Cai Wenji is a famous talented woman in history, and she has good attainments in literature, calligraphy and ** fields.
However, this talented woman's marriage is very sad and bumpy, she has married three times in her life, during which she has no choice but to be separated from her flesh and blood, if it is not for Cao Cao's help, Cai Wenji may never get her ultimate happiness.
Looking at Cai Wenji's three marriages in her life from a modern perspective, this doesn't seem to be a big dealAfter all, in the current high divorce rate, second and third marriages seem to be very common, and even some people get married in a flash just a few days after they met, and then quickly divorce without saying a word.
Today's marriage is full of utilitarianism, so why did Cai Wenji, a talented woman of a generation in history, marry three times in her life? Is it also because the utilitarian heart is too big?
Cai Yong was a well-known literary master in the late Eastern Han Dynasty, and in his early years, he was reluctant to enter the court as an official and refused to be recruited by the imperial court. After Dong Zhuo led the Western Liang army into Luoyang to take control of the dynasty, he knew that the Chinese courtiers of the dynasty were very disdainful of him as a martial artistSo he needed a celebrity with a reputation in the cultural world to decorate the façade, and Cai Yong was unfortunately selected.
At first, Cai Yong was reluctant to work for Dong Zhuo, but Dong Zhuo threatened to exterminate the three clans, and Cai Yong had no choice but to be ordered to enter the court as an official. Dong Zhuo was not bad to Cai Yong, he was promoted to ** within three days, and soon appointed him as the Taishou of Bajun, but Dong Zhuo did not let him go to the post, but stayed by his side as a servant.
Dong Zhuo's courtesy to Cai Yong brought Cai Yong a fatal disaster, of course, this is a later story.
Cai Yong has a famous daughter named Cai Yan (the word Zhaoji, because of the avoidance of remembering Wen Ji), she has won the true biography of Cai Yong, and has high attainments in calligraphy, literature and **, especially in **, Cai Wenji is very talented.
For example, even Cai Yong was very surprised by his talent in piano skills. It is said that when Cai Wenji was 9 years old, Cai Yong played the piano at night, but a string broke while playing, and Cai Wenji, who was playing in the courtyard, suddenly said:"Father, it's the second string that breaks! ”
Cai Yong was very surprised, because Cai Wenji was right, but Cai Yong didn't think much about it, thinking that it was just her daughter who said it by chance, in order to tease Wen Ji, Cai Yong deliberately broke a string and asked her how many were broken, but Cai Wenji said it accurately, Cai Yong believed that his daughter really had extraordinary talent.
This is the story of Cai Wenji's identification of the qin, and since then her name as a talented woman has been famous far and wide.
When Cai Wenji was 16 years old, his father Cai Yong married him to Hedong Wei Zhongdao. Wei Zhongdao was born in the Wei clan of Hedong, and his ancestor was the famous general Wei QingAccording to the current saying, Cai Wenji marrying into the Wei family is marrying into a wealthy family, but unfortunately Cai Wenji was not happy for long because she was the wife of a wealthy family, and a year after she married Wei Zhongdao, Wei Zhongdao died of coughing up blood due to illness.
It is true that Cai Wenji is a talented woman, but for the Wei family, her talent is worthlessIt is wrong not to give birth to a son to the Wei familyMoreover, it was only a year after marrying into the Wei family, Wei Zhongdao died, and the Wei family thought that Cai Wenji was suspected of being a kefu, so it was inevitable to sneer at Cai Wenji in life, and Cai Wenji had no choice but to return to her parents' home.
After returning to her parents' home, Cai Wenji did not have a good life for a few days.
At that time, Dong Zhuo had been eradicated by Wang Yun's design, and Cai Yong's situation at the moment was a little embarrassing, Dong Zhuo treated him well, and even the matter of being promoted to ** was known to the world, and he could be regarded as having "colluded" with Dong ZhuoIt's just that Cai Yong is famous and has persuaded Dong Zhuo to restrain Xiliang's arrogant style, and Wang Yun and others can dispel the idea of settling accounts with him after the autumn.
But Cai Yong is a literati, and his personality inevitably has an emotional sideHe accidentally sighed for Dong Zhuo's experience in Wang Yun's guest seatCai Yong's move was regarded as stepping on thunder, and Wang Yun reprimanded Cai Yong in person for sympathizing with Dong Zhuo's traitor, and then sent him to prison for punishment.
