My name is Wang Yuqin, I am 58 years old, and my wife is three years older than me, 61 years old this year. We are authentic farmers who have been farming for generations, and now that the conditions are better, we have also bought a house in the town. In this case, we work on the ground in the summer, and in the winter when the weather is cold, we go upstairs to the cat winter.
My wife and I have more than a dozen acres of vines and a large yard of 2 acres in the countryside, and we have moved from the building to the village bungalow in the spring.
My family's 2 acres of yard is planted with peach trees, jujube trees, apricot trees, prunes, and peaches, and there is still a small plot of land to plant some tomatoes, peppers and eggplants, and many vegetables can not be eaten in autumn. Just waiting for the children to come on Saturday and Sunday to bring them some fruits and vegetables.
Sometimes we can't eat all these fruits and Shulai, so we go to the market to buy some money, and we also raise a lot of local chickens, ducks and geese that eat meat, really in our countryside, every household raises free-range chickens and ducks, and the meat is particularly delicious.
My husband has a good temper, is also very capable, and is also very experienced in planting vines, so he also earns well in years when the grapes are sold well. Because my husband is very capable, in addition to planting grapes, he also raised more than 30 sheep, on the one hand, it can increase income, on the other hand, sheep manure can also fertilize the vines, so my vines are planted with very little fertilizer, the quality of grapes is very good, and the sunshine time in Xinjiang is long, and the grapes taste very good and sweet when they ripen in autumn.
Our old couple had a son, who studied at a young age, graduated from high school and was admitted to a normal university in our province, and after graduation, he was hired as a teacher in a middle school in our city.
My son also has a good job, and my wife and I discussed a down payment for a three-bedroom building in the city.
After buying a house, we urged our son to find a partner quickly, but two years later, my son has not moved at all, which can make our old couple anxious.
There was no way, our old couple had to mobilize relatives and friends around us to help introduce the object to our son, but the two of them didn't get along, so it dragged on and on, and my son was 28 years old.
Fate is such a wonderful thing, and then my son met his former high school classmates on the train on a business trip, and the girl worked as an accountant in a company in our city after graduating from college. The two like each other very much, and this matter has come to talk about marriage.
The girl's parents are also from the countryside, and when we got married, we gave a bride price of 100,000 yuan and bought three gold, and my house was ready-made.
When I held a wedding for my son, I thought that I could save some money by doing it at home, because I paid for my son's house in front of me, and I added the decoration of the buyer's electrical appliances. Coupled with the bride price, the savings in our hands are almost emptied. So, in order to save some money, I didn't go to the hotel to hold a wedding for my son and daughter-in-law. At that time, the daughter-in-law was a little unashamed and felt undignified, and the in-laws didn't say anything.
This is not to make my daughter-in-law happy, after the wedding, my wife and I took another 30,000 yuan to our daughter-in-law, so that they could travel to the mainland, and my daughter-in-law had a smiling face.
Married for more than two years, the daughter-in-law is pregnant, which makes us happy, I have prepared local eggs and chickens in my hometown, and I have specially bought a lot of pigeons. made a small mattress and a small quilt, and then went straight to his son's house with a large bag to serve his daughter-in-law.
After arriving at my son's house, I asked my son to make a list and write down all the things that my daughter-in-law likes to eat, and the seasonings that I don't like to eat, garlic, green onions, ginger, etc., and carefully cook for my daughter-in-law every day.
A month before my daughter-in-law was about to give birth, I even washed my daughter-in-law's socks and put them next to her bed. I gave my daughter-in-law 15,000 yuan to thank her for giving birth to the next generation for us, and my daughter-in-law happily accepted the money.
My mother-in-law also came during the confinement, and I originally wanted to let my mother-in-law take care of the confinement, but my mother-in-law said that she had to pick up the cotton grown by her family, and she had to go back to cook for the workers.
It's not just me who takes care of my daughter-in-law for confinement, and it's okay at first, but then slowly my daughter-in-law starts to think that the food I cook is either salty or light, or the ground is not clean, or I forgive me too loudly and quarrel with her, anyway, I am all kinds of dissatisfaction.
This made me very sad, once I accidentally broke a bowl when I finished cooking and washing, and my daughter-in-law was reluctant to do it, saying that I could do it if I wanted to, and I would go back if I didn't want to do it.
After my son got off work, I said that I was dizzy recently and wanted to go home for a few days, so I put down 5,000 yuan before leaving.
When I got home, I cried, and my wife said that it would be good to come back, and my daughter-in-law wouldn't go to work anyway. About half a year later, my son and daughter-in-law came with their granddaughter, saying that they would take me to see the child, and that my daughter-in-law would go to work after her maternity leave.
No, I went to my daughter-in-law's house again with a soft heart, I really felt sorry for my little granddaughter, I was afraid that she would freeze when it was cold, and I was afraid that she would sweat when it was hot. Just look at the granddaughter carefully.
As a result, I accidentally fed too much milk, and my little granddaughter vomited and diarrhea, and my daughter-in-law was unwilling, saying that I was going to see a child and seeing a doctor, which made me angry.
This little granddaughter was sent to the hospital in the middle of the night, and it was a blood test, and a urine test, and it turned down more than 1,000 yuan in one night, and now the daughter-in-law scolded in front of so many people in the hospital.
I told my son to let my mother-in-law come to see me for a few days, and I went back to my hometown for some trouble, so I went back.
After that, my daughter-in-law and son didn't go back to my house for more than two years, and I talked to my son when I missed my granddaughter.
Then one day, my son came to ** and said that he wanted to buy a school district house. It is convenient for the children to go to school in the future, and I asked if I can help them.
Thinking about my grandson's future schooling, my wife and I discussed it and decided to help my son, and I told him that there was a little money. (This year, as soon as the road construction occupies our land, we have lost some, plus our own savings, about 350,000, of course, I did not tell my son the specific amount of money.) ）
I also thought that my son and daughter-in-law would come to give him money during the Chinese New Year.
As a result, the son and daughter-in-law did not come back during the New Year, and after the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, our old couple discussed going to our son's house, on the one hand, to see our granddaughter, and on the other hand, to send the money to our son, but there was something temporary, and my husband couldn't go, so I took a car to my son's house.
When I arrived at my son's house, my daughter-in-law didn't come out of the bedroom, and my son was coaxing my granddaughter to play with building blocks.
My son poured me a glass of water, and gave me the cut durian from the refrigerator to eat, and just as I was eating, my daughter-in-law came out.
My daughter-in-law said to me with a black face: Do you know how expensive durian is, we are reluctant to eat it, this is reserved for children to eat.
I rolled tears in my eyes, got up and went to buy a raw room, washed my face, touched the bank card on my body, and said to my son that I would go back first, and when I went out, I gave my granddaughter a red envelope of 2,000 yuan that had been prepared a long time ago.
My son and daughter-in-law didn't keep me, and I thought that I would give my daughter-in-law the money when she came out. And so it turned out. My son sent me downstairs and said he would drive me back, but I insisted on not letting him do it.
When I got home, I didn't say anything, so I told my wife, let's store this money first, and put it for the elderly, my wife looked bad, silently put away the bank card, and I didn't take off my clothes and fell asleep. `
Until now, my son and daughter-in-law have not called a **....