I stood at my grandmother's funeral, surrounded by an atmosphere of sadness. I saw my grandmother's friends and relatives, their eyes full of sadness and regret. Grandma is a very kind and optimistic person, and her passing was a huge blow to our whole family. However, it pained me that my aunt's family did not come to my grandmother's funeral. This makes me feel very sad and disappointed. After all, Grandma used to care for them with great care and care, and they actually chose to be absent when she needed them the most.
I walked up to my aunt and asked softly, "Auntie, why didn't my aunt's family come?" The aunt replied lightly: "They have their business, maybe they just can't come." "An unspeakable grievance and anger welled up in my heart. When my eldest uncle died, our family rushed to their home as soon as possible to see them off and share their grief. But now, when our grandmothers need them, they ignore them. This indifference and unfairness is unacceptable to me.
When I got home in a low mood, I discussed it with my parents. The father said softly, "Maybe they have their problems, and we don't have to worry about them." But I couldn't let go, and the behavior of my aunt's family made me feel anxious and uneasy. Should we go to my uncle's funeral? This question has been haunting my mind.
I couldn't sleep, and the contradictions in my heart kept me up at night. The disappointment of my aunt's family and the loss of my grandmother left me feeling physically and mentally exhausted. It wasn't until early in the morning that I decided to have a good talk with my parents.
Mom and Dad, I've been thinking about the question, should we go to my aunt's funeral? I asked hesitantly.
The father took a deep breath and said, "Son, since we have chosen to respect the living, we should also respect the dead. Whether or not the aunt's family is present at our grandmother's funeral, we should act according to our conscience. If Grandma is still around, she will definitely want us to live in harmony with my aunt's family. Moreover, each of us knows in our hearts what is right, and we have to believe in ourselves no matter what our choice is. ”
My mother gently shook my hand and said, "Son, life is full of choices. Since we have chosen kindness and tolerance, then we must take the first step and extend a friendly hand to my aunt's family. Whatever they do to us, we have to treat each other with kindness, not only to show our love to grandma, but also so that we have no regrets in our own hearts. ”
Taking a deep breath, I knew my parents were right. In this world, we can't control other people's choices, but we can control our own choices. I want to treat my aunt's family with kindness, not for anything else, just to leave no regrets. Because, I know very well that my grandmother in the spirit of heaven also wants us to live in peace.
So, my parents and I agreed that we would go to my uncle's funeral. This is not to show our gesture, but out of our respect for the deceased and kindness to the living. I was relieved and knew that this was the choice my grandmother wanted us to make. I slowly let go of my aunt's family's disappointment and incomprehension, because I knew that each of us had our own difficulties and different choices. I chose to be tolerant and understanding, and it was precisely in order to say goodbye to my grandmother peacefully.
I walked into my aunt's funeral with my parents, and my aunt's family's expressions were serious and indifferent. But I was not affected by their attitude, because I knew that everything we did was out of love for grandma and respect for the living. My parents and I prayed silently in front of my uncle's coffin to send our sincerest wishes. I don't care about their eyes and attitudes anymore, because I know that everything we do comes from a kind and forgiving heart.
As an ordinary person, I know that life is full of choices and choices. No matter what difficulties and challenges we encounter, kindness and tolerance will always be our best choice. Because only in this way can we find true peace and tranquility in the depths of our hearts. The loss of my grandmother and the indifference of my aunt's family taught me tolerance and acceptance, which is perhaps the most important lesson that life has taught us. With endless thoughts for my grandmother and a yearning for a better life, I firmly believe that every kind choice will become the most beautiful scenery in our hearts.
At my uncle's funeral, my parents and I prayed silently. Suddenly, the silence was broken by the aunt's voice.
Ah, isn't this a relative of my family? "My aunt couldn't help but be a little surprised when she saw us.
I stepped forward, smiled and said, "Auntie, let's attend my uncle's funeral." ”
An elusive look flashed in her aunt's eyes, but soon a faint smile appeared on her face. "Thank you for coming, my family is not here, your presence makes me feel very warm. ”
When I heard my aunt's words, I couldn't help but feel a little relieved. Perhaps the aunt's absence from her grandmother is not out of indifference, but because of her own helplessness and difficulties. I no longer dwell on why my aunt's family didn't come, but I felt that a stone in my heart had fallen to the ground.
After the funeral, my parents and aunt and I talked about the past, and it seemed that I had a sense of intimacy that I hadn't had for a long time.
Thank you for your understanding and forgiveness, and I'm sorry I couldn't attend my grandmother's funeral. There was a hint of apology in the aunt's tone.
