My name is Wang Fenfang, I feel that after I am 22 years old, my life has pressed the accelerator button, working, getting married, having children, all in one go, and my friends are very puzzled, why do I want to get married so early.
I married Park Liang as soon as I graduated from college, we talked for four years, separated and combined, and finally felt that the other party was the most suitable person, so I simply got married early, so as to avoid the distress of being urged to marry later.
But the truth is, I think about the problem too simply, even if I avoid the trouble of urging marriage, there are all kinds of troubles that come to my face, which is suffocating.
It was also after I got married that I found out that Pu Liang still had two faces, and when he was alone with me, he listened to me and was willing to do everything for me, but as soon as he got home, he listened to his mother for everything.
The mother-in-law's words were like a holy decree, and as soon as Pu Liang heard her speak, he would reflexively go to her side, and he would not complain about what he was told to do.
When I sat with my mother-in-law, it was obvious that my mother-in-law was looking at me in a condescending manner, and seemed to be a little hostile to me, so she didn't usually communicate with me much, and most of the time we just sat together and watched TV.
When I was pregnant, my mother-in-law still sat there like a queen and didn't do anything, everything was waiting for Pu Liang to come back from work to do it, I felt sorry for him with a big belly, but my mother-in-law took it for granted.
When my belly gets bigger and bigger, I can't bend over, and naturally I can't do work, so I can only wait for Pu Liang to come back to wash the clothes and bowls in the house, and I have to wait for him to come back to sweep the dirty floor.
Coincidentally, about a month before the labor, Pu Liang's company received a big project, and their entire department needed to work overtime to complete the task, although there was a pregnant wife at home to take care of, but for the sake of his career, he still chose to work.
In fact, I am not a pampered eldest lady, although I am pregnant, I don't need anyone to take care of me, I just said that I am about to give birth, and there must be someone around, otherwise it is easy to have accidents.
Of course Park Liang knew this, but there was really no one else at home who could take care of me, and after thinking about it, he finally pinned his hopes on his mother-in-law, wanting her to pay more attention to me, after all, my belly was the flesh and blood of their Park family.
In the end, the mother-in-law reluctantly agreed, but she still didn't do anything, all the dirty clothes and dirty dishes were piled up and not treated, and if Pu Liang didn't come back for a day, no one would wash these things.
Sometimes I really don't understand why my mother-in-law can stand it! So in the end, I couldn't bear it anymore and went to wash the dishes with a big belly, but I didn't expect that after I washed the dishes, my mother-in-law actually came to "accept the results", she felt that I was not clean and asked me to wash again.
I was instantly furious, why did she ask so much? Since her cleanliness habit is so serious, why didn't she wash it herself? I'm not used to her, so I put the bowl in the cupboard and left, which big injustice needs to be washed again.
On the day I was about to give birth, my mother-in-law was asleep in my room, and she didn't wake up no matter how I dropped something, and in the end, the next-door neighbor saved my life and allowed me to give birth smoothly.
During confinement, my mother-in-law offered to take care of me in order to atone for my sins, and Pu Liang agreed, and after handing over me and the child to my mother-in-law, he went back to work.
But my mother-in-law is still like that, she says that she will take care of my confinement, but in fact she doesn't do anything, and she still wants me to serve her! Isn't this bullying? Later, I learned that Pu Liang also gave her a sum of money, saying that it was a hardship fee, and she accepted it beautifully.
My mother-in-law took the money but didn't do it well, so I kept quarreling with her during the confinement period, and she even ran to Park Liang to complain first, and Park Liang called ** to Xingshi to ask for guilt, telling me not to disobey my elders by giving birth to a child.
Park Liang's indiscriminate act of putting a basin on my head made me very disappointed in him, and after careful consideration, I filed for divorce, and he agreed, on the condition that the child belonged to him, and he would give me a sum of compensation.
Disheartened, I took the money with me to another city and started a new life.
But Pu Liang can't start a new life, because he couldn't find a partner with his children, and finally asked me to remarry! But seeing that I had opened a store and had a new boyfriend, he was also dumbfounded.
How can you find a new boyfriend so quickly? I'm afraid it won't be the one you knew before, so I'm looking forward to a divorce, and then the two of you will get better. "My vitriolic ex-mother-in-law started to slander me.
Speak and do things according to your conscience to tell the evidence, if you talk nonsense again, be careful that I will send you into the bureau! When my boyfriend heard what she said, he immediately stood up for me and gave me a full sense of security.
Pu Liang looked at this scene, and his heart must have been very uncomfortable, after all, he also defended me like this before, but there are also his reasons for the current situation.
I thought that if my boyfriend did this, Park Liang and his mother would stop and discourage the idea of remarrying, but I didn't expect them to sneak over while my boyfriend was not in the store.
Fragrant, I advise you to think about it, our family is bright and bright to you, that must be true, he was also angry at the beginning before he agreed to divorce, you love each other so much, you must be reluctant to give up each other, you say yes. "My ex-mother-in-law gave me a **.
Pu Liang sat on the side and listened to his mother's words silently, like a child, if I didn't know him before, then I might still think that he was very well-behaved and honest, but I know the truth, I only think he is a senior "mom treasure man".
He listened to his mother for everything, and it is estimated that before we were divorced, his mother fanned the flames in his ear and said bad things about me, which prompted us to speed up the pace of divorce.
In short, no matter what, I won't repeat the mistakes of the past, it's none of my business that Pu Liang can't find a partner with his child, who called him a "queen" mother?