Enlightenment Project
In the kindergarten, there was a little boy of five years old, his name was Hop Hop. Hopping is a lively and active child, but he has a bad habit of bullying the female classmates in the class. Whenever he had a break between classes, he always found all kinds of excuses to tease them, and even threw pebbles at his companions after class.
The female classmates in the class were very afraid of jumping, they didn't dare to resist, so they could only endure it silently. Seeing their fears, Hop Hop became more and more rampant, thinking it was a fun game.
The teachers were also very helpless about this, and they tried various methods to stop the jumping behavior, but to no avail. Hopping doesn't seem to listen to advice at all and continues to go about his ways.
As a mother, I was very worried about the behavior of hopping. I know that if his bad habits are not corrected in time, he may turn into a bully in the future. So, I decided to educate Hop Hop.
I first sat with Hop Hop and gently asked him why he liked to bully female classmates. Hopping hesitated for a moment, then said, "Because they're so bullying, and I think it's fun." I felt sad when I heard this, but I knew that I couldn't blame him, but I had to guide him to realize his mistakes.
I then told Hop a Aesop fable, "The Wolf and the Lamb." In the story, the wolf always finds various excuses to bully the lamb, which eventually leads to the death of the lamb. I told Hopping that bullying others is like a wolf bullying a lamb and is an immoral act. If we don't respect others, they won't respect us.
After listening to this, Jump was silent for a long time, and then said, "Mom, I understand." I shouldn't bully people, I have to learn to respect people. "I was very relieved to hear what he said.
In order to consolidate the change of Hop Hop, I communicated with the kindergarten principal. The principal also attaches great importance to this issue, and she said that she will strengthen the supervision and guidance of Hop Hop to ensure that he no longer bullies his peers.
In the days that followed, Hop Hop really changed. He stopped bullying his female classmates, but took the initiative to make friends with them. He also learned to care for and help others. The female classmates in the class are no longer afraid of jumping, and everyone likes to play with him.
I was very relieved to see the changes in Hop Hop. I know that educating children requires patience and love. As long as we guide them with our hearts and help them grow, they will definitely become a kind and caring person.