I am Xiaoyuer, a rural girl who achieves financial independence by writing, click "Follow" in the upper right corner to share [self-writing + personal growth] dry goods for you every day.
Hi, I'm Little Fish.
Yesterday, I chatted with my former colleagues, and while chatting, it became a spit conference, and I complained about the various wrongs of the former company.
After complaining, there was a hint of refreshment in my heart, but more sadness.
Because I found that from college graduation to now, the bosses of the companies I have worked for have hardly been thinking about their employees.
During my internship, I went to a small start-up company. After working for a month, the boss pulled me into her room and said hello to me: although you have not yet passed the internship period, the company is sympathetic to the employees and will buy you social security this month.
At that time, I had just come out of society, and my experience was very shallow, and I thought that I had met a good boss, and I only knew the truth after a few years of crawling and rolling in society:Employers must buy social security for their employees
And the company I complained about, in order to save expenses, cut many benefits for employees, such as free lunch, seniority awards, etc.
What's even more outrageous is that this year's Spring Festival holiday has been left for a month, and it is said that it will leave more time for everyone to reunite with their families.
After 9 years of coming out of the society, I changed jobs too much, and I found out:
It is really difficult to earn money from a part-time job, and it is difficult to get through, especially if you are from a rural area, and it is even more difficult to live a good life in the city by working
Part of the reason I did it was because I was disappointed in the workplace.
Even if you change companies to work, you will still repeat the old path, so it is better to be brave and jump out of this endless loop.
So far, I have been doing self-** for 10 months, with an income of 5w+, although it is not like other bloggers who can earn dozens of w, but for me who used to get a dead salary of 4000 yuan a month, it is already a good result.
Self-** has brought me not only income, but alsoCognitive awakening, reading, solitude styleThese are also a valuable spiritual wealth.
Of course, the most important thing is the understanding and practice of self-writing. Now I've saved up some experience, if you want to do self-a**, I hope this experience can help you.
01.The most important thing to do is to act
Just started doing self-a**, a friend came to me and said that he wanted to do this, let me take her, I said no problem, I was very excited when we chatted, but the next day there was no follow-up, and she didn't open her account for almost a year.
In fact, it's really not difficult to do self-a**, it's nothing more than thatRegister an account, find benchmarks, find positioning, and code words
So if you really want to be self-a**, don't always worry about this, be afraid of that, just try it, like Mr. Sugar Shuai saidTry and you won't die
Even if you fail, it's not a big deal, if you want to learn to walk, you have also wrestled many times, and if there is no accumulation of failures, how can you succeed?
02.To find your own unique style
I have a lot of thoughts on this.
At the beginning, there are many entertainment accounts on the market that talk about domestic entertainment and Hong Kong, but there are very few people who talk about the Guangdong entertainment industry.
Last month, the transformation from ** operation and personal growth, the road is not so easy to walk.
I imitated others to share emotional topics, and I wrote dry goods, trying to meet left and right, but I had no personal characteristics, which led to many fans.
I didn't figure it out until a few days ago,Do it yourself, you have to have your own style, so I decided to deepen my self-cultivation and share my experience to help confused friends.
03.In addition to persistence or persistence
If you ask me what is the shortcut to doing self-a**, I will answer with two words:Persistence
It is said that in the eastern part of China, there is a type of bamboo called moso bamboo, which grows underground every year for the first three years3 cm
But by the fourth year, the bamboo will grow upwards at a rate of 50 centimeters per day, less than a month10 metersHigh.
Being self-** is like a bamboo, you have to spend a lot of time laying a foundation in the early stage, such as changing texts, learning, maintaining fan relationships, etc., which is a bit thankless.
But after two or three years, the harvest is straight, and the speed is beyond your imagination.
Xiao Yuer, the blogger I follow, 6 years ago, she was just a **customer service, and she insisted on doing it since **, she bought a house and a car in the past two years, and there are more than 30w fans on the whole network.
Write at the end:
There are many part-time job opportunities, but there is only one opportunity to do self-improvement wholeheartedly, which is what I often remind myself of, so that I can do my best to do a good job of self-improvement.
If you also want to be self-a**, act with me, it will be hard, but the hard work is worth it, because this is a career that belongs to you completely, and no one can take it away.