The way you educate your child is to babble or yell, and if that's the case, then consider a different way of parenting. Loudly scolding a child's bad behavior not only does not have an effect, but has a negative impact on the child's personality growth and mental health. Therefore, when educating your child, please lower your voice, and your child may be more obedient.
Whispered education focuses on children's attention.
The low pitch can make people more rational and gentle, which can relax the psychological defense line of children's rebellion, which is conducive to communication. Moreover, a low tone can concentrate the child's hearing and preemptively strike.
A low pitch can drive anger away.
Parents are role models for children, and the words and deeds of adults have the greatest impact on children. Parents who know how to keep their voices down at the right time can make their children more receptive to criticism. If parents want to understand the real psychology of their children, it is not wise to blindly use high-pressure methods, but will only cause tension in the family atmosphere, and will not help the children in any way.
Observe how your child listens.
If you are an attentive parent, you should observe your child's reactions during the conversation, express your opinion in a way that interests your child, and obtain psychological information based on your child's subtle responses. According to the research of relevant scientists, when children are interested in the topics that their parents are talking about, they will show a state of listening carefully to their parents' narration, and the common postures are staring straight and thoughtful; And if the child is dissatisfied and bored with the topic of conversation, they will look distracted, tilted, and absent-minded. Therefore, parents can judge whether their children are willing to listen to what they say according to their children's speech and body language, and then make adjustments.
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