Mill once said: Mother's love is the greatest power in the world. I stumbled upon a short video of a global advertisement, in which a beautiful girl disliked that she was born in a blind family, thinking that her birth was just a free volunteer of her parents, so she complained about her parents and the injustice of fate. But once inadvertently, she heard her mother's recording, which was a mother's apology, and it was not that the mother was selfish to bring her child into this world, but that she just wanted the child to see that the world was really beautiful.
After watching this short video, I thought for a long time, and suddenly thought of Kew Gardens, the "most beautiful mother" who gave up chemotherapy and gave birth to a stillborn child ten years ago, how is that child now?
Choosing one of the two to survive, she left the child Sholom. Alai said: Mother, is the only force that can bring death to its knees. In January 2014, Qiu Yuanyuan, the popular host of Zhengzhou TV's "Who is the winner" column, made a brave decision, that is, to sacrifice himself to save the child in his womb.
In 2012, Kew Gardens and Zhang Qixuan ended their 5-year love run, from school uniforms to wedding dresses, they were extremely sweet and happy. It was not until the end of 2013 that the crystallization of love was ushered in, which added infinite sweet expectations to their happy little home.
However, the joy did not last long, Kew Gardens was about three months pregnant, and she felt that her body was becoming more and more uncomfortable, and she had no appetite, and sometimes she felt soreness and pain in her arms and legs when she went out to go around the community. At first, she thought it was a normal pregnancy reaction and didn't think too much about it. But after that, she lay in bed for several days, feeling more uncomfortable, her arm hurt even more, and she became thinner and thinner. She couldn't help but tell her husband, but Zhang Qixuan didn't comfort his wife, and even said that let her endure it, and it would be good if the pregnancy was stable. Seeing her husband so perfunctory, the temper that Kew Gardens had been holding back finally broke out. "The baby in the womb is not only mine, but also yours! You can bear it so much, you try to get pregnant! "Don't be vexatious! "It was the first big quarrel since they got married. In this quarrel, no one apologized, and before I knew it, the day of the prenatal checkup had arrived, and Qiu Yuanyuan took the initiative to talk to Zhang Qixuan. On the day of the prenatal examination, Zhang Qixuan accompanied Kew Gardens to the hospital. Kew Gardens held his big belly and smiled expectantly. She looked at the portrait on the ultrasound and imagined whether the child in her belly was like a mother or a father. As a mother immediately, she couldn't suppress the joy in her heart. However, the sky is unpredictable. Kew Gardens' prenatal check-up report showed that she was sick, and it was still a very serious illness, and the probability of being completely cured was not high. The illness was a bolt from the blue for Kew Gardens, plunging her into despair and a fatal blow to her family. Zhang Qixuan felt frightened for the first time, both guilty and self-blaming, he knelt in front of his wife and cried bitterly: "Yuanyuan, I'm sorry, it's all my fault, I didn't take you to the doctor in time, I didn't take care of your feelings." "Let's treat the disease first, and let the child go first." "Anti-cancer treatment definitely requires taking medicine, which has an impact on both your body and your child's body. Family and friends advised her to take care of her body first and let the child go. But she didn't want to. "If I had to choose between healing and the child, I would want to keep the child, I have lived in this world for more than 20 years, but he has not seen this world, and I want him to see the beauty of this world. ”
In this way, Kew Gardens gave up fighting cancer and chose to give birth to the child. Everyone doesn't understand why Kew Gardens insists on risking their lives to give birth.
From a rural girl to a CCTV host, she did her best In September 1988, Kew Gardens was born in Linyi, Shandong. Although she can understand that her parents are not by her side in order to have a better life, she still hopes to be by her parents every day and feel their love. Therefore, she has worked very hard to study since she was a child, and she is in the top few grades in elementary and junior high school, in order to get out of the mountains and reunite with her parents.
In a remote rural area where information is closed, the black-and-white TV at home has become the only way for Kew Gardens to understand the outside world, and it also carries her deep longing for her parents. Kew Gardens likes to watch variety shows and CCTV news. She saw that the host standing in the spotlight not only had an outstanding temperament, but also often witty and humorous, which fascinated her, and the dream of growing up to be an excellent host sprouted in her young heart. When she is watching TV alone at home, she will imitate the way the host of "Taisho Variety Show" stands, walks and speaks. Learning is practice, in order to show her learning effect, whenever there is an activity in the school, she takes the initiative to apply to the teacher to be the host. Because of his true love, Kew Gardens stood on the stage, generous and without stage fright. Received unanimous praise from teachers and classmates, which made her more determined to be a host.
