**The first to mention divorced women, focusing on their careers after divorce, their ex-husbands sought to pursue Lin Huiyin.
In the ** period, talented women are like stars, and the names of Lu Bicheng, Zhang Ailing, Xiao Hong, etc. are known to everyone. However, under the aura of these outstanding women, there is one woman who is rarely mentioned alone, but is known for her association with Xu Zhimo.
She is Zhang Youyi, Xu Zhimo's wife. People may perceive her as a family background rather than a literary talent. However, if you dig deeper, you will find that the story of the second half of Zhang Youyi's life is enough to match"Talented woman"This reputation.
Her transformation was not a result of talent, but of tenacity and wisdom.
An in-depth understanding of Zhang Youyi's life process can understand the truth. Born in a wealthy family, she was bathed in the care of her parents and the warmth of her siblings, however, the traditional feudal education became her unique imprint.
Under this instruction, she behaved appropriately, spoke cautiously, and was accustomed to obedience and forbearance. Such a character trait seems out of place in the eyes of the avant-garde Xu Zhimo.
Facts have proved that when 15-year-old Zhang Youyi was forced to enter the marriage contract with Xu Zhimo, her ideal marriage vision did not come true, but was rejected by Xu Zhimo. His first impression defined her as a conservative and uneducated "country girl".
This is a microcosm of how feudal education affected Zhang Youyi's fate.
In her marriage, Zhang Youyi silently endured Xu Zhimo's alienation, and she firmly fulfilled her duties and took care of her family and elders. Faced with the pressure of life, she resolutely let Xu Zhimo go abroad to study after giving birth.
Despite carrying it alone, she never showed weakness. With the care of her parents, she went to the UK for further study, eager to win understanding through progress. However, when she stood in front of him with hope, she was exchanged for a cold refusal and a request for divorce, just because of his pursuit of Lin Huiyin.
Original text: Zhang Youyi's brave turn began with heartache, she did not choose to give up, but sought support from her relatives, came to Berlin with new hope, and gave birth to her second son.
In the lonely time with her children, she found her determination and resolutely went to the road of divorce, becoming the first divorced woman in modern Chinese history. After the divorce, she bid farewell to her former weakness, and as a mother and a scholar, she raised her children while studying at the Festaci Academy in Berlin, showing unprecedented strength.
Although fate ruthlessly took away her second son, she was as tenacious as a stone and continued to move forward with grief, and Zhang Youyi, who had achieved success in her studies, returned to China like a phoenix. During her career, she was a German teacher at a university, a vice president of a bank, and founded a unique kingdom of cloud clothing.
Despite her thriving career, Zhang Youyi's kindness has always been the same, and she remembers her promise to her Xu family. When the Xu family faced family disputes and turned to her for help, she opened the door of her home, accepted them, and even accompanied them through the final journey of life, showing selfless love.
In Xu Zhimo's tragedy, it was Zhang Youyi's calmness and determination, she refused to face it in person, but sent her son to deal with her beloved's funeral. Subsequently, with her tenacity, she started a career in Shanghai, moved to Hong Kong, met Dr. Su, and reaped the happiness of being late.
Despite the vicissitudes of time, after Dr. So's death, she spent time with her loved ones in a foreign country. At the end of the 20th century, 88-year-old Zhang Youyi quietly closed the curtain in the United States, although her life was full of twists and turns, but her unyielding perseverance and benevolent heart finally made her life bloom with warm light.
Her story is a hymn to resilience and happiness.
In this pluralistic world, regardless of gender or background, happiness is not limited to the siege of marriage. When a marriage is unhappy and there is a lack of happiness, it is also a wise choice to let go and give up sensibly.
After all, sometimes the rupture of a marriage is a sign of the beginning of a new chapter of happiness, what do you think?