Jiubian said that many people actually lack the courage to live. The Sino-US game is catchy at every turn, but he doesn't dare to try his luck in a big city if he wants to learn a driver's license, and he can't die if he tries his luck abroad. Hiding in the corners all day long to study the "pattern", you are not poor. In fact, you don't know until you go out, what is the meaning of "Chinese all over the world", I also saw a Chinese supermarket in a village of a few hundred people in Argentina near the Drake Passage. And if you look at the news, you will know that the country has been encouraging everyone to go out in the past two years, there is really nothing to be afraid of, you have to muster up the courage to go out, the first step is difficult, and the later it is, the easier it is.
But I want to say that if you can't mix well in your own country, you can mix well abroad, I'm afraid it's too optimistic! People with strong abilities can mix well in their own countries, but they may not mix well abroad, and many highly educated Chinese people work as coolies in the United States. What's more, ordinary people have no background, no connections, and they are not familiar with the place, and they may be rejected, so how easy is it to get famous?
In fact, many people began to accept their fate early on, because the vast majority of people are ordinary people, and fate is for them to be content with the status quo and settle with what happens. A relative of mine graduated from college in the 80s, and at that time, the bag was distributed, and at that time, he was assigned to a provincial hospital, but the provincial capital was more than 1,000 miles away from his hometown. At that time, the traffic was very underdeveloped, and there was motion sickness, and the journey home was at least two days, and her parents were over 60 years old and had no biological son, so she was determined to be filial. So I went all the way back to my hometown and county from all levels to find relatives, and I don't know how much filial piety I had, anyway, the money was basically spent!
Most of the relatives of my mother-in-law's family are farmers, and those who borrowed money will never pay it back, but only want more! There were people looking for help at both ends of the three days, and then I couldn't stand it anymore and found someone to transfer to the city Because at this time, there was a shuttle bus from the city to their village, and the return home was the same as the county seat, which was the farthest she could go.
She sighed that if she was asked to choose again, I still didn't know how to choose, her parents were determined not to move a little place, they liked to be slaves to her brother's family, if they let them come to my house, they would have all kinds of reasons, it sounded like it was still for her good, and it was really speechless!
Imagine if she went to the provincial capital city thousands of miles away, the distance is far away and she can't go back at any time, so she can only give money, at that time, it was all post office remittance, and all the money on the surface was confiscated by her brother, and her parents should not have touched a point, and her brother never asked a word when she was sick! The distance is close, she can often go home to wash clothes and do hygiene, especially can secretly give money to not let her brother know, and can also buy some delicious food to let her parents eat more, although it is mainly my brother's family to eat, in the end it can still make her parents live a little better, and the people in the village envy her parents.
So, don't talk about going abroad or anything, you can't do it far from home! This is a personal tragedy and a tragedy of the times, not that I can't, but for objective reasons, it doesn't allow!
Jiubian's words are correct, but there is still a feeling of standing and talking without backache, after all, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read!