In this modern society full of busyness and apathy, it seems that it is becoming more and more difficult for people to feel true love and care. However, deep down in our hearts, there is always a desire to receive a sincere affection and warm love. And this affection and love should not come by reaching out, but should be given on the initiative. Only in this way can true preference and attention be reflected.
Gifts and love are topics that we often talk about in our lives. However, when we talk about gifts and love, do we really understand what they mean? Gifts should not only be a material exchange, but also an expression of emotion. And love should not be a one-sided request, but a mutual dedication. 
When we truly love someone, we will unconsciously want to give for him (her) and want to give him (her) the best. We will take the initiative to care about his (her) needs, to understand his (her) preferences, to create a warm living environment for him (her). We will not hesitate to lend a helping hand to him or her when he or she needs it. We will give him or her a special gift on his or her birthday to make him or her feel our love and care. These are all things that we give on our own initiative because we love him or her, so we are willing to do anything for him or her.
On the contrary, when we don't love someone, we unconsciously want to ask for something more from him or her. We will turn a blind eye to his or her efforts and be indifferent to his or her needs. When he or she needs us, we will find all kinds of reasons to shirk and be unwilling to pay for him (her). We may forget to give a gift on his or her birthday, or buy a random gift and do something perfunctory. These are all things that we are not willing to give because we do not love him or her, so we are not willing to do anything for him or her.
Therefore, gifts and love should not be reached for, but should be given on the initiative. Only by taking the initiative to give can we reflect our sincerity and intentions. Only by taking the initiative to give can we make the other person feel our love and care. Only by taking the initiative to give can we make our feelings deeper and more stable.
However, in real life, we often meet people who reach out for gifts and love. They always take for granted the care and love that others have for them, and are not willing to give for others. They always feel that they are important, and the feelings and needs of others are not. They always feel that they deserve more love and attention, and are reluctant to care and pay attention to others. Such people tend to feel tired and powerless because their needs never seem to be met.
However, in real life, we often meet people who reach out for gifts and love. They always take for granted the care and love that others have for them, and are not willing to give for others. They always feel that they are important, and the feelings and needs of others are not. They always feel that they deserve more love and attention, and are reluctant to care and pay attention to others. Such people tend to feel tired and powerless because their needs never seem to be met.
On the contrary, those who are really important, they will always take the initiative to care and pay attention to others, and will always take the initiative to give love and gifts to others. They will not feel resentful and disappointed because others do not offer to give, because they know that true love and care do not need to be reciprocated. They don't feel angry and sad that someone else doesn't meet their needs, because they know that true happiness comes from inner satisfaction and joy.
So, if we want to receive true love and care, we should not reach out and ask for it, but take the initiative to give it. If we want to be truly happy, we should not always ask for it, but learn to be grateful and giving. Only in this way can we truly feel the true meaning of love and happiness, and can we make our lives more fulfilling and meaningful.
Finally, I would like to end this article with one sentence: those who love you are always afraid of not giving enough, and those who don't love you are afraid that you will ask for too much. Let us cherish those who truly love us, be grateful for their dedication and dedication, and let us become those who take the initiative to give love and care, and bring more warmth and happiness to this world.
Finally, I would like to end this article with one sentence: those who love you are always afraid of not giving enough, and those who don't love you are afraid that you will ask for too much. Let us cherish those who truly love us, be grateful for their dedication and dedication, and let us become those who take the initiative to give love and care, and bring more warmth and happiness to this world.