The practice of parents has an important impact on the development of children. The author is named afterPotatoesA cartoon drawn by mom cartoonist Wang Yuan is used as an introduction, ** the shaping effect of parents' behavior on children. Parents' words and deeds are like a paintbrush that can outline the trajectory of their children's lives, affecting their children's personalities, outlook on life and ways of thinking. The poor habits of parents can leave a deep imprint on their children and become a stumbling block on their growth path.
In practicelifeSome families have a habit of bargaining. In terms of tutoring fees and daily expenses, parents are always thinking about it and making a big fuss. This kind of poor habit not only hinders the growth of children's minds, but also makes them learn to be calculating, stingy and ungenerous. Think about a mother who is demanding from a tutor in order to pay less for tutoring, such words and deeds will undoubtedly pass on wrong values to her children. Parents should lead by example, establish correct values, and let children learn to be generous and tolerant, and have the courage to give and share.
Parents' consumption concepts directly affect children's values and behavioral habits. Parents who love to "gather wool" will take pleasure in making small profits, and this behavior will plant the seeds of greed and grabbing in the hearts of children. Parents should:EducationChildren know how to cherish the fruits of labor, consume rationally, and avoid bringing their own consumption concepts into the children's world. Only inEducationIn the process, we should pay attention to correct guidance in order to avoid children from developing negative behaviors of grabbing cheap and not knowing how to pay.
Impulse spending is also an issue that cannot be ignored. In a materially rich society, parents often ignore the importance of rational consumption and savings, and children learn to be wasteful and self-willed. Parents should establish a good concept of saving, guide their children to treat money and material things correctly, and do not let children use consumption as an emotional sustenance or a way to meet their needs meaninglessly. Only by integrating the correct concept of consumption into daily lifeEducationIn order to develop a good habit of rational consumption in children.
Parents are enthusiasticMobile phonesand other electronic devices, which can cause children to fall into an over-addiction to the virtual world. Children do not receive enough attention and companionship, and their souls are not nourished. Parents should be wary of their own excessive use of electronic devices and pay attention to giving their children enough love and companionship. Only when parents manage their own time using electronic devices can they guide their children to establish a correct concept of online time and content, and avoid excessive use of electronic devices that will affect their children's growth.
Complaints and quarrels between parents in the family environment can lead children to learn negative emotions and blame each other. Parents should learn to be tolerant and understanding, and avoid complaining and blaming each other in front of their children. Only by creating a harmonious and warm family atmosphere can children grow up in a positive emotional environment and establish a healthy self-perception andEmotion managementAbility.
The comparison mentality of parents makes it easy for children to grow up in the atmosphere of "stones from other mountains can attack jade". Children pursue vanity and success in comparison, but ignore the real needs of their hearts. Parents should abandon the comparison mentality and respect and understand their children's personality and strengths. Only in an equal and respectful environment can children develop independence and self-confidenceCharacterfor real growth.
Parental onesEmotion managementIt directly affects children's emotional expression and psychological development. Parents if lackingEmotion managementability, easy to be inlifeIt shows the characteristics of irritability, irritability, and negative complaining, which affects the child's emotional stability. Parents should focus on nurturing themselvesEmotion managementability, learn to be rational and tolerant. Only inculcate a positive, healthy in the familyEmotion managementconcepts, children can learn to deal with emotions correctly and establish a healthy psychological quality.
Parental onesExerciseHabits will directly affect the child's physical fitness andlifeAttitude. Not lovedExerciseParents are often unable to give their children the right onesExerciseGuidance, it is easy for children to develop the bad habit of staying at home and indulging in games. Parents should pay attentionExerciseThe importance of outdoor activities, exercise, and guidance for children to loveExerciseEnjoyExerciseof fun. Only parents practice it, willExerciseIntegrate into the familylifeto cultivate children's loveExercisegood habits to keep them healthy and positivelifeAttitude.
Parents' attitudes and behaviors towards their children's learning will directly affect their children's learning motivation and academic achievement. If parents only blame their children and do not think about themselvesEducationWays and methods, it is difficult to raise children who are responsible and self-driven. Parents should keep learning and updatingEducationConcept, pay attention to the growth needs of children, and give just the right guidance and support. Only parents are treated with a posture of learningEducationIn order to create a positive learning atmosphere for children, stimulate their learning potential and creativity.
No matter what the parents look like, the child's growth path is always closely linked to it. The practice of parents is the best shaping for children, and the family environment is the soil for children's growth. Parents should be aware of the negative impact that their poor habits may have on their children, strive to change bad behavior and habits, and use correct guidance and example to shape their children's positive and healthy personality. Only when parents continue to improve their self-cultivation can they lead their children to a successful life path. May every parent be a shining light in their children's lives, guide them in the direction of progress, grow together and make progress together.