I'm Tang Liang, and a fan asked: "I am in debt of millions, and my life can't be guaranteed, can I still fall in love?" ”。Tang Liang first corrected it, whether it is in debt or debt, this is not a reason to fall in love! As a girl, she has millions of debts and life is a problem, which does make many people sound like a tangled question, so in this case, do you want to fall in love?
Tang Liang wants to say three points! After you read it, if you have any good ideas, you can also leave a message in the comment area to share!
The first point, can love be bound by money?!
I'm in debt, and it doesn't seem to have anything to do with whether I can fall in love, right? Of course, as a physical person, you may feel in debt, which will have some negative effects on your relationship, but this does not mean that you can't fall in love, this is the first thing you have to make clear, that is, being in debt is not the only factor that determines whether you can fall in love!
Love, for human beings, it is synonymous with beauty, and it should not be bound by money in itself. But being in debt, life is not guaranteed, it may indeed have some impact on your relationship, at this time, in fact, what you need to do is to be careful in your love choices, and you need to look at the relationship more rationally.
According to this fan's question, to prove that the debt problem is so serious that the basic life cannot be guaranteed, then there are at least three aspects that need to be considered.
The first aspect is that you need to think about your own financial situation, which is an internal thinking.
The second aspect may be to solve the basic life security, and then consider falling in love, after all, if you fall in love with someone else, it is impossible for others to support you, unless you are really talented, like the famous architect Wang Shu, at the beginning, his wife supported him on his salary! You're just out of luck for the time being, but you're strategizing!
The third aspect, you have to consider whether the person you are looking for can understand the fact of your debt, whether you can accept your debt, this is what you have to think about, of course, in this case, you had better find someone who can understand you and accept you! Such people may be soul mates! Because he understands you! It's really rare to have someone in this world who can understand you, let me tell you, Tang Liang's parents don't understand me!
The second point is the motivation for love!
When you find a love partner, the motive must be pure, to find someone you really like, instead of thinking about the other party to pay you off the debt, you are choosing to escape your own debt problem, love itself is to be built on the basis of equality and respect, if you are trying to rely on the man to solve your debt problem, then this relationship may soon say goodbye, and may even cause some harm to you and the other party!
Because your motives weren't pure in the first place!
Of course, falling in love is about supporting each other, it is about accompanying each other, if you are lucky enough to find a life partner who really understands you, really understands you, and really supports you as mentioned in the first point, he will face the challenges with you, and he will also become the driving force for you to get out of debt! Therefore, falling in love is not a burden in itself, the main thing is to find the right person!
Third, courage and responsibility.
is like Liang Jingru singing "Courage", "Love needs courage to face." As a person with millions of debts and can't take care of yourself, deciding to fall in love in this situation really requires courage and responsibility, to be honest, if it were me Tang Liang, if I didn't find a woman who really understood my story, I wouldn't have the courage.
In this case, it is best for you to be open and honest with the other person about your debt, until you find someone who understands that you are willing to accept you, then this person may be your soul mate, because if you are in normal debt, he understands your story! If you encounter it, you have to cherish it, and you will not marry him for the rest of your life! The man is the opposite, unless she doesn't marry! Love her to death!
Also, if you meet the right person, he will work with you to make a feasible repayment plan, and you also need to work harder in your career, live harder, and don't give up hope!
Only in this way can you and the other party move towards a better tomorrow together!
All in all, being in debt is not the reason why you can't fall in love, it's just that you need to be rational and cautious about romantic relationships, find the right person, you have to say debt, who doesn't go into debt these days, car loans and mortgages are all debts, who told you that the house is an asset?! Ignorance and stupidity, it's not your asset anyway, it's someone else's asset, I'm not going to talk about it here!
Girl, you only need to know one principle, that is, true love is based on mutual understanding and mutual support and mutual trust, you don't use falling in love as a means for you to escape the problem of debt! All right?
That's all for today, good luck!
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