Recently, a ** on Douyin is very popular, with the title "The killing of capital!" There are 100 million leftover women in China. ”
"100 million leftover women" is too exaggerated, and this is also the usual method of marketing accounts. There are indeed more and more older leftover women, and everyone is no wonder about this.
But so many older women, do you say they are all unmarried? Apparently not.
So why not get married? The reason is that these women can accept the mediocre self but can't accept the mediocre other half!
In the era of the Internet, men and women receive completely different information, which also creates a huge difference in the concept of mate selection between the two sides.
For example, in terms of online cool articles, male frequency readers often write like this: The male protagonist is either a family member or his parents are dead, and his fiancée quits his marriage, but he is also excluded from the family. But the male protagonist is resolute and unyielding, and he is lucky to obtain the ancient inheritance, and he has survived many times, and finally he is invincible in the world.
Women's beauty is often a by-product of the rising strength of the male protagonist, and the female protagonists will take the initiative to post it after seeing the strong strength of the male protagonist.
The male frequency author's description of romantic love is very stingy, there are no delicate emotional changes and touching twists and turns of the story, to sum it up simply: the male protagonist is poor and humiliated, and the male protagonist is developed and embraced.
In such works, women are labeled as hating the poor and loving the rich, and this simple and crude depiction of the feelings between men and women is undoubtedly not in line with the correct three-view orientation.
Sadly, you could say that these authors are too extreme in their portrayal of women, but they can't deny the reality of events like these.
The story of "Liang Zhu" is poignant and moving, and what makes people talk about it is the loyalty of love. Who knows that there are still many women's boxing marketing accounts that say, "The Ma family is powerful and powerful, why does Zhu Yingtai refuse to marry Ma Wencai?" "That's the case.
When I saw this kind of marketing, I had only one reaction: three views are broken!
Getting back to business, let's take a look at the ** that women are exposed to and the content of TV series.
The heroine fell, and her stupid appearance was so different. The domineering president has since fallen in love.
The heroine slapped the second male in the face, and her angry look was so moving. The second black-bellied male has to be her.
The heroine is out of love and drenched in the rain, and her pitiful appearance is pitiful. The gentle male third can no longer extricate himself.
Works that focus on the female market cannot be said to be without common sense, and they have reached the level of magic. Just now we talked about the extreme of men's frequency online articles, but there is an excuse to dislike the poor and love the rich.
But the female frequency is on the next level, and the men's love for the female protagonist is inexplicable, as if just because the female protagonist is a woman, all the male characters have collectively fallen into the Gu, crazy for her, crazy for her, and banging against the wall for her.
A 35-year-old woman in Guangzhou sprayed paint on a million Rolls-Royces and left the words "Qin Shao, I love you" on the body. When the police arrived, they still shouted domineeringly: "I sprayed my own car, why should I arrest me!" ”
Later, it was confirmed that the owner of the car had no intersection with the woman, and the woman just wanted to marry into a wealthy family.
Netizens commented: The wealthy family doesn't have to think about it, the prison gate welcomes her at any time.
The screenwriters and authors dare to think that it is not scary, but the scary thing is that women also dare to believe it!
Do you have any thoughts of your own?
In the marriage market, if a man can't win the heart, he will feel that he is not good enough and should continue to work hard. Some women have never had this kind of self-reflection, and they have no concept of worthiness or unworthiness, because the feedback from society is that she will always deserve better!