Is late marriage and late childbearing a woman's problem?
At the same time as the awakening of women's power, it is accompanied by the emergence of many phenomena. These phenomena are defined as problems, changes, new atmospheres, etc. Among them, late marriage and late childbearing are one of its representatives.
In the long river of history, it is natural to get married and have children, and women happen to be in such a passive environment, and it is natural to conform to the environment. But today, women can work, work alone, obtain economic benefits, and have the ability to survive on their own, so some women's choice to get married and have children is actively or passively postponed. We have all heard "the order of parents, the words of matchmakers", "I would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage", "marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat", therefore, marriage has such a major mission, so modern women with economic strength or higher education take the initiative to think and carefully consider the meaning of their marriage?
Last year, I joined a walking group during the National Day holiday, and there was a mother-son combination that attracted me. They are from Beijing, their mothers should be from the Kochi people, and their children should be in the upper grades of primary school; What attracted me to them was the age difference in appearance, or the appearance of my mother, which gave me the feeling that I could be a child's grandmother. This may be a grain of sand in late marriage and late childbearing. During the trip, through everyone's conversations, we learned that mothers have taken their children to many places, indicating that they have a certain economic strength; Along the way, the mother's side references to the surrounding landscape indicate the mother's knowledge and guidance to the child; The child's vigorous energy sets off the mother's physical difficulties. This pair of mothers and children is a little different from the mothers and children we have seen in the past. But we will see more of these mothers and children in the future.