similarities, and she shouldn't miss this opportunity, but if she took over the filming of "Beijing Love Story", the other film contracts in her hand would have to be pushed down, and she needed to think about it.
A good friend persuaded her: This is a double-edged sword, Chen Sicheng's acting is good, but this is his first time as a director, and it is still to be determined what it will look like, and he is a controversial person.
Tong Liya also went to get to know Chen Sicheng, and finally couldn't help but say to herself: It's really controversial, and he has the best and the worst.
Chen Sicheng is very talented, but he was punished by the Shanghai Theater Academy for fighting and was expelled from school, but later returned to the examination room and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with professional results, but was not admitted because of the "bad record" in the past.
Later, he entered the ** Drama Academy with the first grade in his major, and in his junior year, he was nominated for the Best Actor of the Hundred Flowers Award, the Best Newcomer of the Huabiao Award, and won the Best Newcomer Award for Beijing University Student Film with the movie "Judge's Mother".
Therefore, there are indeed many controversies in Chen Sicheng's body, coupled with his scandals and feelings in the circle, he is like a prodigal son.
After learning that Chen Sicheng took a fancy to Tong Liya, Yang Mi was very happy, she went to find Tong Liya and asked her if she came to "Beijing Love Story", and Tong Liya also told Yang Mi about her concerns.
Yang Mi told her seriously: Don't worry, he is a reliable guy, very talented, I have been friends with him for many years, and I know him very well.
In the face of her best friend's words, Tong Liya withstood the pressure and insisted on starring in "Beijing Love Story" despite the opposition of the brokerage company, which also made Chen Sicheng's hanging heart fall to the ground.
Because Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya have a lot of rivalry scenes, before the start of "Beijing Love Story", the two also seized the time to talk about lines and family life together, so as to cultivate the feelings and tacit understanding of both parties.
Regarding the role of Cheng Feng, Chen Sicheng said with emotion: Maybe everyone thinks that love is rare, only when you meet it, you will understand what love is.
Tong Liya continued with his words: What is the family background and whether you have money or not is not the most important thing in love, the most important thing is the sincerity that you are willing to spend your life together.
The four looked at each other, and they felt that they had found the right partner, and they were looking forward to the next performance.
During the filming process, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng's rivalry often sparked, and in it, Chen Sicheng's righteousness and talent were all seen by Tong Liya, and Chen Sicheng was very kind and took care of her.
In Tong Liya's heart, she had a good impression of Chen Sicheng, and gradually, Chen Sicheng, a competent director and excellent actor, regarded Tong Liya as a trustworthy peer and brother in her heart.
It's just that in Chen Sicheng's eyes, he has an idea about her, and has a strong urge to care for her, he understands very well that after this period of contact, he has fallen in love with her.
As the completion date of "Beijing Love Story" approached, Chen Sicheng also seized the time to pursue Tong Liya.
Once, after filming, Chen Sicheng asked tentatively: Do you like a man like Cheng Feng?
Tong Liya replied categorically: I don't like it, I don't like it at all.
Immediately afterwards, she also explained: I don't like pampering, game life*** Of course, this is when he started out, and then he changed, I like my line in the play: With your lover, no matter how bitter it is, it is sweet, and when you are with someone you don't love, you have different dreams in bed every day, what's the point?
Hearing Tong Liya say this, Chen Sicheng implicitly confessed: In this play, the four girls represent spring, summer, autumn and winter, among which Shen Bing, who you play, represents 'winter', dressing innocently and treating feelings professionally.
1. Persistence, I admire her the most, when creating this role, I also wrote the thoughts in my heart, and you just fit these things.
Facing Chen Sicheng's words, Tong Liya was obviously shocked, and then smiled lightly: You hurry up and make up for sleep, if you are too busy every day, it will affect your health, and I am also ready to go back and prepare for tomorrow's work.
Looking at Tong Liya's back, Chen Sicheng felt very disappointed, lying on the bed, he didn't sleep much all night, all he thought about was whether Tong Liya understood the meaning, and whether there was a play?
The next day, Yang Mi found Chen Sicheng and quietly asked: Are you here for real?
This question can make Chen Sicheng confused, and Yang Mi said: I'm asking, do you really want to be in a relationship with Yaya?
It turned out that it was not only Chen Sicheng who couldn't sleep, but also Tong Liya, she understood very well what Chen Sicheng said, but she had been hesitant, because she didn't really want to find insiders, plus Chen Sicheng's previous reputation and reputation were not very good, and his relationship history was relatively rich.
