In this rapidly changing society, some people choose to "lie flat". They don't want to take on too much responsibility and pressure, preferring to live a lazy life, focusing on their own pleasures and not thinking about the future. This phenomenon of "lying flat" is becoming popular among young people.
And such an attitude is often the anxiety and annoyance of the family. A man in Guangdong is a typical example. After the Chinese New Year, he returned to his hometown, but instead of going out to look for a job, he lay at home all day long, enjoying the support of his family. He is not bound by time, he sleeps until he wakes up naturally during the day, and only sleeps at night, and there is no law of life at all. His mother was anxious and angry, and she was worried when she saw her son living a decadent life.
Mother's hard work, but to no avail. The man turned a deaf ear to his mother's persuasion and reproaches, and continued to indulge in mobile games and do nothing. His attitude made the mother feel helpless and helpless, she could not change her son's inertia and decadence, and could only bear the anxiety and pain in silence.
In fact, such a "lying flat" life is not a long-term solution. The man is 25 years old, but he has no skills, no stable income**, and no girlfriend. His future is in jeopardy, but he remains indifferent and continues to indulge in his own little world.
For such a phenomenon, we should not simply blame men, but also think about the reasons behind it. Perhaps, men lack self-confidence and courage, cannot find a suitable job for themselves, and do not have a positive purpose in life. The expectations and pressures of his family made him more escapist from reality and fell into a vicious circle.
However, there is a solution to any problem. First of all, men need to face up to their current situation and face life's challenges bravely. Through study and hard work, he can improve his skills and enhance his employability. At the same time, his family should also give him more support and encouragement to help him rebuild his confidence and hope for the future.
In addition, society needs to provide more opportunities and platforms for young people like men. Through the support of ** and social organizations, they can better integrate into the society and realize their own development and value. Only in this way can more young people get rid of the dilemma of "lying flat" and welcome a brighter future.
In general, "lying flat" is not the solution to the problem, it will only make people fall deeper and deeper. We should face life positively and pursue our dreams bravely in order to realize our personal value and social progress. May everyone have a positive attitude towards life and welcome a better tomorrow!