In this life, we will experience many people and things, some good and some bad. And around us, there will always be some people who are indispensable in your life.
While we can't attribute all the good and bad to them, at least we should understand one thing:
No one can accompany you to the end, only you can accompany you through your life.
This is true of marriage, and so is the lover.
Many times, we choose love because of the impulse, but we don't know if two people can really be together for a long time.
So, when we meet the right people, what kind of existence are they?
Know your heart, know how to respect you.
Perhaps, you will say, my friends around me are not very easy to get along with, and I don't have a good impression of them, but that's because they don't really come into your heart.
Only when you really get into their hearts will they find out that you are such a person, it turns out that you also have shortcomings, and it turns out that you are not so perfect.
The right person will definitely know how to respect your ideas, will be consistent with you in many things, and will not casually deny you or accuse you.
They will not arbitrarily deny your ideas and choices, but listen carefully and respect your choices; will not do something to you casually, but will think about the consequences very seriously; Won't easily dismiss your ideas and choices, but will be very serious about telling you why you want to do it.
They know exactly what they're doing, what they want, what they like, and they think hard before they do anything.
Maintain the most basic sanity and not be too impulsive.
Many times, we make decisions because of our own impulses, and often at this time, the decisions we make are often incorrect.
Everyone has their own ideas, and we should understand that when you decide to do something, you have to keep the most basic sanity at all times.
Only then will you not make decisions that you regret on impulse.
For a lover, when a person loves you deeply, he will maintain the most basic reason in many things, and will not do things that hurt you or hurt the feelings between you because of the impulse.
Because he knows that once he acts impulsively, it often brings a series of consequences that he regrets.
Therefore, when a person loves you deeply, he will always maintain the most basic sanity.
will not be unscrupulous when they are together, and they will be disconnected after separation.
Love is a matter of two people, while marriage is a matter of two families, and a lover is even more complicated, it is a matter of two people.
Although everyone hopes that their love can be kept forever, love is not the whole of life after all.
So, when you decide that you want to start a relationship with someone, you should be prepared to live with them for a long time.
Because neither marriage nor love can be maintained by one person. When you leave someone, it means that the relationship between you will also end.
In this relationship, the most taboo thing is that one party breaks ties with the other party, while the other party is indifferent.
You know, if you love someone and that person doesn't love you, then the relationship won't last long.
Therefore, if you want to be with someone for a long time, you must be prepared to face separation.
No matter how many conflicts there are between you, they can be resolved in time.
In the world of feelings, there will always be quarrels, and the person who is really right, he must be the one who can know how to resolve the conflict.
There may be arguments between you, but he will always find a way to solve them.
Because he understands that there will always be things in life that make you unhappy, but if he keeps running away, the conflict between you will only grow.
When a person can resolve conflicts in a timely manner in a relationship, he means that he is someone who really cares about you.
When a person really cares about you, then he will naturally not let you be wronged in this relationship.