Someone can beautify the freak love between Gao Yuliang and Gao Xiaofeng, I think it's inevitable. Of course, necessity does not equal reasonableness.
If you want to say that it has a great impact on the three views and love views of a generation, it should be "Snail House". Far from being disgusted with Song Siming and Guo Haizao, many female viewers are trying to whitewash and beautify, all of them want to meet Song Siming, and they all want to be Guo Haizao. In fact, the people who beautify Liangfeng love are almost this kind of people.
Someone once said that men will never empathize with male juniors, but there will always be a group of women who empathize with female mistresses. It's the truth
Of course, I'm not saying that men are all noble, and women are all wrong. Although men will not empathize with male mistresses and will not sympathize with cheating women, there will also be some men who empathize with and praise cheating men and female mistresses.
In other words, regardless of men and women, the public's attitude towards male extramarital affairs is extraordinarily tolerant, at least much more tolerant than that of scumbags. Let's just say, it's allIn a modern society that emphasizes equality between men and women, shouldn't men abide by the sexual morality that women have to abide by? Hong Kong actor Leung Ka-fai said: Isn't marriage just a lifelong and single-minded going!
Some people evaluate some feudal legacy dregs as "deep-rooted", but in fact, this word can also evaluate traditional sexual morality. Since ancient timesOur culture emphasizes "privet" rather than "masculinity."。This idea has been passed down for thousands of years, and it is difficult to change even in modern times.
I'll give you a very common example: many marketing accounts that write about the emotional lives of male actors are particularly fond of using headlines like "Never left his wife for decades", with some language full of surprise, as if telling an uncommon anecdote. There are also many actresses who never abandon their husbands, and I haven't seen any marketing accounts pour pen and ink!
What does this mean? DescriptionIn the eyes of some people, a woman is dedicated to a man, and that is an obligation and responsibility. Men are devoted to women, and that is a kind of charity and favor.
Not to mention that a man has never abandoned his wife for decades and has zero scandals, even if he cheats, it can be regarded as eternal love.
You don't see, ** In the tenth year, the "love story" of Zhang Dagongzi and Miss Zhao Si was repeatedly filmed and praised and praised. I still remember the scene of Chen Jianfei and Ni Xuehua kissing each other in "Miss Zhao Si and Zhang Xueliang", with the red lights and the heroine's bare snow-white shoulders, it is called a fragrant beauty! The author also intercepted ** and posted it on a blog platform, but it was blocked!
In "In the Name of the People", Gao Yuliang and Gao Xiaofeng certainly do not have this kind of kissing and kissing, chattering and gnawing scenes, and it is impossible to appear that the actors and actresses in American dramas are naked. Not to mention that the actor's spouse can't accept it, and the cultural censorship department is not dry.
The difference is,In the past, dramas blatantly praised extramarital affairs, but now they are the one that engages in overt praise and disparagement. Now I can't be blatant, if I really play blatantly, I will really be scolded to death. That's why he praised it secretly. For example, "In the Name of the People" and "Snail House".
Are Gao Yuliang and Gao Xiaofeng considered love? It's up to you how you define it. But one thing is certain: the weight of the original match is far less than that of the junior. Yes, I'm sure I'm right: the junior who turns positive is also the junior.
Even Zhang Kaili said".Gao Yuliang gave all his love to Gao Xiaofeng”。So what was it to Mr. Wu before?
Some people say that pain, struggle, and self-blame are Gao Yuliang's "later traits", but I don't see how much Gao Yuliang feels guilty about Mr. Wu, and everything, including the sentence "Huifen, or hello", is more like a play.
Some people definitely don't agree with this statement, and they have to think in their hearts: Who is this show for? Except for the ex-wife, no one else was present at all.
There are also film and television bloggers who have analyzed this paragraph and saidThe reason why Gao Yuliang confessed and apologized to Wu Huifen was to move Wu Huifen, and the purpose was to let Wu Huifen leave some room for herself when Hetian Guofu reacted to the situation.
This statement is not impossible. Gao Yuliang has no feelings for Mr. Wu, and he doesn't even have the most basic care for his friends.
For example, Mr. Wu is depressed, but I haven't seen him ask a word. Living under one roof, he didn't know that he was depressed? How much doesn't make sense.
There are also two people talking outside in home clothes, and at the end, Gao Yuliang said "Let's go in, it's cold outside", which is "cold outside" instead of "don't catch a cold", which explains the problem. The former was to end the conversation, and the latter was let into the house out of concern.
In the biggest conflict between this awkward combination in this play, when Mr. Wu asked Gao Yuliang what he loved about Gao Xiaofeng, his emotions almost collapsed (there are a few paragraphs where Aunt Kelly acted very well, I don't know why a group of people think the acting skills are not good), Gao Yuliang has been sneering, and then he simply scolded her loudly and didn't let her continue.
This is what some viewers say is the real state of a normal old husband and wife? If so, it's no wonder that young girls are afraid of marriage now. In short, in Gao Yuliang's eyes, Mr. Wu is not as weighty as Gao Xiaofeng.
Compared with Wu Huifen, who has no feelings, he is indeed caring for Gao Xiaofeng.
How many people have analyzed that Shuanggao's marriage is Lao Gao's vote for the Zhao family. In fact, this argument does not hold water. There is no need to abandon his wife and marry a new love, just accept someone directly. Marriage is a lot of harm and no benefit.
And if Gao Yuliang wants to be loyal to the Zhao family, there is no need to do things for the other party because the other party has given him benefits, which seems insincere.
Regardless, the relationship is immoral and not worth promoting.