I sighed, "Auntie, there will always be some helplessness and regret in life, I can understand it." ”
The parents also hurriedly comforted the aunt: "Don't take it to heart, let it pass." ”
My aunt nodded, then looked at me: "I'm sorry I disappointed you." ”
I shook my head, "It's okay, auntie, we're all family." ”
This funeral taught me a lot. I know that guilt and self-blame will not resolve disputes after all. Everyone will have their own things to deal with, their own helplessness and difficulties. Truly knowing tolerance and understanding is the key to making life better. As my grandmother used to say to me before she died, "Be tolerant of others, forgive others, and then your heart will be more peaceful." "I will continue to be kind and tolerant, because I am convinced that this is the most precious legacy that my grandmother left me. May Grandma rest in peace in the spirit of heaven.
After listening to my words, my aunt's expression eased a lot. She looked at me affectionately and said gratefully, "Child, you are really sensible and kind, and I am very grateful that you can understand me as an incompetent aunt." ”
I smiled and shook my head, "Auntie, you are too polite to say this, you are worthy of being an incompetent aunt, it's just the relationship between our family, what will be incompetent." As long as we tolerate and understand each other, isn't it more important? ”
After hearing this, the aunt showed a bright smile on her face, "Child, you are so sensible, it seems that I am old and cannot be as sensible as you." I will definitely try to get along harder in the future, maybe something will change. ”
Parents also expressed their understanding and support, "Auntie, we are a family, no matter what happens in the future, we will support each other and tide over difficulties together." ”
Listening to our words, my aunt's eyes turned red, and she couldn't help wiping her tears and said, "You really touched me, I will work harder to face everything in the future and no longer run away." ”
This conversation after the funeral made our family more harmonious and intimate. Perhaps, it is this funeral that makes us realize the importance of cherishing and understanding each other. No matter what comes our way in the future, I believe we will all get through it together.
On the way home, my heart was filled with warmth and gratitude. Although this funeral gave me a lot of twists and turns, it eventually brought me a deeper understanding and made me more convinced of the power of tolerance and understanding.
I know that the road of life is full of ups and downs, but as long as we have good intentions and learn to be tolerant and understanding, we will be able to move forward with determination, no matter how great the difficulties we encounter. My heart is full of expectations and hopes for the future, and I believe that as long as we understand and tolerate each other, happiness and warmth will always be with us.
Leaving my aunt's house, I returned home and picked up the photo of my grandmother on the wall. Looking at my grandmother, I smiled, my eyes full of happiness and gratitude. Grandma, although your departure has made us painful, it has also made me more aware of the value of family affection and the importance of tolerance. I will always cherish the deep memory of you, continue to take every step of the way, and inherit the kindness and tolerance you left me.
Being kind to others and forgiving others is the value I want to pass on, and it is also the path of life that I want to pursue. As my grandmother once said to me, "Kindness and tolerance are the codes for a good life, no matter what difficulties we encounter, only when our hearts are full of love and tolerance, can we become truly happy people." "Grandma, in the spirit of heaven, please rest assured, I will always remember your teachings and live a wonderful life.
When I got home, I took out a diary that my grandmother had left for me before she died. Flipping through the diary, those tiny handwriting seemed to become clear before my eyes.
It's a joy to see my grandson again today. "Grandma's handwriting is calm and dashing.
Without mercy, I turned to my grandmother's diary during her illness.
It is everyone's responsibility and obligation to take care of the family, and we should certainly tolerate and understand each other, so that the family affection is always warm. "This is the last diary that my grandmother wrote.
I seemed to see the dry and yellowed diary in my grandmother's hand, and she recorded so many ordinary and warm lives one by one. My heart is filled with infinite nostalgia and gratitude for my grandmother. Her every word was like a beacon that illuminated the depths of my heart.
Suddenly, the ** rang.
Hey, it's me, auntie. ”
Oh, auntie, what's wrong with you? ”
Kid, I'm still so guilty that my grandmother didn't go to her funeral after she left. ”
Auntie, you don't have to be like this, we all understand your situation. ”
No, child, I've been feeling guilty, I've been talking about grandma for the past two days, can you accompany me to grandma's grave again? ”
Of course, I'll go with you. ”
The loss of my grandmother has grieved our family for a long time, but it has also made us cherish life even more. Everyone has their own difficulties, and we need to learn to be tolerant and understanding. My aunt took responsibility for her past mistakes, and these guilty words hit me straight to my heart. Whether it is the teachings left by my grandmother or the guilt of my aunt, I have a deeper understanding of the relationship between people and the preciousness of family affection.
Step out of the house and see the silent cemetery. In front of her grandmother's grave, her aunt knelt down, tears blurring her eyes.
Grandma, I'm sorry you ......The aunt's voice trembled.
