Will the child suffer if he does not pay New Year's greetings? The comment area solves doubts
How important it is to visit friends and family on Chinese New Year's Eve.
Disputes over visiting relatives and friends.
Every festive season, the family affection between relatives and friends has always been a concern of people. However, it is now a custom not to visit relatives, relatives, or New Year's greetings. Is this really good for children's development? Some believe that staying away from family and friends can harm children. Nowadays, many people do not want to associate with relatives and friends, but this means that future children are likely to lose this love and support. When children are in trouble, relatives and friends who rarely communicate with others on weekdays will not do their best to help. Will this make this kid a person to rely on? In fact, relatives and friends are not just a simple social activity, there is a deeper meaning behind it. To understand why young people are leaving their families, we need to think about why.
As the New Year approaches, the traditional customs of New Year's greetings and visiting relatives, such as New Year's greetings and visiting relatives, are gradually losing people's support in today's society. This phenomenon has caused society to rethink family and social relationships, and it has also prompted many people to choose to cut ties with their loved ones. Due to the differences in the unique psychological state and understanding of family affection among the younger generation, coupled with the redefinition of the social circle, they do not attach as much importance to family affection as the previous generation, and pay more attention to the inner needs of individuals and the initiative of social interaction. In the comment area, some netizens called their relatives as"Garbage", reflecting the complex mentality of some people towards their loved ones. In fact, we should look at kinship from a different perspective, not just at it"Friendly"or"Harmful"These two concepts.
Complex kinship relationships.
The reason why young people are reluctant to spend this time with family and friends is most likely because they are in trouble every day. It's uncomfortable to be surrounded by a bunch of chattering, rude family members, and it can make you question family relationships. However, mutual assistance between family members is not absolute, and even sometimes, family affection is not based on sincere feelings. Despite the blood relationship between relatives, relying too much on their help can also get a person into trouble. Some netizens feel that communication between family members can only bring conflicts and problems, so in order to avoid unnecessary trouble, they prefer to avoid it. But isn't this a one-sided view? Perhaps, in visiting relatives and friends, in interpersonal communication, in human sophistication, and in human nature, we can find more value and meaning.
Expansion: In addition to kinship, there are also complex emotional entanglements and social interactions in the family. The reason why some people are reluctant to associate with relatives and friends may be because they have experienced conflicts and conflicts between relatives. Meeting with a talkative and unpleasant family member can often be frustrating and stressful. In addition, some people believe that assistance from families is unreliable"Joke"The phenomenon made them reflect on family relationships. Some people also admit that in the family, due to their own interests and conflicts within the family, they often bring trouble and trouble to the family, so they choose to keep a certain distance from their family members in order to protect themselves. However, we must also realize that "home" contains a deeper connotation: "home" is not only a social norm, but also an important aspect of human nature, emotion, social support, etc.
Thoughts of family affection. When it comes to the maintenance of kinship, we can look at it from the perspective of kinship. Family affection is not just as simple as meeting and meeting on the surface, but a kind of emotional connection, a kind of social support, and a kind of harmony between people. Some believe that kinship can support each other in times of crisis, while others believe that the relationship is not always positive. Re-examine the complexity of kinship in relation to the situation where some people take advantage of relatives and take advantage of relatives. Young men"Severed affiliation"It is a positive reaction to life and a reflection on family affection. However, overemphasizing "family affection" often makes us ignore the real emotional communication of human beings. Perhaps, in this intricate family relationship, we can find more human goodness and compassion in it.
Expansion: The meaning of family affection is not just a superficial visit and greeting, but a deeper social assistance and emotional support. Family, friendship and social relations are an emotional network in human daily life, which is related to the well-being of individuals and social adaptability, as well as social harmony and mutual assistance. When visiting relatives and friends, we can feel the warmth of family and the beauty of human nature, and this experience makes us more deeply appreciate the unity and dependence of human beings. Therefore, in thinking about family affection, we should take a more inclusive and understanding attitude to examine the interests and complex relationships it contains. Perhaps, cutting off family affection is not the only way out, family affection can still give people strength and strength.
Personal experience. In modern society, the meaning and function of "home" are increasingly concerned and debated. Family affection has endowed the Chinese nation with a long cultural tradition and blood affection, but in real life, it shows all kinds of complexity and truth. The younger generation"Severed affiliation"Although it is a reflection and redefinition of the traditional concept of family affection, it does not completely deny this relationship. On this basis, we may be able to find more human values, emotional values, and social support for family affection, so that we can have a deeper understanding of human interdependence. The subtle interaction and emotional resonance between relatives and friends are the most precious assets and support in our lives, allowing us to feel the sincere emotional exchange and the beauty of humanity in the process of maintaining family affection.
Extension: Affection is valuable on an individual level, but it is also a challenge. In the time of family affection, we are not just simple etiquette and appearance, but more of an interpersonal communication, a kind of "heart-to-heart" harmony. Mutual assistance between relatives is not only a social norm, but also a spiritual bond and a cultural heritage. Therefore, I firmly believe that it is not"Severed affiliation"Whether it is taking the initiative to maintain the relationship between relatives, when dealing with the relationship between relatives and friends, we must absorb the wisdom of life and the power of growth with a tolerant, supportive, and grateful attitude. I hope that everyone can feel the warmth and vitality of life from family life, so as to build a harmonious and happy interpersonal network.