In the TV series "Ode to Joy".
Qiu Yingying has experienced two failed relationships.
Although she was sad when they first broke up, she soon realized that she had a job, friends, and a family who loved her. Why shed tears for someone who doesn't deserve it?
She understands that if two people are not suitable, they should quickly turn the page and continue with their lives. Obsessing over an unworthy love will only drain one's mental strength, and one can no longer love sincerely.
Those who can choose to let go and let go in time can truly have their own happiness.
If you don't love anymore, let go, let go of the things that don't belong to you, and go for more beautiful things.
When a love is no longer worth cherishing, that person does not belong to you after all. So learn to look away, and love yourself after that. The smart way is to learn to let go of a person and start cherishing yourself from then on.
The quickest way to let go of a relationship is to love yourselfWe can start from these angles, strive to become a better version of ourselves, and strive for a better relationship.
Don't break the thread.
In love to the end.
We lose control, and love comes to an end.
Tell yourself that the relationship is a thing of the past and that this person can no longer be with you.
Once this is clear, there are no more illusions and no longer looking forward to the opportunity to reunite.
If a person really cares about you, no matter how hard you try, you can't get rid of the other person. And the one who doesn't love you, why waste his youth for it?
Since love is irretrievable, you might as well cut off all ties with the other person.
From now on, become a person who has nothing to do with the other person, don't ask for any news from the other person, and don't waste time on that person. Since there is no more love, rush by like a stranger, and then turn around and forget.
Of course, the two were once in love. We can be grateful for the journey we have accompanied, and we will have many fond memories for both sides. But this is only limited to this, the end is the end, and the future life must be good without each other.
To improve yourself.
Ending a relationship can be really hard to accept.
But instead of wasting time on your past love, use this time to improve yourself.
In life, good things and good people will be desirable.
Only when you become good enough can you get close to what your heart is pursuing.
However, self-improvement is never for the sake of others, let alone for the ex to regret missing out.
Understand that in a limited life, you can learn more skills, learn more knowledge, broaden your horizons, and enrich your life.
Only in this way can you have a more wonderful life and make this life meaningful.
In addition to improving personal strength, we should also strive to improve the quality of life. When you are good enough in all aspects, you can truly let go of everything in the past and choose to give up appropriately, so that you can become the excellent version of yourself in front of you.
Don't say no to new love.
Fate is not just about giving to get the desired results.
In fact, many people don't know the truth that loving oneself precedes loving others.
If you want to grasp the direction of your emotions, you must learn how to love yourself so that you can love others better. When two people are together, you will care about each other's diet and rest.
When love is far away from you and you become a person, you should also take good care of yourself.
Only by becoming excellent can you grasp the higher quality of feelings.
Don't think that life has lost its joy just because you have lost the other person. We should be thankful to send away someone who doesn't love you. Taking advantage of the gap in relationships, we should not waste our energy or waste our limited time, but to make our lives better.
If one day, a new affection appears in front of you.
Please don't say no. Because you are better at this time, you have enough charm and strength to attract someone who truly loves you and seize a sincere and long-term fate.
When it comes to love, many people want to be with each other for a lifetime.
However, love is filled with too many illusions, which tend to be easily shattered, and can be disagreed and out of control.
If one day the other person chooses to leave, don't be sad about it.
From that moment on, it is wise to learn to cherish time and take care of yourself. Disconnect from each other and focus on improving your personal abilities and quality of life, so that you will meet a better love.
Whether to let go or not is really just a change of thought. Don't think that whoever leaves whom, will lose the direction of happiness. On the contrary, only by sending away people who do not cherish you can you embrace your true destiny.