Children are the hope of the future and the core of the family. However, some parents or educators are using the wrong way of educating and abolishing a child. So, which ones will abolish a child?
1. Evaluate your child's friends casually.
Every child grows at a different rate, and not evaluating the friends around the child is the first step to recognizing the child's social interaction. You can guide your child to think about what you appreciate about your friends and what do you think you can learn from them.
Parents who evaluate others too much will only make children's cognitive judgments one-sided, after all, everyone's perspective is different, and defining too early will only make children stop exploring.
Only when parents do not judge, can children have more ability to explore and think independently.
2. Attack self-confidence.
Hitting a child's self-confidence is also a great way to scrap a child. Parents and educators should encourage their children and give them positive feedback to help them build self-confidence. If children are constantly criticized, blamed, and denied as they grow up, then they can become inferior, lacking courage and creativity.
3. Force children to do things they don't like.
Forcing a child to do something they don't like is also a way to abolish a child. Parents and educators should respect their children's interests and hobbies and give them the freedom to choose what they like. If children are forced to do things they don't like, then they become bored, frustrated, and disappointed.