Xiao Fang, a down-to-earth and diligent "worker", encountered a workplace "storm" in this wine game. After three rounds of wine and five flavors of food, just when everyone was talking and laughing, the leader suddenly whispered to him: "Go and buy the order." ”
Although Xiao Fang had doubts, he still ran to pay for it. However, when he returned to the wine table, he found that the eyes of his colleagues were like "100,000 whys", and the leader did not show the slightest expression of his "righteous act". Xiao Fang felt a grievance in his heart, and he felt like a "big wrongdoer". He began to think, could it really be wrong last time? As the saying goes: "Eat a trench, grow a wisdom." Could it be that the leader just wants him to be the "wronged leader"? Within a few days, another unit drinking party came as scheduled. History is always strikingly similar, and the leader whispered to Xiao Fang again: "Go and buy the order." "This time, the small side decided to change tactics. The corners of his mouth rose slightly, revealing an "evil smile", and responded: "Good leader, I'll go." But can you teach me some tips on how to work in the workplace? Like how to be as good as you are. The leader was obviously "rectified" by Xiao Fang's words, but he still nodded exceptionally. Xiaofang took the opportunity to have an "in-depth dialogue" with the leader, not only gained valuable suggestions, but also showed his own "unique in the world" insights in the exchange. However, when Xiao Fang returned to the wine table, a "bloody storm" quietly came. A colleague said "yin and yang": "Yo, Xiaofang, are you currying favor with the leader?" ”
Xiao Fang was not in danger, he replied calmly: "This is to please the leader, I am 'stealing from the leader to learn art'." Besides, everyone has a share of this meal, and I just did my part. His answer was like a "timely rain", which instantly resolved the embarrassment of the scene. 01.At the unit's wine party, the leader whispers to you: "Go and buy the order", and smart people do it! The workplace is like a battlefield, and the wine bureau is even more "full of gunsmoke". In this social occasion full of "routines", we need to see six ways and listen to all directions, and if we are not careful, we may "step on thunder". For example, what do you do when the leader whispers to you at the wine party, "Go and buy the order"? Do you choose to be a "fool" and pay for yourself, or be a "smart person" and deal with it skillfully? Today, let's talk about this topic and see how smart people "play tricks" in the drinking game. First of all, if you choose to pay for it yourself, then congratulations, you have managed to become a "fool". Why? Because in the workplace, some things are not as simple as they seem. If you go straight to pay, you may make the leader feel that you are ignorant and do not know how to respect his authority. Secondly, if you don't get the approval or return of the leader after you pay, then your efforts will be in vain.
So, what do smart people do? In fact, smart people will choose a more ingenious way to deal with this problem. They will first ask the leader's opinion, such as: "Leader, I don't know what the budget for this wine party is, how much do you think I need to pay?" In this way, the leader will feel that you are sensible and know to respect his opinion, and at the same time will give you a clear answer. If the leader asks you to pay, then you can choose a more subtle way to show your gratitude. For example, you can work harder later in the world or help your leader in other ways. In this way, the leader will feel that you are a grateful person and will pay more attention to your abilities and contributions. In short, at the unit drinking party, the leader whispers to you: "Go and buy the order", the fool will pay for it, and the smart person will choose a more ingenious way to deal with the problem. I hope that you can learn from this experience and continuously improve your workplace literacy and ability. Finally, I would like to summarize with a famous quote: "A smart person does not make mistakes, but is able to learn from them." "I hope that everyone can continue to learn and improve in the workplace, and become a real "smart person"!
02.Write at the endSome people believe that Xiaofang's approach of "666" not only meets the requirements of the leadership, but also creates opportunities for himself; Some people also feel that he should defend his rights and interests more firmly and not be "manipulated" by the leaders at will. In this complex workplace, we may face all kinds of unexpected situations. In the face of the requirements of leaders, we need to be like "Transformers", respond flexibly, and at the same time, we must also learn to deal with interpersonal relationships in the "sword and shadow" of the workplace to avoid falling into "Infernal Affairs". What would you do if you were a small party?