I haven't watched romance movies on the big screen for a long time, and I feel that I have passed the age of watching romance movies.
Paying attention to "You Who Were Lost by Me" started with director Han Yan, and "The Sky of the Wind Dog Boy" is still a unique youth drama, Douban 81。
screenwriter Zheng Zhi's "Coward" writes about the declining Northeast city and the cruelty of growing up. The short story ** "Immortal Disease" was praised by the writer Su Tong for contributing a new character image. The movie is called "Lost", of course, it is the process of slowly letting go of the hand.
It's quite emotional to watch it, it's really a new generation of romantic dramas.
No third party, no bloody car accidents, no huge financial problems.
Some are just-
When love is no longer an absolute necessity, how do young people choose in the face of life.
The beginning of love will always be, "You are unique in the world".
Bai Xiaoyu (played by Tan Jianci) and Wang Jinjin (played by Zhang Jingyi) are high school classmates, American writers that both of them like, with a dark and weird style, but it is something that resonates tacitly in their souls.
Love really doesn't need any reason, among thousands of people, you are my thunder and fire.
At the most brilliant moment of the fireworks, they talked about "Ligia" in the taxi, left each other lights and food, and carefully gave each other eye drops ......
It's what it's like to be prepared enough to live a lifetime together.
But the beginning of life is always "nothing new under the sun".
We can't make life a background and highlight the highlight of love.
On the contrary, it was not long before we found out,Love is just one thing in life.
What are the other things?
When asked about buying a house, I could only answer "a monthly salary of 6800 and a rent of 4500" to hurt my self-esteem.
It is a moment of romance and the embarrassment of forgetting to pay the electricity bill.
It is the boss discipline of "what the customer wants, you give" and "if you don't change it well, get out", it is the only way to turn a lifelong hobby into a career.
In addition to loving each other, we also want toGrow up.
What moment did I know that love was extinguished?
In the beginning, you thought of it as my cuteness.
At the end of the day, you think it's my dead nature.
Was it just one or two quarrels that got us here?
No, the scary thing is that no matter how much we reconcile, we can't seem to go back to the beginning.
Twice in the movie, Bai Xiaoyu and Wang Jinjin were full of expectations and wanted to upgrade this relationship in the conflict, and twice created communication scenes, they said to each other: "Come to me, dress better." ”
Bai Xiaoyu said this because he wanted to propose marriage and give the other party stability.
Wang Jinjin said this because she was promoted and wanted to give the other party hope.
That set of comparison shots, you suddenly feel it intuitively-
The two people like dark works, and the logic behind them is not the same.
The boy's life is gentle and stable, he just wants to continue, and a warm family is his pursuit.
Girls have experienced being suddenly abandoned by their fathers, relying on their mothers, suddenly being re-volunteered, and not talking to their mothers for several years-
In the midst of the changes, she was uneasy, and she wanted to become stronger first to protect herself.
There are two scenes of bed conversation in the movie.
Once, two people covered a quilt, and Bai Xiaoyu intimately helped Wang Jin fold the quilt.
Once, two people returned from outside, did not wash or remove makeup, slept in clothes, and had their backs to each other without saying a word.
In the face of strong life pressures and trivialities, love finally loses its strength.
It gradually turned pale, deformed, and slowly flowed away, and everyone could not do anything, slowly losing each other, and slowly being lost by each other.
In the end, love taught them that it was to escape reality.
While playing the board game, the woman said:
The most terrifying thing is only one sentence: this is their unchanging life.
This is a metaphor for love's fear of life.
If the movie stays here, it's still a simple chick movie.
When the parents' lives appear as a contrast, it suddenly has a texture.
Wang Jinjin's mother, like countless Chinese mothers, raised her daughter alone, stayed in her hometown, hard-mouthed and soft-hearted.
praised her daughter for being excellent in person, and said to Bai Xiaoyu behind her back: "Which mother wants her child to be strong?."”
Bai Xiaoyu's family is closer to the template of happiness.
But when it comes to "how to live your life", Dad's answer is intriguing
We don't know how we got through this mess. Besides, you are only children. ”
The idea of the movie jumped out of the "industrial saccharin" movie.
than the obvious, unobtainable ending;Even if the pursuit is exhausted, "what will happen then" is the biggest problem for contemporary young people.
You Who Were Lost by Me", Wang Jinjin asked Bai Xiaoyu's father a question-
"Uncle, do you say that two people may always be as good as they were at the beginning? ”
This is really the question of the times.
Love will will, solve the problem, but what about the solution? What do you really want?
After all, today's girls have used Wang Baochuan as a negative teaching material to educate the love brain.
After all, Wang Jinjin, as a representative of contemporary girls, has long been dressed in a gothic outfit, cool and sassy.
Like Lygia's dark and dreamy wedding dress, she can lead the way in a haunted house, she will take the initiative to pinch her face and ask for a kiss, and naturally smoke on the rooftop.
You Who Were Lost by Me", perfectly shows the difference in the views of marriage and love between the two generations, but it tells everyone very harmoniouslyHappiness can be less oppositional.
Wang Jinjin finally discovered that life is not just about dreams, it is cruel and will deceive you.
Therefore, people, in the end, need comfort.
It's not that you don't want love, you can definitely win the world; It's not that you reject the person who is sincere to you, you rely on your loneliness and bravery, and you hang up.
Bai Xiaoyu is also growing, and the way he grows up is more painful.
In the movie, one of the most memorable episodes for me was when Bai Xiaoyu went to see eye diseases.
Facing the sunset, he had mixed feelings about his future and asked a fellow patient who came to see him.
Will you be afraid? "The patient said, yes.
But when that moment really comes, you are not afraid, you just regret why you didn't do what you should have done at that time. ”
When the patient stood up, Tan Jianci suddenly found that the other party was a blind person.
He paused, called out to the other, he said.
"Today's sunset, it's beautiful. ”
It was a scene that touched me.
In the face of the tides of the universe, love and hate are the same as sunrise and sunset, no matter how beautiful they are, they are all in a moment.
Much greater than that moment is the law, the evolution, the fact that time never looks back.
I have a good impression and just like it.
Facing a fragmented life together, not letting go of your hands, and solving problems when you encounter them, that's love.
From Xiang Liu in "Sauvignon Blanc" to Shen Yi in "Crime Hunting Guide", Tan Jianci returned to the big screen after a long absence, bringing the sense of brokenness into every scene.
the stubborn silence of parting in the snow; Facing the wall full of **, the heartbreak and grievances that come with memories; Crying because of family affection, trying to hide the vulnerability.
You Who Lost Me Tell us,Boys can also be hurt for love.
March 8th is Girls' Day, and although this movie is created by a male creator, a male creator has created a film with a very feminine charm.
It's good when a romance movie is more than just romance and has inspiration for the younger generation.
I hope we really learn to love each other well in life, and live seriously in love.