Knowing that Yang Mi and Tong Liya are good friends and best friends, Chen Sicheng said in an affirmative tone: I am sincere to Yaya, I especially hope that she can become my girlfriend, and I will definitely treat her well.
Seeing that Chen Sicheng was so sincere, Yang Mi promised him: You two are my good friends, I think you are a good match, and I will go all out to promote you to be together.
In this way, Yang Mi incarnated as a "matchmaker", and began to be a moon elder and match Chen Sicheng, Tong Liya trusted Yang Mi, so they slowly came together and began to date.
At the beginning of February 2012, Chen Sicheng, Tong Liya and their parents went abroad for a vacation, and on the streets of Japan, the two were wearing couple clothes holding hands, and were photographed by fans, and their relationship gradually surfaced.
At the end of February, the crew of "Beijing Love Story" appeared on the variety show "Happy Camp", and the host ridiculed the scandal between Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya from time to time.
Under such circumstances, Tong Liya took the lead in making her relationship public: I hope everyone will bless us.
Tong Liya's true confession also gave Chen Sicheng the courage to quote a line from Cheng Feng in "Beijing Love Story", and said to Tong Liya with affection: I am the greatest luck in my life to meet you, and you let me know what true love is.
In 2014, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng held a wedding and officially entered the palace of marriage.
was on the variety show "Happy Camp" again, Tong Liya's father Tong Jisheng, because he had a strong idea of male superiority and inferiority of women, he publicly said on the stage: When you arrive at Lao Chen's house, you have to do more work, cook more, and serve him well.
It is precisely because of Tong Jisheng's education problems that Tong Liya has repeatedly put up with Chen Sicheng. Perhaps in Tong Jisheng's concept, there are still old ideas, which also led to a series of later things.
Even though Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya are married, they still don't have any taboos when they face ** interviews, and they also said: Even a man will cheat.
In this way, it can be said that it has caused an uproar. Then, Chen Sicheng did not forget to match his words and deeds, and then there were scandals, several scandals in succession, and he was also photographed**.
Even though Chen Sicheng betrayed the marriage, Tong Liya still remembered her father Tong Jisheng's teachings and should follow the three obedience and four virtues.
A host asked Tong Liya: Chen Sicheng is going to cheat, what should you do?
Tong Liya took all the responsibility on herself, saying: I will perform well, and then strive for it, and quickly adjust my state.
He even said: As long as he can go home.
In the face of Tong Liya's words, all fans felt that it was not worth it, and even felt that Tong Liya was too humble in this marriage.
Moreover, on the talk show, Tong Liya also revealed that when she and Chen Sicheng had a conflict and quarrel, no matter who was right or wrong, Tong Liya apologized first, and then coaxed Chen Sicheng.
It's just unthinkable that compared with Tong Liya's humility, Chen Sicheng's words and deeds once again refreshed the public's three views.
When talking about accidentally burning Tong Liya with a cigarette butt, Chen Sicheng's face was not a little distressed, but said: It's very interesting.
In 2017, Chen Sicheng was once again photographed suspected of cheating, and "read the script" with two women in the hotel.
When the news was **, fans felt pity for Tong Liya and scolded Chen Sicheng on the Internet. When such a thing happened, Tong Liya's father Tong Jisheng should defend his daughter, but he did not support Tong Liya, but instead praised a word to be patient, which may mean that while persuading his daughter to be patient, he should protect his son-in-law Chen Sicheng.
In the face of Tong Jisheng's operation, it is really surprising.
Maybe once or twice of tolerance finally made Tong Liya sober up, and after this incident, she no longer accommodated, but reinvigorated herself with a sentence: "start over".
Since then, Tong Liya has returned to the screen again, standing at the peak of the entertainment industry, and she and Chen Sicheng appear in the same frame less.
Until 2020, the marriage could no longer last, and they chose to divorce.
During this period, Tong Jisheng also saved the marriage of Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng, after all, Tong Jisheng, who values Chen Sicheng so much, may never think that Chen Sicheng is wrong, but his daughter is not good enough.
On May 20, 2021, Tong Liya officially announced that she and Chen Sicheng had divorced in 2020.
Other people's divorces are all regrets, but Tong Liya is cheering.
Perhaps at this moment, Tong Jisheng realized that the times are different, and his insistence on "male superiority and inferiority, three obedience and four virtues" is wrong, and this may also indirectly create Chen Sicheng's unscrupulousness.
Watching her daughter become a single mother, I believe that Tong Jisheng, as a father, is the most painful.
Today, Tong Liya is 39 years old, and although she has had a failed marriage, she still hopes to find another lover.