At that time, many people interceded for Cai Yong, such as Taiwei Ma Riyan pleaded with Wang Yun and said: "Cai Yong has great talent, it is better to leave him alive to compile Han history." But this made the paranoid Wang Yun even more angry, and he said indignantly"Cai Yong is Dong Zhuo's person, do you want to keep him to write a history book that slanders us?! ”
In this way, Cai Yong ended his life in prison, and Cai Wenji lost her support. In 195 AD, Dong Zhuo's old internal strife caused the Chang'an Rebellion, and saw that the profitable Huns went south to take advantage of the fire to robIn this process, Cai Wenji was unfortunately taken away by the Huns, and then was sacrificed to the Xiongnu Zuoxian King (one said to be the Xiongnu nobles).
Cai Wenji was trapped in the Xiongnu for 12 years, here she suffered unspeakable humiliation, if it were not for the company of two children, maybe Cai Wenji would have lost the hope of living, even so, Cai Wenji still misses her homeland, often blows a song to express her homesickness.
Things took a turn for the better in the eleventh year of Jian'anCao Cao was grateful that Cai Yong had no heirs, so he spent a lot of money to redeem Cai Wenji from the XiongnuAfter learning the news that she could return to her homeland, Cai Wenji was both happy and sad, happy that she could return to her homeland and complete her father's historical legacy, and sad that she was going to be separated from her two children.
In the end, Cai Wenji still chose to return to Han, and the song "Hu Ji Eighteen Beats" drew an end to the 12-year journey of the Huns.
After returning to the Han Dynasty, Cai Wenji's fate had already been arranged by Cao Cao, and she was given to Chen Liuren Dong Ci.
Dong Ci is a young and promising handsome guy who has won Cao Cao's trust, while Cai Wenji has been weathered and is no longer in her prime, no matter how you look at this marriage, she feels inappropriateBut due to the order of the lord Cao Cao, Dong Ci gritted his teeth and confessed, but Cai Wenji's next actions made Dong Ci truly realize the sincerity of Cai Wenji, a talented woman.
Dong Ci once broke the law and should be executed according to the crime, and Cai Wenji went to Cao Cao to intercede. At that time, Cao Cao was entertaining guests, and when he learned that Cai Wenji had come to intercede for Dong Xi, Cao Cao said to the full house"Cai Yong's daughter is outside, let everyone see it today. ”
Of course, Cao Cao's move may not be to humiliate Cai Wenji, but to show the guests his friendship for his old friend, but Cai Wenji's appearance deeply shocked everyone present:In the cold weather, Cai Wenji wore her hair and pleaded guilty to Cao Cao barefoot, her words were affectionate and meaningful, which made people cry.
Cao Cao didn't want to be gracious, so he shirked and said that the condemnation document had been sent out, and there was no way, but Cai Yan's next words made Cao Cao speechless, Cai Wenji said this:"There are countless war horses and a herd of warriors under your command, why bother with a fast horse to save Dong Xi's life? ”
Cao Cao was moved by Cai Wenji's true feelings, and not only exempted Dong Ci from the death penalty, but also specially rewarded Cai Wenji with a headscarf and shoes and socks to keep out the cold.
Later, Cao Cao asked Cai Wenji if he could recall the contents of Cai Yong's collection of ancient books, and Cai Wenji certainly knew what Cao Cao meantIf she wants to completely rescue Dong Ci, it is far from enough to perform a bitter love scene, she has to show enough "sincerity", so Cai Wenji can only express her willingness to write down 400 ancient books and dedicate them to Cao Cao.
After this incident, Dong Ci began to let go of prejudice and understand his talented wife Cai Wenji with his heart, and later the two lived in seclusion in the countryside and cherished each other. After going through thousands of ups and downs, Cai Wenji finally ushered in her own happiness.
Looking back on Cai Wenji's sad married life,married Gaomen, but her husband Wei Zhongdao died young; The second marriage was forced into the Xiongnu, and he had two sons with the Xiongnu Zuoxian King; The third marriage Cao Cao was a matchmaker, and her husband Dong Ci was almost killed, but fortunately the ending was satisfying. From the above, it can be seen that Cai Wenji's three marriages in her life are not too utilitarian, but just a last resort.
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