The best way to end a relationship is to say goodbye.
When a relationship comes to an end, we are often faced with a situation where we are speechless.
Maybe it's the end of love, maybe it's the indifference of friendship, or maybe it's the estrangement of family affection.
No matter what kind of relationship it is, when we realize that it has come to an end, we may choose to run away and choose silence because we don't know how to face this reality.
We are afraid of hurting each other, and we are afraid that we will not be able to bear the sadness and disappointment of each other.
So, we chose the easiest way - to leave silently and disappear into each other's lives without a sound.
However, this inconclusive way of ending makes the other party's heart full of endless regrets and questions.
When we substitute silence for goodbye, it is often a passive and passive way of saying goodbye.
Perhaps because we don't want to face the estrangement and alienation between each other, and are afraid of the cruelty of admitting the truth, we choose silence and avoidance, thinking that this is the best way.
We tell ourselves that maybe we can stop being entangled and hurt each other.
However, this is often not the case.
Those regrets and incomprehensions that don't make it clear and don't say anything will continue to churn in their hearts, like a thorn that pierces people, making it impossible for people to truly let go of their feelings and really get out of the past.
Whenever I think of the bits and pieces of the past, the beauty of the relationship will linger in the memory.
Those good times seem like just yesterday, but reality ruthlessly tells you that everything is a thing of the past.
This panic of not knowing the truth will make people wonder why we are getting farther and farther apart, why are we communicating less and less with each other?
If you try to find answers, you will find yourself in endless confusion and uneasiness.
Because saying goodbye is also an ability that needs to be practiced to learn.
First of all, saying goodbye is an act that requires courage and wisdom.
We often exaggerate the consequences of saying goodbye in our hearts, fearing that our farewell will cause great harm to the other person, and thus take on too much responsibility.
We are afraid to face each other's disappointment and sadness, and we are afraid that we will become a burden to each other's lives.
So, we chose to escape, chose not to face reality, and chose not to say goodbye.
However, saying goodbye is not an end, but a beginning.
It is not only a farewell to the past, but also a welcome to the future.
This means that we can each have a fresh start.
Saying goodbye is a kind of respect and understanding for each other.
We need to learn how to get along with people, how to deal with interpersonal relationships, and how to sprout a new future in the midst of farewell.
Saying goodbye does not mean completely cutting off contact, but allowing each other to step out of the past and welcome a new life.
Only by bravely moving forward on the road of farewell can we better cherish and grasp those people and things that are truly worthy of our efforts.
At the same time, let's not delay friendships that don't exist for the sake of convenience in the future.
Sometimes we fall into the misconception that we have to maintain a relationship with someone because they might help us in the future, or because we don't want to hurt their feelings.
However, this reserved relationship without affection will only make each other feel more distant and uncomfortable.
Each of us has a limited amount of time, and we can't afford to waste precious time on relationships that don't make sense to us.
We need to learn the ability to get along with others, that is, to know how to end relationships that have lost their meaning at the right time, so that we can both let go of the past and welcome new beginnings.
This procrastination and interest can also damage what was once sincere.
When we procrastinate to end a friendship that doesn't exist, we are actually deceiving ourselves and the other person.
We convince ourselves that relationships that are no longer connected still exist, that we still care about each other, when in fact we no longer have that emotion in our hearts.
Such a disguise will only make each other more painful and awkward, and make the relationship more twisted and complicated.
Farewell is an important lesson, it allows us to learn to face each other with a tolerant and inclusive heart, to understand and respect each other.
So, as we bravely face goodbye, we are also paving the way for our own future to make life a better and more fulfilling place.
And the ability to say goodbye is a kind of courage and a kind of responsibility, and this ability will be transferred to other areas to bring us benefits.
Saying goodbye to your face is the best way to end a relationship.
Don't let yourself and the other person get caught up in endless suspicion and regret, and don't put off saying goodbye in order to keep a relationship that has no emotional foundation.
Only by bravely facing the reality and releasing the past can we truly have inner peace and freedom.
Let's learn to face each other with tolerance and understanding, and let's use courage and wisdom to end relationships that no longer suit us and welcome new beginnings.
As we bravely face goodbye, we are also paving the way for our own future to make life better and more fulfilling.