The happiest thing in this world is that what you say is listened to, what you express is understood, and if you love someone, you will love it for a lifetime. It's a pity that Ji Lingchen didn't understand Kan Qingzi's mind at that time.
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Author |Wan Muzi.
In the vanity fair of the entertainment industry, some people's love and career are often difficult to achieve.
Emotional life and career are inseparable, and feelings sometimes cause backlash to career.
Recently, "Infinite Transcendence Class" was launched, and Ji Lingchen appeared on variety shows again after many years.
It's just that this time he didn't have Kan Qingzi by his side.
How sweet the two once loved each other, how sad they were when they broke up.
One is a well-known actress in the entertainment industry, and the other is a fledgling young model in the modeling circle.
The gap in their careers made Ji Lingchen give up this relationship.
When they broke up, Ji Lingchen only used the sentence "You like the sea, I loved you" hastily.
It is precisely because of this sentence that he was ridiculed by the majority of netizens as "Brother Dahai", and he has no works in 6 years.
On the show, he directly shouted injustice: I just broke up with Kan Qingzi, but I haven't worked for 6 years, why do you treat me like this?
Once upon a time, Kan Qingzi's public photo with Ji Lingchen was the envy of countless lovers.
** of them, eye contact, bright smiles, as if the whole world is making way for their love.
Ji Lingchen's sentence "I am Ji Lingchen of Kan Qingzi" has become a declaration of love in the hearts of countless girls.
At that time, they were golden boys and girls in the eyes of everyone, with a bright star journey and a smooth love path.
It's a pity that in "Dear Inn", Ji Lingchen was urged to marry, which became the fuse for the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
Didn't wait for the proposal
The happiest thing in this world is that what you say is listened to, what you express is understood, and if you love someone, you will love it for a lifetime. ”
It's a pity that Ji Lingchen didn't understand Kan Qingzi's mind at that time.
even missed a silly girl she loved at the time, Kan Qingzi.
still remembers that in "Dear Inn", Kan Qingzi wrote a confession letter to Ji Lingchen.
She said: "Although every day is tiring, it will be very gratifying to have you; Although the future will be very bitter, it will be very happy to have you. ”
Netizens commented on their blessings, but it was also accompanied by a large wave of marriage urging groups:
When is Ji Lingchen going to marry Que Qingzi? ”
When are you two going to get married? ”
Before the age of 30, if you don't marry her, after the age of 30, maybe she really doesn't want to marry you, and all you meet in the future will be bad girls! ”
Regarding this question, in fact, in "Dear Inn", two people have been asked.
Chen Xiang asked Ji Lingchen:
Do you two plan to get married? ”
Ji Lingchen replied:
Indeed, the marriage is in the plan, and even the wedding location has been decided, that is, it is to be set in Paris, but to earn more money, the house in Shanghai is so expensive. ”
Ji Lingchen's idea is very straightforward, that is, he will not get married until he earns enough money.
Later, at the dinner table, Liu Tao asked:
When are you going to get married? ”
even encouraged Ji Lingchen to propose marriage on the spot.
Kan Qingzi explained the reason:
He wasn't ready yet, the burden was heavier, and he felt that he could only have a house and a car. ”
After saying this, Qingzi lowered his head and sighed softly, and Liu Tao looked at Ji Lingchen with a frown after hearing this.
Liu Tao said: Kan Qingzi can't wait all the time, sometimes girls wait and wait to run away. ”
Liu Tao's words hit Kan Qingzi's tears at once, and he lowered his head with tears in his eyes.
Probably because Que Qingzi knew what Ji Lingchen was thinking, he took the initiative to say that he didn't care about marriage.
Perhaps, Kan Qingzi took into account Ji Lingchen's difficulty, and with her love for Ji Lingchen that she understood best, she faced the urging to marry, and it didn't end like this.
Actually, Ji Lingchen can also be understood, she wants to give Kan Qingzi a perfect wedding.
