Text: A flower demon.
Life is long, and loneliness is always there.
Therefore, everyone in the world craves a soul mate to accompany them.
The existence of a soul mate can just soothe the lonely heart and make up for the gap in the heart.
But soulmates are so easy to find, and many times you can't even tell if the person in front of you is your soulmate.
After all, the world is full of people, thousands of people, and there are many pretenders.
But to be honest, the important thing about soulmates is to look at feelings, because the essence of soulmates is: soul fit.
Interacting with people is tiring, you need to consider the feelings of the other person, and you need to think about how to get along with each other in order to maintain a good relationship.
Especially nowadays, when the burden of life is blowing on your face, it is difficult to ensure that you can still recognize reality and imagination.
I saw a piece of news some time ago.
There is a single-parent girl who lives with her brother.
At school, she was always bullied, talked about a boyfriend, and always criticized and belittled her.
But she wants to have a home so much, so no matter how excessive her boyfriend is, she can accept it.
And she will jump off the building, because of her boyfriend's sentence to die.
It's sad, so to speak.
The presence of a soulmate is too tempting for a person who lacks love.
Because with each other, you will feel more pleasure than ever, just like the home that girl wants.
And the best way to judge a "soul mate" is to see how comfortable it feels to be with the other person.
When the two first met, you felt comfortable with him, and it felt like that was him.
Then it means that your body chose him, which is a physiological liking.
And this feeling actually stems from your concepts, living habits, and so on.
However, soul mates may be at first sight, but they also need time to run in.
After that, you have to look at how it feels to be with him for a long time.
Like someone said:
If you see all my shortcomings and tempers, and finally come to me without hesitation, then you are the other half of my soul. ”
A soul mate is the person who knows you best in the world and is able to resonate with you emotionally.
He can tolerate your shortcomings, and you can tolerate his temper.
Although people are always very different, everything seems to align with you.
Just like a puzzle, two pieces can be put together even though they look different.
Voltaire said"A soul mate is a union of souls, a tacit contract between two upright and sensitive people. ”
From the initial first sight, to the long-term love, the soul of the heart, this is the real soul mate.
Maybe you may like the other person at first because of their appearance or personality, but then you must like them because of their own feelings.
He will give you a very reassuring and heartwarming feeling, and this feeling will not go away with the passage of time.
In reality, many people say that after getting along for a long time, there is no problem of freshness, but I have seen countless cases where those soul mates are still in love no matter how many years they have passed.
The word novelty is just an excuse.
I like a quote very much:
"People who fall in love at first sight will still like it even if they meet again after separation. ”
He may happen to be on your aesthetic point, and he may be able to give you the feeling you want.
The most beautiful word in the world is actually "just right", he can give you this feeling, can always make you happy when he can get along with you, instead of having a feeling of torture, then he is your soul mate.
Comfort is a prerequisite for anyone's relationship.
You can be comfortable with him, he is a special and "just right" presence in your life.