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Mr. Yang Jiang once said: People are alive, just send their own light, don't blow out other people's lights. Because even if you blow out someone else's lamp, your life that is not satisfactory will not get better.
On the way to get off work, I often see an old man scavenging, there are many old scavengers in the city, there is nothing special, but this old man is different.
Unlike other scavengers, the old man did not take it for granted, but dressed neatly. Although the clothes on the body have been washed and white, they are neatly worn on the body, and every button is where it should be.
The old man had a tricycle, probably one wheel was broken, or she couldn't ride, she didn't ride, but pushed forward. The back of the tricycle was neatly tied with picked paper shells, and next to it was a sack with bags of empty bottles and cans.
Next to the tricycle was a dog, and at first glance it was a local dog, and one end of the rope was tied to the tricycle, and the dog followed it slowly.
The old grandmother's face was covered with sweat, and she was tired, so she stood on the side of the road, took out a white handkerchief that had been washed the same, and wiped the sweat from her face.
Although she looked tired, the old grandmother had a happy smile on her face. She turned to look at the paper shell behind her, patted the dog with its tail wagging again, and told her little buddy that she and the dog had a day's living expenses.
When the old man was resting, a beautifully dressed woman passed by, looked at the old man, quickly covered her nose, and walked over with a disgusted face, afraid that some undeserved smell would contaminate her.
The old man looked at the woman's deep disgust, a little guilty, smiled apologetically, and hurriedly pushed the tricycle away, leaving the crowded place.
The well-dressed woman did not meet the old scavenger when she passed by in the next few days. On this day, when the woman was having lunch, she swiped her mobile phone, and a ** of the old man who was scavenging attracted the woman's attention.
The old man is a retired professor at the university with a good pension, but he picks up the rags year after year. Because all her own money is qualified for the children in the mountain village who have no money to go to school, she can only pick up rags for money to live.
The old man's unnatural smile at the camera, the woman felt a little familiar, "Isn't this the old man you can see every day?" The woman thought.
After eating, hurry out to change shifts", before I could think about it, a colleague's urging voice came from outside. The woman agreed, hurriedly cleaned up the small space separated by the locker room, and walked out while sorting out her clothes.
For a moment of bright light, the woman who was shining was in a trance, she closed her eyes, adapted to the bright light, and showed a flattering smile to the customers who walked in: "This cream is very suitable for you, let me try it for you?" ”
If you suffer from others, you may not be good at others. Everyone has their own life, and what he or she shows to the world is only a small part of life, and he or she does not know the whole picture, so be cautious in what you say and do.
I have a good relationship with my elementary school classmates, his family is not good since he was a child, and he also has an older brother, in order to let his younger brother study, he dropped out of high school and worked part-time.
Although we don't go to school together since high school, we have always had a good relationship. When I go to work, I will also come out to get together, and once I had a party to chat, and my classmates talked about an incident that had been hidden in their hearts for a long time.
That year, my classmates were still in high school, and my brother, who dropped out of school, worked hard to make a good life for the family and the cost of his younger brother's college education, and did all the dirty work, and finally saved a sum of money and built a three-story small building for the family.
The family was very happy, and on the day the small building was completed, the classmate's mother specially cooked a lot of good dishes and invited relatives and friends in the village to dinner. During the banquet, the mother took her brother's hand, turned around to toast relatives and friends, and happily said how difficult it was for her son, and finally had a bright day, always with a heartfelt smile on her face.
When she arrived at her neighbor Aunt Zhang, Aunt Zhang took her brother's toast, pouted and said, "Young people nowadays should be humble, just flip over such a three-story building, it's nothing remarkable." My son works in the city and spent millions to buy a house in the city, and calls me every day to come and live in ......”
The originally lively dinner table suddenly fell silent, and the smiles of my brother and mother disappeared. The relatives were busy playing round, and the original joyful banquet was no longer as lively as it used to be, and everyone sat for a while and then dispersed.
Although it has been a long time since this incident, every time I think about it, I want to block a stone in my heart. At that time, the classmates secretly vowed in their hearts that they must study hard, be admitted to the university in the province, and buy a house in the city after graduation, so that they cannot be looked down upon.
It wasn't until the classmates graduated, worked, bought a house, and got married that this resentment gradually dissipated. The reason why I mentioned this again is because my mother came to live in the city last year and talked about some things about the neighbor's aunt.
At that time, the son of the neighbor's aunt did have a house in the province, but this house was not in the son's name, but the daughter-in-law's parents bought it for their daughter before marriage.
