When you realize you're in a predicament, it's important to get out of the way. Don't let someone or something get in your way, as constant distress will only hinder your growth. Being too passive and too entangled are both shackles of the soul. Life is like a marathon, and emotional management is the key. Only through self-awakening, self-redemption, self-cultivation and self-transcendence can we break the shackles and optimize our own energy field. Resolutely let go of unnecessary entanglements and focus on your own path, and good fortune will naturally come as promised.
I feel the same way! Life is like a muddy picture in which each of us struggles, trying to get through each day with ease. Looking back on the past, those past pains and gloom are like stubborn parasites, clinging to our bones, gnawing at our hearts from time to time, making us miserable.
However, things are not always going to be as good as we want, and if we dwell too much on these painful things, we will only let ourselves fall into endless troubles and pain. Eventually, we may find that we are not at fault with things, but with ourselves.
As the old saying goes: "Overwork leads to injury, and worry becomes a disease." "If a person is deeply involved in a matter and is entangled and unable to extricate himself, the only victim in the end is himself. The psychological entanglement and burden are enough to crush a healthy person. Life is a long journey, full of ups and downs, and it is not easy to manage your emotions consistently. However, only self-examination, self-help, self-cultivation, and self-crossing can solve this dilemma.
In life, self-healing power can be described as the most valuable talent. Psychologists once said that the most fearful thing in life is not pain, but the fear hidden in the heart. If you want to become stronger, you must overcome your fears. Truly exceptional people are not those who have never been injured, but they know how to heal themselves. Since there is nowhere to run, let the heart be joyful; Since it didn't work out, then take it in stride. There are many things, and since there is nothing we can do about them, the best way to deal with them is to accept them. Accept backfire, accept loneliness and frustration, and embrace the ups and downs of life. For those grains of sand that can't be grasped, we might as well raise our hands and let them drift away in the wind.
Only by facing reality can people open a new chapter for themselves. Only by learning to let go can we make room for the treasures that truly belong to our hearts. In this world, no one is immune to the bitterness of life, but it is always ourselves who can save us from our difficulties. Everyone has the courage and determination to face reality, and only in this way can we become the helmsman of our own lives.
Perhaps, we can't change the environment, but we can change our mentality. When the mind moves, matter changes; The realm created by the heart determines our situation. Let's look further and be broad-minded. Don't lose confidence in life because of a temporary hardship and feel that the world is not worth it.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "The loss of memory is a kind of reproach for us when we were children, but it is a kind of wisdom in our prime." ”
As the years go by, we will eventually understand that forgetting is a gift of life. There are some people and some things that we should let go. Resentment, unwillingness, these negative emotions will only make us fall into the quagmire and unable to extricate ourselves. Let those traces of the past fade into the long river of time. There is no need to dwell on the pain of the past, because the road of life is long, and we are all travelers of time.
When we look back one day, we will find that those tribulations and storms have turned into boundless sunshine. So, let's forget about those unhappiness, cut off unnecessary concerns, purify the atmosphere around us, and focus on our own path. In this way, good fortune will meet us at some point in the future.
Author: Huang Shao).
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