Hesitation to break up is a problem that has been plaguing many people. When the relationship between two people enters this stage of hesitation, it means that there is already a problem. So, when faced with this decision, how should we make the right choice?
Every couple's situation is different, it may be due to personality mismatch, mismatch of each other's needs, or discovery of each other's intolerable shortcomings, etc. Whatever the reason, we need to think calmly about whether these issues can be resolved through communication and compromise, and whether there is an opportunity to realign our relationship with each other. If the nature of the problem is uncompromising, then breaking up is an inevitable option.
We need to think about the freedom of the mind. Everyone has their own pursuits and dreams, and these pursuits and dreams may sometimes not match the trajectory of the other's life. If we find ourselves tied down in our pursuit of self and unable to achieve our values and goals, then it is time to consider whether to break up. Life is like a course, and we need to have enough freedom to choose our own direction and not be trapped because of our feelings.
Focus on your well-being. When we hesitate in a relationship, we might as well look back and see if we have been deprived of our happiness. Feelings are mutual, and two people together should be mutually fulfilling and satisfying. If we find ourselves becoming unhappy and unhappy in a relationship, then stop stubbornly holding on to it. Whether it is a short separation or a long-term breakup, it is all about being able to find your own happiness again.
When faced with the decision to break up, we also need to think about some practical questions. For example, if we live in the same city, can we still live in peace? Do we have what it takes to carry the burdens of life on our own? How do our family and friends influence our decisions? These are all practical issues that we need to take into account when making decisions, after all, feelings are only a part of our lives and cannot affect other important aspects of our lives.
No matter how difficult the decision to break up may be, we should stick to our own happiness as the starting point. Life is short and precious, and we don't have time to waste in unhappy relationships. Breaking up is not a failure, but an option to thrive better. Believe in yourself, trust your instincts, make the right decisions, and continue to pursue your own happiness.