1.Authority and respect.
The reason why children follow the guidance of their teachers is largely because the teachers represent authority. In school, teachers have professional knowledge and experience, so children are more willing to listen to their teachers.
For example, when a teacher explains knowledge in class, children listen carefully and actively participate in the discussion. They will think that the teacher is someone to be respected and relied on, so they will make an effort to learn and follow the teacher's advice.
2.Characters & Emotions.
Another reason is that the roles and emotions of parents and teachers in the hearts of children are different. Parents are their children's relatives, and the more time they spend together, the more tense and conflicting emotions the child will have.
For example, when a parent asks a child to do homework or do an activity, the child may have emotional conflicts with the parent. In school, it is easier for children to have good interactions with their teachers because their relationships are more professional and formal.
3.Communicate and listen.
The way parents and children communicate can also affect whether or not children listen to their parents. If parents simply give orders without listening to their children's opinions and needs, it will be difficult for children to empathize and accept.
For example, when parents ask their children to complete homework, if they can communicate effectively with their children and listen to their children's ideas and difficulties, then their children may be more willing to accept their parents' arrangements and take the initiative to complete the tasks.
To sum up, the main reasons why children follow the guidance of their teachers but do not listen to their parents are authority and respect, role and emotion, and communication and listening. Parents can help their children grow and develop better by establishing good communication and interaction, respecting their children's opinions and needs, and leveraging their professional strengths.
If we can understand children's psychology and needs, respect their choices and decisions, and establish good communication and trust with them, then children are more likely to listen to their parents' opinions and achieve better development in the process of growth.