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In the eyes of Zhang Dai, a literati in the Ming Dynasty, the phrase "people have no habits, they can't be friends, and they have no affection" profoundly reveals the subtlety and complexity of emotional communication between people.
Addiction may be understood as a persistent hobby, a unique and passionate pursuit of life. With fetish, people will have the depth and breadth of emotions, and only then will they have sincerity and enthusiasm when interacting with others.
Addiction is not a simple pastime or entertainment, it is a deep need in people's hearts, a yearning and pursuit of a better life.
People with fetishes will have a life full of color and energy, and their eyes will twinkle with curiosity and exploration of the unknown. Their emotional world will be enriched and deepened by this, and their speech and demeanor will reveal their love and understanding of life.
Conversely, if a person has no fetishes, his life may become monotonous and boring, and his emotional world may become pale and powerless. Such people, when interacting with people, may appear cold and ruthless, and their words and demeanor may lack sincerity and enthusiasm. Such a person, even if he has frequent interactions with people on the surface, may lack real emotional communication and empathy deep down.
The reason why Zhang Dai emphasizes the importance of fetishes so much is because he knows that only people with fetishes can truly devote themselves to life and truly feel the beauty and richness of life. Only people with fetishes can show their true selves when interacting with others and establish deep emotional bonds with others.
Of course, we can't blindly pursue fetishes, and we can't ignore other aspects of life because of them. Addiction should be an embellishment and a condiment in life, not the whole of life. We should maintain a comprehensive understanding and love of life and maintain sincerity and enthusiasm for others while pursuing fetishes.
People have no habits, they can't be friends, and they have no affection. This sentence is not only a praise for fetishes, but also an in-depth analysis of human nature. It reminds us to pay attention to the inner world of others and their emotions and pursuits when interacting with people. Only in this way can we truly understand others and establish a real emotional bond with them.
At the same time, this sentence also reminds us to cherish our own habits and to feel the beauty and richness of life with our hearts. Our fetish may not be inconspicuous, or it may not be understood, but it is a need and pursuit in our hearts. Only by cherishing and sticking to our own habits can we go further and more firmly on the road of life.
In this sentence of the Ming Dynasty literati Zhang Dai, we see his in-depth understanding and unique insights into human nature. He tells us that fetishes are an embodiment of human nature, a medium of emotional communication. Only people with fetishes can truly devote themselves to life and truly feel the beauty and richness of life. Only people with fetishes can show their true selves when interacting with others and establish deep emotional bonds with others. Therefore, we should cherish and stick to our fetish and let it become a strength, a support, in our lives.
At the same time, we should also understand and respect the fetishes of others, and accept their differences and uniqueness with tolerance and understanding. Only in this way can we walk hand in hand with others on the road of life and feel the beauty and richness of life together.