It is generally believed that drunken words spoken by men are nonsense, and that drunken behaviors are uncontrolled.
More and more I find that the appearance of a man after being drunk is the other most authentic self.
Friends said that I understand more and more the various behaviors of my husband after being drunk, and that is the most real him.
She said that usually her husband has a gentle personality and is obedient, but when he is drunk, he is irritable and irritable, he will accuse her of her faults, and will say some cruel things, and when she ignores him, he will keep pestering him, and if he wants to communicate and is rejected, he will be furious, smashing mobile phones and smashing things!
Irritable and irritable is my husband's truest temperament, before, I didn't understand him, especially wanted to divorce him, slowly, I understood his drunken behavior.
Friends said that she is a person who particularly hates drinking, so after her husband gets drunk, she doesn't care about him at all, she won't even pour him a glass of water, and she doesn't want to help him when he falls. Usually the same, she gave almost all her love to the child, indifferent to him, she admitted that she didn't love him enough, he should be sensitive.
Therefore, after getting drunk, her husband would express his dissatisfaction with her, and ask her for love in a constant pestering way, but she was rejected by her irritable emotions, and he became very irritable. This is also the reason why they have to quarrel every time they drink.
However, later, the wife made a move, and the husband changed.
Tao Dalei of the TV series "Fireworks People" is also such a hateful and pathetic person.
When he's not drinking, he has a hippie smile and a free look. When the daughter-in-law is unhappy, he will work hard to please her, rub her shoulders and cook delicious meals.
But when he is drunk, he will become very sensitive, and if he says something wrong, his face will change drastically, accusing his wife of looking down on him.
Sometimes, when he is drunk, he is like a child, crying helplessly and panicking.
fromWe can see that the drunk man has degraded to his true self, and his usual performance is acting!
Psychologist Freudian psychoanalytic theory believes that the drunken self is another hidden self.
Therefore, the appearance of a man after being drunk is the most worthy of a woman's in-depth study.
If he says "I don't love you" when he's drunk, it might really be "don't love you"!
If he cried after getting drunk, then he might really be wronged!
If he's drunk and angry, it's possible that he's expressing displeasure!
All these performances reflect the most real relationship between husband and wife.
The aforementioned friends, the relationship between husband and wife is very flat, the husband and wife have long been separated, and they are basically busy with each other, and there is not much communication at ordinary times.
The marriage between Meng Wanqing and Tao Dalei in "Smoke and Rain" is also controversial, although Tao Dalei has a lot of criticism from men, but Meng Wanqing is also problematic as a wife, she likes to be busy, does not care about the family, and does not allow Tao Dalei to be intimate with her, and the relationship with company leaders and old classmates is unclear and unclear.
However, the difference is that the friend recognized her own shortcomings in handling the relationship between husband and wife, and later, after her husband was drunk, she took the initiative to care for her husband and poured him a glass of water, and when he was unhappy, he comforted his emotions, and the husband actually smiled happily and praised her desperately.
Tao Dalei's drunken performance never attracted Meng Wanqing's attention, so their relationship eventually broke down.
Written at the end: "This is not false at all.
According to Freud's theory, the brain of a drunk person enters a state of deep unconsciousness under the anesthesia of alcohol, and the images or words that were once hidden in the deepest part of the heart will be expressed involuntarily, but the drunk person does not know it, because he has lost his active consciousness.
The underlying content belongs to the most authentic part, so there is a "drunken confession".
So, what a man says and behaves is another hidden self, ecstatic or sad or irritable, if his wife is smart enough, don't treat it as "gibberish", but reflect on your relationship.