Author: Jianghu people are called Wu face.
When will we be able to overcome all difficulties after being physically and mentally exhausted? A line is thousands of miles away, how do you know that Fanghua starts from the beginning.
Needless to say, it is difficult to be disabled. Why is it difficult to be disabled? The reason for the concentration and obvious is that the physical condition leads to low education, low ability, and few opportunities. So how do people with disabilities get out of trouble? Let's take a look at an example to take a look at it together.
There was once a Hong Kong top richest man, Tian, who participated in a reality show to experience the lives of people at the bottom. He wanted to prove that the poor are poor because they are lazy and afraid of hardship, and that beggars can make a fortune if they are willing to work hard. Even if he is the lowest cleaner, he can become a billionaire again with his diligence and hard work.
Not to mention the process, everyone who is interested can search by themselves. The end result is that the tiring work and meager salary make him think about when he can rest today, what he can eat with today's money, and he doesn't want to think about anything else. I don't have time to study or plan my own life, and I have exhausted all my energy just to make ends meet.
From this we see that if a person wants to grow,The first is to have enough time and energy to allow yourself to learn and thinkThis is why most human beings can study wholeheartedly without thinking about their livelihood when they are young, which is the country, society, and family for the cultivation of the next generation of talents.
Having enough time and energy, this is the most basic premise, thenSecond, you need to be able to actively take the initiative to learn。After all, it's not in school, there is criticism and discipline from teachers. Without self-control and self-control, it is difficult for a person to improve. Think about it, are you brushing the short ** to see the black silk lady? Game streaming? Soap opera? Funny**? Or do you want to look at dry goods analysis? Technical explanations? Knowledge sharing? Exchange of ideas?
Life is hard, we don't feel happy, we need a little bit of emotional value of happiness, that's understandable, of course it's fine. But I'm afraid that if you are addicted to it and waste most of your time and energy on it, then how can you talk about learning and growing? So, why is it hard for most people and why are it for the minority to succeed? This is because too many people struggle to overcome human weaknesses.
The third is that you need to find the right direction of development that suits you。In Tian's example just now, what he lacks is 1, but he already has 2 and 3, so once he has 1, it is possible for him to quickly return to a prosperous life. And more of us are most lacking in 3! Therefore, it is often seen that some people have worked hard, but still have no results. Just like Camel Xiangzi, "I thought that if I kept working hard to pull the car, I would have a rickshaw of my own." ”
How to find your own direction of development is not something that others talk about casually, it depends on how you know yourself and how you plan yourself. If you blindly follow the trend, it is easy to fall into the pit and become someone else's leek.
And there isThe fourth is to insist on the direction after identifying it。What I am afraid of here is that I don't stick to the right direction, and as a result, I fish for three days and dry my nets for two days, and in the end nothing happens. I am afraid that I will go in the wrong direction but blindly insist on it, and the more I try, the more I will fail.
To sum up: enough time and energy + initiative and enthusiasm for their own learning and growth + suitable for their own development direction + persistence!
This summary is actually suitable for everyone, but when it comes to people with disabilities, if you want to grow, you need to pay twice, because our starting point is lower than that of able-bodied people, so we need to work hard to reach the level of ability of able-bodied people first, and then continue to climb upward!
Some people may say that it looks simple, but it is actually difficult to do! Why can't you give money and make everyone rich?
Alas, everyone has money equals everyone has no money! When everyone has money, prices and labor also skyrocket, and the result is still the same in the end!
Some friends feel hard to see this, but I wonder if anyone is excited to see this? Why the excitement? Because most people find it difficult and feel that they can't do it, if you can do it, then you will have a better chance of standing out. So, how to get out of the predicament, the root is still in yourself!
Of course, we can still count on the outside world, so let us wish the great motherland more prosperity and strength!