Wen Zen Wen Xiu
You will find that when people are in a good mood, not only their family is good, their career is good, their health is good, but their financial luck will also be good; When you're in a bad mood, you're not feeling well, and your home is a mess, let alone making money.
In the past, the old man used to say, "Go out without anger; There is no resentment in the world; Sleep without annoyance; There is no rush in doing things; Do things when you're sober; Reading when you are confused; Thinking when you're alone; Think twice when you're angry. ”
There are also times of anxiety to exercise.
The so-called "qi" is "corresponding with the same voice, seeking from each other", "things gather by like, people by groups", in layman's terms, it means that you are what kind of energy people will encounter, and your emotions are actually your luck.
First, the truth of impatience is the limitation of your energy.
Why are you anxious? Why do you lose your temper? Why are you confused, why are you extreme?
You must know that the truth of fate is energy, and the truth of energy is actually your emotions, and the truth of your emotions is the operation of the internal organs, and the thinking of your brain, as well as your state of mind.
When you have an impatient mood, it means that God is giving you another signal and giving you a guide, and when you are impatient, it is because you are "powerless".
As the saying goes, "Anger is a sign of incompetence against oneself."
When you are "powerless" to do something, you must lack the ability to control and carry the capacity, so you are unable to do it, you are in a hurry, you are anxious, all your can't figure it out, you can't understand, all your anxiety is that you can't control it, you can't bear it, so when you encounter your own troubles, you will be impatient.
Second, howOvercome impatience.
Impatience cannot be had, but how do we overcome it? In fact, the ultimate root cause of impatience is that your heart is not rich enough.
It's that your heart is not broad enough, your pattern is not broad enough, your cognition is not comprehensive enough, and your thinking is not clear enough.
If people don't have height, all they see is problems, and if they don't have a pattern, their hearts are trivial.
Therefore, the practice is to first cultivate one's own acceptance and tolerance, and it is difficult to change the external environment, but it is relatively easy to change the inner one.
Holding back the words that are about to be scolded is a kind of ability; It is a kind of ability to do what you don't want to do well; It is a kind of chest to look at people who do not go well; Swallowing the breath that you can't swallow is a kind of mind. It is a kind of cultivation to look down on those who look down on it;
Always remember that the position is different, less words are precious, cognition is different, no argument, three views do not agree, don't waste your tongue.
When you encounter something impatient, you must remember to force yourself to calm down, calm your mind, and stop. And then make plans, you know, a really powerful person, he is definitely a person with a stable temperament.
You find that when you are in a good mood, you often see that everything is good and everything goes well; When you're in a bad mood, nothing goes well, and even the cause may be a small thing, but it triggers your inner unkindness.
If you are trapped in this emotion for a long time, you will slowly start to complain about all kinds of grievances, but your mood and luck will get worse and worse.
You have to know that if you are angry about everything, it means that your emotions are worthless, and your body is worthless; Anyone can anger you, and such a person can't be lucky.
To control your emotions, the first thing is to regulate your emotions. People must cultivate "long-term luck", that is, you should not be stubborn and stubborn in small things. How to slim the line of luck? There are three things to keep in mind:
The first point is to harness emotions.
Did you know that a lot of your good luck is not tossed by your own emotions, such as fighting between husband and wife, arguing with leaders, arguing with customers, getting angry with children, and then regretting it, again and again;
This emotional pattern of impatience and anger at every turn will be practiced by you more and more powerfully, and good luck and good opportunities will be scared away by your emotions and go around you.
So, if a person is emotionally unstable, it means that you have not grown up, there is no difference between your 35-year-old and 5-year-old children, and you all shout the same when you are unhappy.
Second, take care of your energy.
Put your energy in front of the big right and wrong. There is a saying, "The general is in a hurry, and he does not cut the rabbit".
You will find that some people will really quarrel with others for 30 minutes because of 5 yuan more for parking fees, and your time is too worthless.
You know, your time is very valuable, and you earn money to save time, improve your quality of life, and prolong your life. If a person chatters in front of small things, then he must be very hesitant and indecisive in front of major rights and wrongs.
You can't get around small things, if you encounter a big right or wrong today, you must not have the courage to face it, so the stop loss must be stopped;
If you don't know how to make a decision, you can go to the people you know who have the most decision-making experience and ability, 3 or 5 of these people and ask for their advice.
Again, small things must be confused, and big things must be decisive.
"Caigen Tan" said: "Those who are dry are on fire, and when they encounter things, they will be burned." ”It means that a person who is easily angry is like a blazing fire, and when something goes wrong, he will not only burn others, but also himself.
The power of transshipment is calm. Be sure to engrave calmness into your day. As long as you stay calm, it's someone else who collapses.
If you are not angry with an arrogant person, he will feel bored; Don't be angry with the provoking person, and he will witness your indestructibility; If he is not angry with an unreasonable person, he will feel his own savagery;
If you don't get angry with someone who is unreasonable, he will feel your wisdom and cultivation. Your peace is your great strength, not getting angry is your deepest wisdom, and you will definitely get better and better.
In short, the first thing to regulate emotions is to adjust the mind, you have to know that you are very good, others are also very good, this is the main premise, some people always say that they are not good, and they also like to say that others are not good.
Good or bad is just the standard and judgment of your own heart, and when you can do not stick to everything and not be overly obsessed, you will find that life can be chosen, turning your head is a piece of beauty, and letting go is the heart of the heart.
When the heart is at ease, the mood is good, the luck is naturally good, and the atmosphere can be in all things.
March Creation Incentive Program — END—