On the big stage of life, everyone is an actor, always facing a variety of scripts: joy, sadness, anger, peace, ......Controversy and conflict are common and tricky chapters in these many plots. They are like the whirlpool of power, which makes people inadvertently fall into it, and it is difficult to extricate themselves. However, a truly wise man can navigate such a whirlpool with ease and not be trapped by it. They know that arguments are only a brief storm after which they will calm down. Therefore, wise people will choose to use wisdom and patience as a beacon to lead themselves to balance in the storm. First, they understand that arguing is often not the best way to solve a problem. Many times, arguments only make things more complicated and even lead to more contradictions. Therefore, they choose to communicate in a calm tone and a rational attitude, avoiding letting emotions dominate their actions.
Second, they know how to let go of some unnecessary disputes. There are always things in life that can't be changed, and instead of dwelling on them, learn to accept them and let them go. This will not only make you feel more relaxed, but also avoid unnecessary fights. In the end, they always maintain a peaceful heart. No matter what challenges and difficulties they face, they can deal with them with peace of mind. Such a mindset allows them to remain calm and rational in the face of arguments and conflicts, which leads to better problem-solving.
In general, arguments and conflicts in life are inevitable, but how to maintain self-cultivation and wisdom in them is something we can master. Only by learning to face problems with a peaceful mind and communicating with a rational attitude can we better resolve conflicts and avoid the escalation of struggles. In this way, we can truly become wise men on the stage of life and deduce our own wonderful life. 