It's just that with the material conditions at that time, it can't be reached.
Because he knows that marriage is not child's play, and he must also be responsible for Que Qingzi.
A man's love is not uncommon, what is rare is that he knows to be responsible for you.
However, he ignored one point, Kan Qingzi, who is 30 years old, can't afford to wait, what she wants is a stable family and future.
As for the material, the two can struggle together.
However, Ji Lingchen didn't understand, but he didn't give a response for a long time.
has been in love for 8 years, "I'm thirty years old, I can't wait for you to marry me".
In the end, Kan Qingzi did not wait for the marriage proposal, but what he waited for was the end of the song and everyone dispersed.
Feelings are not complicated, the complicated thing is that we will take a lot of things to measure feelings, measure them, and over time, forget whether it is a good deal because it is discounted, or because you like it super much.
The backlash of "Brother Dahai".
When they broke up, Kan Qingzi posted:
No cheating, no **, no contract, really broke up. Thank you for your concern. ”
Ji Lingchen said:
You love the sea, I loved you. ”
Maybe netizens felt that Ji Lingchen had lived up to Kan Qingzi's affection and didn't see the perfect ending of the two who fell in love, so they called Ji Lingchen "Brother Dahai" afterwards.
In "Infinite Transcendence Class", Zeng Zhiwei and other tutors asked him why it was not a compliment to be called "Brother Dahai"?
As with his own answer, he felt it was a mockery.
The backlash after the breakup is also very obvious in Ji Lingchen, who has been unable to act normally for 6 years.
Last year's hit "Cloud Feather" directed by Guo Jingming, in which Ji Lingchen played Gong Zhaoyu, but many people didn't see it.
After the breakup, Kan Qingzi was also hit hard, and said on another variety show that a boyfriend was dispensable.
But the difference is that Kan Qingzi's career has skyrocketed.
She took over the filming of film and television dramas such as "Billions of Heirs", "Daddy is Home", and "If Paris is Unhappy".
As a result, it has also gained a large number of fans.
Now, Ji Lingchen is on "Infinite Transcendence Class", and he just wants to hone his acting skills and become an excellent actor.
In fact, the emotional factor is only a small part, and the most important thing is to rely on acting skills.
If there are solid acting skills and excellent works, Ji Lingchen will also be seen by the audience.
After all, relationships are just private life.
Facing the gains and losses of feelings.
I only hope that we have the courage to move forward an inch, and we also have the calmness to retreat an inch.
It's good to have loved it deeply
The best way to love someone is to manage yourself; Lovers must have a degree, leave a little self, only then will you have self-esteem, and your efforts will be valued. ”
In the youngest days, only investing in yourself is a sure way to make money. Don't envy those who show affection together all day long, believe that in the near future, there must be someone who is waiting for you to become better and better.
In 2023, Kan Qingzi finally waited for the right person.
On Kan Qingzi's birthday, her boyfriend carefully arranged a marriage proposal ceremony for Kan Qingzi, and it was on an island.
Kan Qingzi likes the sea, and her new boyfriend proposes to celebrate her birthday on the entire island.
Kan Qingzi in * is visible to the naked eye, wearing a dark green dress is beautiful and fairy, holding flowers in her hands, like an ordinary fairy.
Haruki Murakami said:
If you love someone, don't be afraid of the ending, love hard when you can love him, because not everyone can be very lucky to meet the person who loves him very much, and some people, we can meet, they are already very lucky. In the face of the person you like, don't pretend not to care, don't talk back, life is impermanent, and boldly express love and cherish. ”
I believe that Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi were in love with each other at that time, but they later separated.
However, as long as you have loved deeply, you have no regrets.
Not everyone is suitable for growing old with you. Some people are used to grow; Some people live together; Some people are remembered for the rest of their lives.
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China Career Planner, BSc Senior Career Planner, American Shubo School Career Planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological counselor, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform contract author, second child mother.
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