Our history and culture can be said to be extremely tolerant of men. Because there is no moral requirement for chastity for men, the love praised in Chinese history and culture is like this:It doesn't matter if the man is single-minded or not, as long as the woman is single-minded enough, she can be regarded as eternal love.
For thousands of years, the Chinese seem to have been accustomed to the amorous nature of men. After all, on a cultural level, men have been allowed to cheat for thousands of years. It was only in the fifties of the last century that attention began to be paid to the issue of equality between men and women and work style.
In other words, monogamy in the true sense of the word has been practiced for less than a hundred years.
There is still a deep-seated belief that it is not a big deal for a man to have several women in his life or to have several women at the same time.
I am reminded of what Lu Xun said: Chinese people like to take commonplace as reasonable. It doesn't matter if it's really reasonable or not.
In the eyes of the audience, Gao Yuliang is still a good man who is clean and self-conscious. After all, only cheating on one woman is considered "commendable" among men.
So, some good phoenix fans don't understand: why are there so many flowery men in this world, why do you scold him?
Just like those men in the ** period, the man who cheated once was scolded miserably, and the man who was married several times was not scolded. What is it?
If the latter is the kind of man who has repeatedly lost his wife, can't people marry again? didn't engage in a seamless connection, and it is not wrong to marry as many wives as you want. But the former is a moral issue, even if he only cheats once in his life, he is a negative man under his character.
Interestingly,In the group of cheating men, it is easier for a man who cheats on a person to divorce and do the evil thing of abandoning his wife and children, but it is not easy for a cheating man who can eat anything if he is cold and taboo. Both historical and modern facts illustrate this.
I'm not surprised that men like to sing the praises of men's extramarital affairs. I don't expect men to empathize with women. But women also advocate extramarital affairs and give scumbags and juniors a platform, which is incomprehensible. What kind of women are these?
Someone said: It must be a junior, otherwise how could it be brought in juniors such as Guo Haizao, Gao Xiaoqin, Gao Xiaofeng, etc.?
I don't deny that, but it's not entirely true. For the scumbag and the woman on the platform, one is undoubtedly the junior, and the other is the love brain, as long as others use love as a pretext, they can be moved. In short, it's either bad or stupid, or bad and stupid.
Even if there is no real love in this world, there is no need to bring in the identity of a junior to believe in love; Even if there is no good man in this world, he should not be brought into the identity of a junior to treat the cheating man as a good man.
Gao Yuliang's ex-wife Wu Huifen, judging from the identity of her relatives and friends, she should be a woman from a wealthy background. But Gao Xiaofeng is different, born in a poor fisherman's family, dropped out of school at a young age and went to work as a waiter in a big city.
Someone asked: What's the use of mentioning this?
Of course it works. When Liangfeng's supporters whitewashed the relationship between these two people, they all liked to say that Gao Yuliang was too valuable, and he didn't dislike the working girl and straightened the working girl. Hey, Gao Xiaofeng's fans and supporters brought into the identity of Xiaosan, and the sense of superiority exploded:A man abandoned the daughter of a famous family and chose a low-level woman, so that these little three supporters brought a sense of glory and victory to counterattack the strong as a weakling.
Bai Fumei played the rest of the scumbag, so that you, Bai Qianmei, took over. What do you have to glorify?
Interestingly, men will dislike married women, it's okay to play, but the probability of marrying is not high, so there is an old saying "don't marry broken shoes if you break your shoes". But women rarely have such "awareness", when the junior plays the husband with a wife and plays with a sense of achievement, eating the leftover buns from others is called a fragrant one. The advocates of the junior and the junior are all thinking like this.
The bright and upright scumbag and the frank and swaying junior are not unguardable, but Gao Yuliang and Gao Xiaofeng, the male and female duo, are just the opposite. The damage to the original match is several times that of the former.
I remember that Liu Jun played a scumbag before, leaving everyone with the impression of an honest and good husband, only his wife knew that he was ambiguous with others, and quarreled with him from time to time because of this matter. This has led some people to think that this wife is a Hedong lion. If Gao Yuliang is like Zhao Ruilong, who is romantic and cold, everyone will still give the original partner some humanistic care in the know, so that the original partner will not be so desperate to the end.
As for Gao Xiaofeng, her personality and situation do not allow her to be frank and unrestrained. But this also gives the audience room to wash their hands, and I feel that a junior is willing to be the air without showing his head, which is also too worthy of praise.
A junior, what qualifications and reasons do you have to dance and swagger? It is said that Gao Xiaofeng is simple, in my opinion, Empress Lu fortunately faced Mrs. Qi back then, if it was Gao Xiaofeng, I was afraid that this strong woman would be miserable. The mistress who is soft on the outside and has a vulva on the inside, and who retreats as an advance, is more difficult to deal with than the dominatrix who is fierce and inward.
Hou Liangping defined the relationship between Gao Yuliang and Gao Xiaofeng, causing dissatisfaction among a group of trolls.
I really don't understand it anyway:Under normal circumstances, it is impossible for a person with a normal outlook to have a good impression of a scumbag and a junior. Moreover, in the past, there were so many "big mother-in-law parties" and "concubines and gods" on the Internet, who discriminated so much against the concubines who couldn't help themselves in ancient times, but they empathized with the little three who were free in modern times?
In such a smoky and miasma human environment, while singing the praises of extramarital affairs, encouraging women to believe in love and marry bravely? After marriage, do you give the junior "let Xian" or take the initiative to be the junior and look forward to becoming a regular?
People nowadays are really ill-intentioned.