Are there any children who haven't gone to kindergarten yet?
Very few. However, as post-80s generations who grew up in the countryside, we did not have the experience of going to kindergarten.
At that time, resources were limited, and before the first grade, they were all free-range, and there were many children in the village, and they were basically related to each other, and they did not need to be supervised by adults, and they were able to enter primary school smoothly.
But now, not going to kindergarten may be seen as different.
In fact, there are many reasons for not going to kindergarten.
For example, young children have poor physical resistance and are prone to illness when they gather in kindergarten. Many children are in kindergarten for three years, and most of them are sick and at home.
For example, kindergarten can't learn knowledge, but the primary school defaults to the child's ability to add and subtract, pinyin, and as a result, I am lonely, and the primary school can't catch up with it.
For example, kindergarten tuition fees are high, and rural areas cost two or three thousand a semester, while urban kindergartens generally cost five or six thousand, and even tens of thousands of better ones. Netizens have joked many times that going to kindergarten is more expensive than college tuition.
For example, kindergartens restrict children's behaviors, such as eating, defecating, and sleeping, so that children are restrained earlier and lose their innocence.
For example, it is inconvenient to pick up and drop off children.
However, although kindergarten is not included in the compulsory education stage, it is already very common, indicating that most people still recognize the benefits of going to kindergarten.
1. Learn to abide by the rules and cultivate sociality
When society develops to the stage of civilization, everyone is required to abide by the rules of society, rather than doing whatever they want.
For children, not following the rules is sometimes considered natural, naïve, and ignorant. This is obviously spoiling the child and is not conducive to the child's social development.
Many parents have noticed that after the age of 3, children are more eager to communicate and socialize with people outside the family, because people always have social attributes, and children's sociality also needs to be cultivated from an early age.
If you don't learn to follow the rules and develop sociality before elementary school, you will not be able to adapt to elementary school.
This has been verified in many children, who spoil their children too much during kindergarten, and as a result, they still want others to let them go everywhere in elementary school, and the result can only be hit.
2. Obtain professional education
Raising children is not just a matter of reading from a book, and children raised by books must also be dull.
However, when entering the kindergarten, there are special kindergarten teachers to design courses and organize activities according to the child's development characteristics, which can obviously develop the child's ability more comprehensively.
3. Peer interaction is too important for young children
Unless it is an infant who is just attached to feeding, the older the child, the more he needs peer interaction to gain recognition.
If you don't go to kindergarten, you are teaching children at home, although children are communicating with adults, but obviously adults and children have different concerns and interests, and it is easy to disturb children's concentration.
Two children of the same age can play together in the mud for an afternoon, and the adults seem extremely boring, but it just meets the psychological needs of the child for peer interaction, which is very important for the child's mental health development.
Children don't go to kindergarten, and parents need to invest a lot of energy to cultivate them at home, after all, this is an era of involution, and parents can't really raise free-range. Because, the educational environment of the 90s is gone.