As long as the woman generously "gifts" these things, the man will immediately dispel the idea of leaving.
There is such a couple, they met in college, fell in love with graduation, and stayed together at work. Their relationship has always been sweet, the girl thinks the boy is her prince charming, and the boy thinks the girl is his Cinderella. They have experienced a lot together, overcome a lot of difficulties together, and share a lot of happiness together. Their friends envy them and think they are a match made in heaven.
As time passed, a rift appeared in their relationship. The girl found that the boy was becoming more and more cold, more and more silent, and less and less caring. Boys also find that girls are becoming more and more headstrong, more critical, and more and more dissatisfied. There are more and more quarrels between them, and there are fewer and fewer sweet words. They both begin to doubt each other's feelings and even think about breaking up.
What's going on? Why does a seemingly perfect relationship become so broken? Actually, the reason is very simple, that is, women do not give men what they want. What is it? It's not money, it's not material, it's not sex, it's three more precious things, and that's care, trust, and understanding.
Caring is the warmth that men need most. Many women think that men are strong and don't need to care, they just need to enjoy. In fact, men also have emotions, needs, and preferences. They can also feel tired, they can feel annoyed, and they can feel lonely. They also want someone who cares about them, cares about them, and loves them.
Women need to learn to give men care in their daily lives. For example, get up in the morning, give him a gentle kiss, ask him what he has planned for today, and wish him a smooth journey. For example, take a break at noon, send him a text message, ask him what he ate, remind him to pay attention to his body. For example, come home at night, give him a hug, ask him how he is doing today, and listen to him. These seemingly insignificant little things can actually make a man feel your care, feel your warmth, and feel your sweetness. He will feel that you are his safe haven, his soulmate, and his favorite.
Trust is the respect that men need the most. Many women think that men are unreliable and do not need to be trusted, only need supervision. In fact, men also have self-esteem, responsibility, and loyalty. They will also work hard for you, they will fight for you, and they will pay for you. They also want someone to believe in them, trust them, and support them.
Women need to learn to trust men in their relationships. For example, don't suspect his whereabouts for no reason, don't ask for his password unreasonably, and don't guess his mind for no reason. For example, don't interfere with his work, don't restrict his socialization, don't deprive him of interest. For example, don't question his abilities, don't belittle his achievements, don't laugh at his dreams. These seemingly inconsequential little things can actually make men feel your trust, feel your respect, and feel your support. He will feel that you are his confidant, his comrade-in-arms, and his strongest.
Understanding is the comfort that men need most. Many women think that men don't care, they don't need to understand, they just need to be accompanied. In fact, men also have pressure, difficulties, and hardships. They will also experience setbacks, they will also suffer, and they will also feel lost. They also want someone to understand them, understand them, and comfort them.
Women need to learn to give understanding to men in difficult situations. For example, don't blame him for his mistakes, don't complain about his silence, don't quarrel because of his irritability. For example, don't dictate his choices, don't interfere with his decisions, and don't ignore his opinions. For example, don't turn a blind eye to his efforts, don't be indifferent to his efforts, and don't laugh at his sacrifices. These seemingly inconspicuous little things can actually make men feel your understanding, feel your comfort, and feel your tenderness. He will feel that you are his dependence, his comfort, and his warmest.
In short, as long as the woman generously "gifts" these three things, the man will immediately dispel the idea of leaving. Because, these three things are the most desired and rare things for men. With these three things, men feel that they are the happiest and luckiest in the world. With these three things, men will be dead to you, and they will be obedient to you. With these three things, men will be in love with you, and they will grow old with you.
There is such a passage on the Internet, which is very well said: "The secret of a long-term relationship is not how much you love each other, but how much you believe, believe in each other's loyalty, believe in each other's efforts, and believe in each other's future." A life of trust and understanding is what the heart desires. "Women, do you understand? Would you like to give it a try? If you are willing, then your man will always love you and never leave you.
Thank you for reading, I hope you found this article helpful, and I wish you a happy relationship.