After graduating from high school, Kew Gardens was admitted to the Nanguang College of Communication University of China, one step closer to his dream. The first time I entered the beautiful university campus, Kew Gardens saw the gap between myself and others. She knows that she does not have superior family conditions and no proud capital, so she can only study hard. So, when her classmates were busy falling in love and traveling around to get across, she plunged into the library and studied hard. In addition, she actively participates in school clubs and activities to develop her social and organizational skills. In the past three years, Kew Gardens has become a generous and amiable host. When he graduated from college, Kew Gardens was confused, and with the encouragement of her boyfriend Zhang Qixuan, they went to her boyfriend's hometown of Zhengzhou. coincided with Zhengzhou TV's selection of hosts across the country, and Kew Gardens stood out among thousands of contestants with its solid hosting skills. The director also valued her very much, and let her, who was still a newcomer, be in charge of the new column "Who is the winner" in the station.
Kew Gardens, which has entered the state of work wholeheartedly, has made the column an instant hit, and the ratings are increasing day by day. The girl next door with an amiable smile and a generous smile in front of the camera has become the audience's favorite host. Her boyfriend Zhang Qixuan was not to be outdone, and through unremitting efforts, he entered the rural channel of Zhengzhou TV to work. In just 5 years, they bought a house in Zhengzhou with their own efforts, walked into the marriage hall hand in hand, and promised to be together for a lifetime and never give up. With the popularity of "Who is the Winner", CCTV threw an olive branch to Kew Gardens.
With a rare job opportunity on the one hand and the warmth of family on the other, Kew Gardens is faced with a difficult choice.
Children are love and the continuation of life.
Kew Gardens received an invitation from CCTV to go to the headquarters to be a host, but just as she hesitated, she found out that she was pregnant. She asked her husband Zhang Qixuan's opinion, and Zhang Qixuan especially understood his wife's dream of being a host, and persuaded her to let the child go first. But this time, Kew Gardens was willful once, she didn't go to CCTV and wanted to give birth to this child. Because, being a mother has always been her inner expectation. She has lacked love since she was a child, and she has an infinite yearning for family happiness. She believes that happiness is to stay together, to know each other, and that family and children should be the first place in life. After she learned that she had terminal cancer, Kew Gardens once again gave up chemotherapy despite her family's opposition and resolutely decided to give birth to a child.
In her heart, her children and husband are the most important, even if she gives up her life. In order to ensure the health of the child, Kew Gardens began to refuse to use any medication and fought cancer with perseverance. In the process, she endured great pain, and it was difficult to even get out of bed to eat, and the whole person became white and haggard, and she was emaciated. However, the disease continued to rage in her body, and by the time the child was 7 months old, the cancer had spread. In desperation, she could only choose to induce labor.
The child is a premature baby, and his physical development is not yet complete, so he can only stay in the incubator. The petite and fragile child, Kew Gardens looked at it again and again, and thought it was extremely cute. She finally kept their love crystallization for her lover, and she has no regrets. Immediately after giving birth, doctors performed surgery to remove the tumor and gave her radiation and chemotherapy. However, due to the deterioration of the condition, this miracle did not happen. When the child was 100 days old, Kew Gardens closed his eyes forever with reluctance to give up on his children and lovers. As a mother, Kew Gardens chose to sacrifice herself to save her son's life. There are no angels in the world, so there is a mother! Ten years later, Kew Gardens' husband has remarried. And the child Kew Gardens exchanged for his life is smart, lively, kind and brave, just like his mother. Someone has seen the couple holding the child's hand to send him to school, sometimes the child holding the stepmother's hand and coquettish, and the father laughing heartily.
There is such a gentle and kind woman who guards her favorite children and lovers for her. If Kew Gardens has a spirit in the sky, you can laugh at Jiuquan if you think about it.
Gorky said: Mother's love is the greatest power in the world. There is probably no one in this world who is greater than mother, and there is no emotion more powerful than maternal love. Life is a hymn, and Mother plays the most beautiful melody. We are grateful to our mother for bringing us life, and grateful to our mother for raising us. May all the children of the world cherish every day with their parents.