Introduction: I had breast cancer surgery in February 2017, and after six courses of chemotherapy, my hair fell out. The day after chemotherapy, I went to the Bigu camp. I was supposed to have to do 32 radiotherapy treatments, but I didn't do a single radiotherapy treatment so that my family and friends wouldn't worry about it.
I am 53 years old, I had breast cancer surgery in February 2017, and my hair fell out after six courses of chemotherapy.
After chemotherapy on the first day, I went to the Bigu camp in Huayang, Sichuan Province on the second day and studied for three days. When I went to Bigu Camp, I accidentally didn't bring medicine. When I came back, I felt that it was okay to go without medicine for three days, and since then I have never taken medicine again, and I have lost all my medicine.
After studying for a while, my friend asked me: Do you still have to go for 32 radiotherapy?
Bigu often says here, "Excessive worry is a curse." "I didn't want them to worry, and I didn't want them to curse, so I decided to learn Bigu culture and do radiotherapy at the same time.
I went to the hospital for various tests, and the doctor read my test results and said that I was in danger and wanted me to be hospitalized immediately. As soon as I heard it, it would kill me every minute, what hospital would I live in? I said, "It's gone."
The doctor chased me and asked, "Are you going to give up at such a young age?" I said, "I'm not giving up my life, I'm giving up on your hospital." With that, I'll go.
When I went downstairs, I called my husband, and I said: If the hospital calls you, you will say that we give up**. My husband said: You have to be careful, don't be careless. I said, "I know." I just tore up all the things related to the hospital.
I don't believe that so many people can learn Bigu well, but I can't learn well!
Since then, I have made up my mind to study at ease on the Bigu platform, actively participate in the Guyou meeting, and do my homework well.
When I was seriously ill at that time, I lacked self-confidence, so I wanted to close myself off and didn't want to come into contact with the outside world. When I was studying Bigu, everyone said that it was good and positive, and I felt that this atmosphere was very good, and it didn't cost money, so it was worth learning from me.
For a disease like mine, I have to take Chinese medicine for 3-10 years after radiotherapy and chemotherapy in the hospital. I didn't like to take medicine either, and I thought to myself: I have been taking Chinese medicine for so many years, and wherever you go, people will think that you are a patient.
After half a year of studying, there has really been an improvement. I didn't take any medicine after I attended the camp, my body was fine, and my hair grew back.
There was someone around me who had this disease a year before me, and by that time the eyebrows had not grown and the hair was very bad. My eyebrows and hair all fell out during chemotherapy, and they grew back in half a year.
Through my studies, I learned why I get breast cancer.
In 1997, when my child was two years old, I found out that my husband was cheating, and I did everything about quarrels, divorces, etc. At that time, I thought that the child was still young, and I didn't leave it in order to give the child a complete home.
We have been married for 31 years, and my husband has been cheating, and I swallowed my anger and mentioned divorce.
The child said, "Mom, will you divorce when I am in middle school?" When my child was in middle school, he said to me again: Mom, you take a step back and open the sky. Okay, I'll take a step back and open the sky.
Later, when the child was older, it was time to talk about marriage, and he also wanted to give the child a complete home, so he sacrificed himself, and often quarreled with his husband either in a cold war or with him. We don't talk for half a month. A week before the operation, I quarreled with my husband and wanted to divorce.
Through study, I realized that I did not do well and my husband would cheat.
After giving birth to a child, I focused all my attention on the child and spent all day and night with the child.
I was very reluctant to live as a couple. If I am reluctant, someone will do it for me. I pushed him out myself.
Originally, when he was doing this, I always scolded him in vicious language. He felt uncomfortable and couldn't accept it. In contrast, he sensed that the people outside were kind and gentle to him.
I gave my gentle side to my children, or to my colleagues in the unit, but I didn't have a good word for him.
Learn and practice. I talked to my husband and talked to my heart. I said to my husband: We don't argue about the past wrong and right. It's my fault, it's my fault, you're right. I really feel like the people around me are important.
Slowly, my husband and I have changed a lot. I used to cook three meals a day, but now my husband cooks for me.
Once their unit was going to recuperate, and my husband said: I'm not at home tomorrow, what will you eat? I said, "If you don't cook it, I won't eat it." Then he stopped going.
In this way, the relationship is considerably good slowly. Now the children are also married.
I also want to say one more thing:
On January 28, as soon as my grandson was born, the doctor said that there was a lack of oxygen; The neonatal department was hospitalized for a day and said it was pneumonia; The next day, he said that he needed to do a lumbar puncture; On the third day, it was said to be sepsis; On the fourth day, he reported intracranial hemorrhage. At that time, I couldn't accept what the doctor said.
My son and daughter-in-law don't smoke or drink, and my grandson was born at term at 39 weeks. I asked my son, "Do you have faith?" If we have faith, we will take the child out of the hospital. The three of us give our children great love, but we can't afford to be a doctor?
I think it's so tormented that the child is so young. My son said, "Your cancer has recovered without taking medicine, and I am confident."
When I was discharged from the hospital, the doctor said: I must go to another hospital to see, and I can't go home. I said, "We know." Then we went home with the baby in our arms.
After returning home, the grandson was with his mother, breastfed, ate, slept, and ate, and now he is very healthy and too good to be true. I give them great love every day: you are a family of reunion and harmony, healthy and safe.
Through learning, I see people and things differently, and my mentality has changed, I will not casually put labels on myself, I think in a good direction for everything, and I firmly believe that everything is the best!
Muzi: Especially Nitani Yu, don't go to the hospital if you have any illness or problem after listening to her sharing. Hospitals have problems that hospitals can solve.
Her self-confidence comes from her deep immersion in our platform and continuous learning. When I met my grandson this time, I would be shocked and scared to anyone's house.
Although the child's condition is serious, she is confident, and she believes that the child's life changes every day, and every day is a new beginning. The whole family believes and the whole family supports it. They have a substitute, and they are doing something that can replace the hospital**.
Therefore, we must discern. It's not that everyone has such conditions, such abilities and such self-confidence, this is just what she has.