The mother-in-law didn't agree to her daughter's marriage, but her daughter had to fall in love with him, so she could only agree to get married. But because the neighbor's aunt's family was poor and had no money, the other party did not ask for any bride price, and of course the mother-in-law did not give a dowry.
After his son got married, he lived in a house bought by the woman, and all the money for the marriage was paid by the woman. The neighbor's son got married without paying a penny. Therefore, correspondingly, the woman asked the neighbor's son to marry as a wealthy person.
The neighbor's aunt didn't know it at first, and her son didn't say anything about it. The aunt thought that the house was bought by her son with money. When he first got married, in order to honor his mother, the son asked his wife to take his mother to live in the city for a while.
The wife was reasonable and nodded in agreement. In this way, the neighbor's aunt was taken to the city by her son in a beautiful manner. After arriving at her son's new home, watching her son cook and clean up after work, and her daughter-in-law coming home from work to eat ready-made, my aunt felt unbalanced.
Once when her daughter-in-law was not at home, the aunt taught her son a lesson: "You are a man, how can you do the work of your wife, you see whose man revolves around the pot every day." Don't you earn a lot of money a month, let your daughter-in-law resign and go home to serve you, how can a woman show her face, she has to serve a man at home, a man is the day of the family, and it is a woman's duty to serve a good man. ”
The son slapped his swollen face in front of his mother and became fat, so he could only vaguely go over, thinking that his mother would leave in a few days, and it would be good to deal with it in the past few days.
The next day after the aunt taught her son, she saw that her son was still busy in the kitchen with an apron, and her daughter-in-law was brushing ** in her room.
Daughter-in-law, how did your parents educate you, how can you let a man cook and wash clothes for you, I see that you are quite idle at work, you shouldn't be able to earn much money, quit your job tomorrow and stay at home to serve the man. The man is the heaven of the family, and it is the duty of a woman to serve the man well in what job she goes to. ”
After listening to her mother-in-law's words, the daughter-in-law put down the spoon in her hand and looked at her son with a look of surprise.
The daughter-in-law was reasonable, didn't say anything, lowered her head and continued to eat. The neighbor's aunt saw that the two of them had no reaction, and became even more angry: "You are married to my son, the next step is to give birth to a big fat boy to our family, so that my family can spread the branches, how to have children when I go to work, and take care of my eldest grandson." ”
Listening to his mother's words, the son was even more panicked, and just wanted his mother to stop talking, but the wife next to him put down the chopsticks and said slowly: "Mom, you asked me to resign and serve the man, first of all, I have an aunt in my family since I was a child, don't talk about me, even my mother has never done any housework, just occasionally rises, cooks, tries a new dish, and is also a hobby." If I quit my job, then ask your son, how much money does he earn a month, how much money I earn a month, and whether he earns enough money for me to buy a bag, a set of cosmetics, and two clothes. ”
In addition, the house you are staying in is bought by our family, my name is written on the real estate certificate, and the little money your son earns is not enough to give you living expenses and his own expenses. I resign, and your son will drink the northwest wind. ”
It is natural for women to do housework, even if you go to work, you have to come back to serve the man" The neighbor's aunt said loudly: "Why don't you put my son's name on the real estate certificate, the man is the head of the family." ”
The daughter-in-law laughed angrily, and continued with a disregarded look: "Mom, didn't your son tell you that your son didn't pay a penny when the two of us got married, and he married into our family as a wealthy man." ”
The neighbor's aunt was stunned on the spot, and she looked at her son in disbelief: "This is all true?" The corners of his son's mouth squirmed for a long time, and he didn't say a word. Aunt Lingju** still ate and turned back to the guest room.
The next morning, the aunt asked her son to buy a ticket and go home. After that return, the neighbor's aunt never bragged in front of relatives and friends about how good his son was, and never went to the city again.
Of course, there seems to be some kind of tacit understanding between the son and his mother, the son is the son, the mother is the old mother, the daughter-in-law has never come back with the son once, and the mother has never asked.
My classmate told me about this and shook his head with a smile: "Actually, I am quite sympathetic to our neighbors, my mother said, my aunt used to have a big personality and especially love to chat, and there is nothing she knows about the things in the village, and now she doesn't talk anymore, and she doesn't like to go out very much. ”
If you live, let your own light shine, and don't blow out the lamps of others. Because even if you blow out someone else's lamp, nothing will change in your own life.
If you want to change your destiny, you can only rely on yourself, know what you want, go your own way, send your own light, put in hard work, accept failure, and have a positive attitude, so that you can control the light in your life and shine brightly.