Today's parent group is no longer a simple corner of communication and information sharing, but has gradually evolved into a show for some parents to show off and show themselves, and even a place for anxiety to spread. Let's take a peek at the "comparison" turmoil between kindergarten parents.
"Young connection" used to be a foreign word to me, but now it appears frequently in my sight。Does this mean that the "prodigy" of the new era has been born? Is the reading of three or four thousand words just a vanity competition between parents? What is the tuition fee for a private kindergarten? What is the importance of the connection between young and young? These terms, like a heavy hammer, hit my heart again and again, making me feel deeply stressed.
There are even some parents who choose to resign for the sake of their children, regard their children as the whole of life, and place all their hopes on them. When a child's growth is a little unsatisfactory, the kind of loss and despair may be indescribable. Therefore, I have always disapproved of this way of quitting and taking care of the baby full-time. Unless we really have no choice, we should never put all our hopes in our children.
Recently, a parent of a student made a statement at a parent-teacher meeting that attracted a lot of attention. He admits that his child is not good at learning, but he can see the sparkle in his child, and he loves him deeply, no matter what others say. Such a child is undoubtedly happy. They may not be outstanding in their studies, but they can find their value in the care of their parents.
Some people say that if children study well, they will be able to serve the motherland in the future; If you don't study well, you can also bear the joy. I think that as parents, we should give our children unconditional love and support, rather than endless expectations and pressure. Regardless of family conditions, we should believe that children can always find their own piece of the sky.