I stood aside, and a deep feeling of emotion and realization welled up in my heart. In this quiet cemetery, we feel the fragility and epiphany of life. The loss of a deceased loved one is undoubtedly a heavy burden, but for us who are alive, we should cherish each other and grasp the present. Because only by knowing tolerance and understanding can we have true happiness. This unexpected journey not only shortened the distance between me and my aunt, but also benefited us a lot.
The moment I left the cemetery, I felt an inexplicable sense of relief and relief in my heart. Along the way, I learned to be tolerant and understanding, and inherited the most precious legacy that my grandmother left me. All kinds of entanglements and pains in my heart were resolved at this moment. I am convinced that as long as we continue to take every step with kindness and tolerance, we will definitely become better people and live a better life.
Because being kind to others and forgiving them is the key to a happy life. "Grandma, in the spirit of heaven, please rest assured, I will always remember your teachings and live a wonderful life.
After leaving the cemetery that day, my aunt and I remained silent. Along the way, the wind blew through the hem of our clothes, with a hint of coolness. Suddenly, my aunt stopped and looked up at me. Her eyes were filled with gratitude and apology.
Thank you for accompanying me to see Grandma. The aunt said softly.
I shook my head, "There's nothing to thank you for, Grandma has left us so much love and care, and we have to remember her all the time." ”
The aunt nodded gloomily, "Child, in fact, I have always felt guilty that my grandmother did not attend her funeral after she left. I had so many things to deal with during that time, and my mind was in a mess. ”
I deeply understand my aunt's feelings, "Auntie, everyone has their own difficulties and troubles, and we all understand your difficulties. ”
My aunt looked at me and said word by word: "I thank you for your understanding and tolerance, I will work harder to face everything in the future and no longer run away." ”
I smiled and took my aunt's hand, "Auntie, our family needs to understand and support each other, and this is the most important thing." ”
During this funeral trip, I learned a lot about the value of tolerance and understanding. Looking at the smile on my aunt's face, my heart was full of satisfaction and gratitude. No matter what difficulties I may face in the future, I will continue to pass on the kindness and tolerance that my grandmother left me. It was the deepest experience I had in my heart.
When I got home, I decided to keep my grandmother's diary, which is not only a precious memory for me, but also the warmest heritage in my heart. Each page of the diary is full of my grandmother's wisdom and care, and it also makes me more determined to live my truest self, kindness and forgiveness. Because only by truly understanding what it means to be human can we live a truly meaningful life.
In front of my grandmother's grave, I solemnly promised my grandmother: "Grandma, please rest assured that after you leave, I will definitely remember your teachings, inherit the kindness and tolerance you left me, and live a wonderful life." ”
At that moment, my heart was filled with deep nostalgia for my grandmother and infinite love for life. This journey with tears has made me grow a lot, and it has also made me deeply understand that being kind and tolerant to others is the value I want to pass on, and it is also the path of life that I want to pursue.
Because only when our hearts are filled with love and tolerance can we live a truly happy life. I am convinced that grandma will always watch over us and bless us in the spirit of heaven. And I will continue to work hard to live my life to the fullest.
When I got home, I carefully placed my grandmother's diary on my desk, knowing that it would become one of the most precious relics in my heart, and that my grandmother's thoughts and teachings would always remain in my heart.
Daughter, back? "My mother came into my room and looked at me with tender eyes.
I smiled and nodded, "Well, I went to see grandma with my aunt." ”
My mother's eyes were full of understanding, and she gently held my hand, "Grandma is the most sensible one, and she also taught us to be tolerant and understanding." ”
I nodded, "Yes, I understand a lot now." ”
My mother looked at me and said gently, "You know, there will always be all kinds of difficulties and challenges in life, but as long as we have good intentions and learn to be tolerant and understanding, then we will definitely be able to go further and be more stable." These teachings from my grandmother will become the most cherished treasure in our lives. ”
Yes, Mom, Grandma left us not only a teaching to the heart, but also an eternal emotion. I said with deep understanding.
I was deeply touched by my mother's words, who have always been the warmest harbor in my heart. I was determined to keep my grandmother's teachings in mind and try to be a kind and tolerant person.
Now, when I open my grandmother's diary again, I feel an inexplicable comfort. My grandmother's diary seemed to tell me about her kindness and tolerance, and it also inspired me to continue to pass on this kindness.
After this much-ridden funeral, I gained a precious treasure and a clearer direction in life. I will carry my grandmother's teachings and continue to move forward, passing on the love and forgiveness she left me. I hope that I can become a respectable person on the road of life. Because it is only with kindness, tolerance and understanding that we can live a life to the fullest. Grandma, may your spirit rest in heaven, and your love and wisdom will always illuminate the path of my life. Now I am more confident and courageous to move forward, thanks to my grandmother, and thanks to this unforgettable journey, I learned the most important things in life.