It would be too ungraceful for a man to be unable to control his mouth and say hurtful words.
When a woman is angry, she speaks angry, but when a man is angry, she speaks the truth. You have to know that whether a man loves you or not depends not on how good he is to you when he is good, but how bad he is to you when he is bad. If he doesn't care about your feelings, he will say anything ugly, because I don't care about you, I don't care if you are sad or not, it is your own business if you are sad. So if I cared about you, I'd think twice about it, and I'd take care of my own words.
If you read this article well, no matter how ugly what he says to you, as long as the girl says this sentence, she will obediently apologize to you. This trick is very useful, and it is estimated that no one on the whole network may teach you.
For example, a man is telling the woman next to him, you see that you are such a vain woman, you are such a loser...To put it simply, it's called personal attack, and if it goes a little deeper, it's called the whole denial of you as a person. The representative of a loser woman is a character problem, so what does it mean, any man you marry has to defeat him, this kind of thing can't be said, and people with cultivation and wisdom will not say this kind of thing.
Do you say men have vanity? It is that everyone has vanity, but whether the vanity is big or small, this is the first type.
The second word that destroys our relationship with each other, and it is a long-term destruction, now young couples, young couples quarrel, like to put two words on their lips - divorce, women sometimes have emotions up, sometimes can't control it, of course, it's better not to say, I think men really don't take it seriously at this time, because women are angry when they say it, but if a man says when he's angry, I'm going to divorce you, then otherwise you really say that, otherwise if you're angry, You're a man who says that, and you haven't really done that, I don't think this man can really control his mouth.
Therefore, men should not say this kind of thing to destroy the relationship with each other, and it is a long-term destruction, and these two things should be paid attention to. Sometimes you'd rather hurt yourself than hurt others, especially your lover. I think sometimes language is like a nail, when we say something hurtful, it's like driving a nail into a piece of wood, you can pull the nail out, but the hole in the nail is always there.
There is a saying in China that if you say it, you can't get back the water you spilled. Because quarreling itself is a way of communication, it is far more important for husband and wife to quarrel well than to live in harmony. Sometimes men quarrel and say nasty things to you, and sometimes it's a good thing. That's why I often say that many men have one in their hearts, not only will they not grow up for the rest of their lives, but this child is a wounded child. For example, when he is usually at home, he is a good husband, a good father, very gentle and considerate, and takes special care of his family, but does he have any grievances? Is there anything that is unhappy in your heart? He doesn't necessarily talk about it, but these things are held back in the child, and then the child will suddenly help run out, and then lose his temper. In fact, this tantrum is a good sign, but if the man does it every day, it means that he is immature, does not grow up, and has low emotional intelligence. But if this man is very occasional, I think it's normal, so as a woman, I think it's important to have a cognition, when a man is mad, is it true that he says those hurtful words, is it the truth of the moment or the truth all along? Let me make a very simple analogy, today I quarrel with my wife, I am very angry at the moment, I feel that I don't want to live this day, but at this time, do I really feel that I don't want to live this day at the moment? I really don't want to live this day at the moment, but please note that that's what I think now, so that the child in my heart will continue to be hurt a little, and if I don't feel happy, I will be mad, and I will be obedient when I finish sending it, so what should I do? That's too much, so how do I adjust it? You have to always remember that no matter how ugly he says to you, as long as a girl says this sentence, he will make him apologize to you obediently. Husband, I know you're stressed, I know, you're hard, I can understand that. As soon as my husband heard this, he wilted, and to deal with a negative person, you must cover him with positive energy.
So in fact, a complaining person, a person who loses his temper, his heart is painful, his heart is self-denial, he must have an ideal, a life that he has not reached. So at this time, you have to learn this sentence first, called I understand you, this thing is called emotional wisdom, emotional wisdom is the ability to understand other people's emotions, so a woman has high-dimensional wisdom, high-dimensional energy, can she use her energy and wisdom to prosper? It would be nice if the husband had a prosperous home.
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