I saw a very interesting question, and the first time I saw it, I felt that it was quite suitable to talk to everyone.
What's the difference between a man chasing you and flirting with you?
Literally, pursuit means that a man likes you from the bottom of his heart, and then takes the initiative to pursue you.
Flirting, that is, men just want to have fun, not really love you.
In these two cases, although the kernel is quite different, sometimes it is really difficult to judge.
So, for women, how do you tell the difference?
1.Attention to detail.
Men who genuinely pursue you will pay more attention to details, and they will care about your preferences, habits, and even some small things in your life, and they will remember them.
Let's say they'll notice a color you like and then choose that color when giving a gift.
Some of your little habits, you may not even notice yourself, they will be very clear.
And if you just flirt with your man, they are usually more casual, they will not deliberately pay too much attention to you, let alone take it to heart.
Sometimes you stress something to them, and they can get confused.
2.How much to give.
Men who are genuinely pursuing you will want to take good care of you, and they are willing to give you time, money, and energy.
Their love for you is not just lip service, the point is that they are willing to change for you.
For example, if you have some hobbies, they will pay attention to them, and they want to talk to you about more topics.
And if you just flirt with you, you usually don't pay much, and most of their "love" for you is sweet words, and there will be very little actual action.
When you really need their help, they will even make excuses to excuse themselves.
3.Fear of rejection.
Men who are genuinely pursuing you will be afraid of being rejected by you because they care about you, so they will worry about whether their behavior is appropriate, whether it will cause you to resent it or something?
They will be extra cautious when pursuing you, because if one doesn't get it right, they may be out.
In contrast, men who are just flirting with you are generally thick-skinned, and they don't care too much about whether they will be rejected by you.
This is because they don't have much emotion, and flirting with you is just a mentality of trying it out.
Even if they really fail, then they can continue to flirt with other women.
For them, there are many fish in the fish pond, and one less is not less.
4.Respect or not.
Men who are genuinely pursuing you will respect your feelings, they will be very concerned about your thoughts and feelings, and they will be especially afraid that you will be unhappy.
If they do something to anger you, they will blame themselves extraordinarily, so they are always cautious when it comes to showing affection.
In contrast, if you are just flirting with men, they are usually more egoistic, and they will only act according to their mood.
Sometimes, even if you explicitly reject them, they will still flirt with you from time to time, completely ignoring your feelings.
Sometimes they you off, and they can be extra funny.
Actually,Whether a man really likes it or just plays, sometimes it's really hard to tell.
After all, sometimes they can't even tell the difference.
Some men will meet different thoughts, and some men will also move their true feelings when they play.
Therefore, women don't have to be too entangled, just follow their hearts.
Of course, you have to talk about love slowly.
Finally, I want to say that,There are unforeseen circumstances, and so is love.
Don't doubt love, and don't believe in love ......