Life is like a play, and the emotional tone determines the style of the play; Life is like chess, and the pattern of chess determines the outcome of the game. When playing the big game of chess in life, some women are casual and sloppy, they don't know how to learn and accumulate, they don't know how to lay out wisdom, and with the passage of time, they can only live passively, with narrow horizons, narrow worlds, and a poor pattern that leads to a tragic ending. Life without pattern is like a plate of loose sand, the general direction is different, even if you are lucky to take one or two steps well, it is difficult to get a happy ending.
In real life, there are often situations like this, beautiful women have no wisdom, rich women don't understand life, successful women are unhappy, and unsuccessful women are even more unhappy. Many women have worked hard for most of their lives, and when they reach middle age, they suddenly find that both image and value are constantly declining; Some muddled women have no goals and spend their lives in mediocrity and mediocrity.
The pattern of conduct
As the saying goes, an upstart can be produced overnight, but three generations cannot produce a gentleman. Just like a woman's character and temperament, it can't be formed overnight. Beautiful appearance can only create the opportunity for the first contact, the pattern of conduct can be charming, can stand the test of time, time is easy to age, but elegant conduct can seep out the fragrance of the long river of years.
The pattern of conduct is rich in heart, wisdom and fraternity, as well as the perfect combination of sensibility and reason. A woman with elegant conduct must be kind and generous, she has a gentle, quiet and empathetic personality, has a unique fashion aesthetic, pays attention to dressing, and pays attention to the fit and coordination of external beauty and inner beauty.
Elegant conduct requires the accumulation and precipitation of cultural education for a long time, it is the temperament that exudes from the inside out, and it is the external manifestation of inner cultivation. Beautiful appearance and good appearance can not convey elegant temperament, rich knowledge, broad insight can make people's conduct more and more shining. Therefore, a woman's character and temperament often depend on the amount of her reading, those women who strive to draw nutrients from words to enrich and enrich themselves, time will prove everything, elegance will arise naturally inadvertently, and a mature, gentle, and beautiful temperament will be exuded in gestures, which makes people look forward to it.
Insight on the pattern
Every life experience is designed to make us feel more confident and calm when we start anew. Don't sit back and watch the sky at any time, don't limit yourself to a narrow space, think that what you see is the whole world, and expand as much as possible to the outside world. The world is so big, remember to check it out; The world is so wide that all roads lead to Rome.
Life is wonderful because it is abundant. When you have time, take a long trip and see different scenery; Occasionally try to challenge yourself in an unfamiliar field, maybe you will find surprises and see a different version of yourself; Prepare some books for yourself, and read them on days when you can't travel thousands of miles, so that your soul will be more fragrant. You also have to learn more from excellent people, when you put your heart into the dust, you will find that there are towering trees everywhere that are worthy of your worship. There is no shortage of excellent people around everyone, and the key is whether they have a good heart to learn and tap the advantages of others.
Only by lowering our posture and abandoning our prejudices and learning from others can we become better and stronger. Some people think very highly of themselves, arrogant, think that the criticism of others is provocation or suppression, and are unwilling to quietly examine their own behavior, in fact, most of the people in this world are people who say good things, because there is no cost to say good things, so there are very few people who can sincerely and kindly criticize you, we must cherish and believe that we have the ability to do better.
Emotional pattern
Love makes countless people look forward to it and feel sad, but who can say that they have really seen love! Some people say that it is bitter and makes people taste the pain of the world, some people say that it is sweet and indescribably beautiful, and some people think that plain and plain is the true meaning of love. Good love is when you see the whole world through one person; And bad love is when you give up the whole world for one person. It is a wonderful thing to meet a good love, and the lover can play beautiful music in unison, and the piano and song are endless.
The premise of this is that you must first find a firm and loyal heart, those handsome and delicate faces that are fascinating will be eroded by the years, and only a firm heart can accompany you for a lifetime. Everyone has their own characteristics, at the beginning they came together because of some common ground, but the road to growth is very long, if you don't support each other and grow at different speeds, you will have an out, and finally part ways. There is a very practical side to worldly emotions: you have to be valuable yourself before your efforts will be valued. Therefore, a woman must know what she wants, not confused, not attached, and have self-esteem, so that she can be an excellent self.
In fact, love is a kind of thing used to dress up life, not the foundation of life. Women should not limit themselves to love, but learn to make different friends, let them bring us different ways of thinking, knowledge and experience, so that they can grow from it, and can spread positive energy to each other and achieve each other's lives.
I am a big-eyed libra, focusing on emotional words, using warm and rational words to enrich the days when you want to be wrong, love your persistent appearance, and wish you had light in your eyes and a direction in love. Like my text, remember to follow my Baijia number: Big Eyes Libra].