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You are a woodcutter, and he is a herder.
You talked with him for a day, his sheep were fed, and where was your firewood?
Don't have excessive expectations for anyone, it's the norm for people to go to tea and cool up.
If you can have average conditions, you should get married early.
Many people tell you that you must get married later, but no one tells you that if you have average family conditions and are ordinary office workers, then get married early, otherwise the older you get, the fewer opportunities you will have to choose.
Journey to the West tells us:
All the monsters that have a backstage have been picked up.
Anyone who didn't have a backstage was beaten to death with a stick.
The real network is based on attraction.
If you are valuable, there will be many people who want to make friends with you. Forget the word "network", the essence of social networking is value exchange, no ability, no resources to exchange with people, network is a joke.
Without money, social status, and culture, it is difficult for people to control their own destiny.
7. Three ways to lose friends.
Lend money to a friend.
Working part-time for a friend.
Start a business with a friend.
Kind people always feel embarrassed to reject others.
Some people, if you help him with seven points, he thinks you still owe him three points.
Soft-hearted and embarrassed will only kill yourself, and rational affection and ruthlessness are the rules of survival.
9. Social resources are always limited, and good things must be robbed. Only the weak will wait for distribution.
Livermore. 
10. There is no such thing as jokes, all jokes have a serious component.
Freud. 
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