This morning, another parent asked me about their child's physics studies, saying that he had been out of the weekend to sign up for tutoring classes.
In the face of children's learning, as long as the results of any subject are poor, the first reaction of parents is to apply for tutoring classes.
But have you ever wondered what is the reason for your child's poor grades?
There is definitely a problem with talent, and we don't have to raise the bar for this.
What we want to say is whether the child is maximizing his potential. Especially in junior high school, even if some children are slightly less talented, as long as they work hard, they can still achieve good results.
The problem lies in his failure to digest and memorize the knowledge points taught by the teacher.
At this time, he should not be allowed to learn more things, but to understand and understand the knowledge points he has learned and the questions he has done, just like eating, and digest them well.
If the old problems have not been digested, and new problems are given to him, it can only increase his pressure and make him "indigestion", and the problems can only accumulate more and more, and the more he learns, the more confused he becomes.
Therefore, students who are poor in learning must not pour a lot of things into their brains, but should "leave blank" and rest when it is time to rest. Therefore, it is better not to study on weekends than to go to make-up classes.
The brain is like a rubber band, it can't always be in a tight state, there must be Zhang Youchi, there must be time to rest, and the brain will rest well, and the efficiency of classroom listening will be high, and the acceptance effect will be good.
In addition, parents should not talk to their children every day, and reinforce the idea that their children's grades in a certain subject are not good. This will make the child unable to travel lightly, feel burdened, and whenever he learns a subject that he is not good at, he will subconsciously have no self-confidence and be timid, which is also the reason why some students are biased.
There was once a girl who had good grades, but she was a little worse in physics, and one day she came to my office and asked me, "Teacher, why can't I get my physics grades?" Do I need make-up classes? Her words made me immediately understand what her concerns were. In fact, her physics grades are okay, but she is not very top-notch. So, she was asking why she couldn't get a very good score in physics. I replied to her, don't always think about this problem, put your mind at ease, you don't need to do anything, just follow the teacher step by step, don't specialize physics, don't always think about this problem, you must know that speed is not enough.
Since then, her physics grades have been steadily rising, and now she is very top-notch.
In short, I am not very in favor of students making up classes, not only do I not approve of students making up classes, even if I am a teacher, I never enroll my child in tutoring classes, and I do not make up for him.
The words of a family lead to jade.