Choosing to marry is a choice of responsibilities and constraints. Keeping the bottom line and not being ambiguous is the attitude that should be present in marriage. Especially when getting along with the opposite sex, it is necessary to keep an appropriate distance, handle the relationship well, and neither cross the line nor indulge. Even if the other person approaches on their own initiative, you need to be vigilant. If the other person exhibits the following four behaviors, don't contact them again!
Always looking for you in a hurry
When you like someone, you can't help but want to talk to them. But be careful, when you frequently receive WeChat chats of the opposite sex, whether it is small talk or trivial matters, there may be ambiguous suspicions. At first, it may just be a polite reply, but over time, this behavior may become a habit. Once a habit is formed, it is easy to hurt the marriage and the lover. Therefore, never treat friends of the opposite sex as the object of confiding, and keep the boundaries of your heart in order to protect your marriage.
There will always be a gift for you
Gift-giving during the holidays has become a way for couples to express their love. Be wary when a friend of the opposite sex surprises you during the holiday season and gives you a gift in the name of a "good friend". They are likely to have special feelings for you. If you don't stop in time and avoid crossing the line, the result will only be a disaster. Marriage requires fidelity and, above all, self-restraint. Don't get confused by inconsequential things, and don't live up to your responsibilities and those of your lover.
I'll talk to you all the time
Feelings between friends of the opposite sex begin to fluctuate from confiding in each other. Only people who have special feelings for you will confide their inner secrets in you without reservation. Because I treat you as "my own person", when I am upset, the first thing that comes to mind is you, hoping for comfort and companionship. However, as time went on, the chat became more and more tacit, and the relationship gradually deteriorated. If you don't want to play ambiguous and don't want to ruin your marriage, you have to understand from the beginning that moderation is enough. Normal care between friends is fine, but always be careful to maintain proper boundaries.
Find ways to please you
There is no reason for hatred in the world, and there is no reason for goodness. When someone is constantly trying to please you and find ways to win your affection, there must be something behind it. It could be coveting your possessions, or pursuing your love. This behavior is not healthy because friendship and love are different. Maintaining friendship requires mutual care, but in moderation, and care that crosses the line can easily tarnish a pure friendship. Therefore, it is necessary to know how to distinguish between sincere and temporary please. Only in this way can we retain happiness and enjoy long-term love.
Marriage is built on emotion and etiquette. Once you get married and have a lover, if you encounter "heartbeat" again, the best thing to do is to stop. Only by keeping your own happiness can you start a lifelong romance.
May you live to the fullest, love wholeheartedly, and in a long and small life, there are no regrets, no debts, and no disappointing experiences!