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True elegance is not a pretentious gesture, but a graceful temperament that is forged from the inside out. It has nothing to do with looks, dress, age, money, and most importantly your heart.
An elegant woman is confident, she may not have a face that is overwhelming, she may be mediocre, but her life has that open-minded optimism and unhurried self-confidence, so she becomes more and more elegant. An elegant woman is calm, no matter the changes of the world and the ups and downs, she can always maintain a corner of peace in her heart, showing the beauty of going through vicissitudes but being able to meet with the situation.
An elegant woman is optimistic, she knows how to pursue happiness, she will not let trivial things disturb life, let alone set up mental barriers, and will convey a happy mood to the people around her, her world is suddenly clear. An elegant woman is independent, she does not have the servile face of a superficial woman, nor the vulgarity and pungency of a shrew in the market, only a plain state of mind.
An elegant woman is real, she is by no means uncannibalistic, she can wear a white silk dress, wear a beach hat with all kinds of charms, bask in the bright sun, blow the gentle sea breeze, or wear a homely cotton shirt, tie a loose braid, sweat like rain to wash dishes and do housework.
Be strong inside
A truly strong heart is not based on what you can conquer, but what you can bear. Life experience tells every woman that life cannot be smooth sailing, and the change of fate is like the wind blowing on the water, and when the wind blows, the sea will still be calm, perhaps more fresh and pleasant. As long as bad luck does not defeat faith, the light of hope will always dispel the clouds of despair, and learn to laugh at life, so that we can see a more beautiful world and a better self.
A strong heart loves life, and no matter how many pains and obstacles are imposed around her, she will try to maintain emotional well-being. A strong heart always wants to solve problems, instead of indulging in lamentation, complaining, and madness. A strong heart tolerates others, tolerates understanding and accepting opinions that are different from one's own, and maintains one's own judgment; A strong heart is positive and enthusiastic, exuding a blazing brilliance, attracting and infecting people.
Smile, ten years less. A woman with a strong heart often keeps smiling, it is not only an expression, but also a woman's gentleness and charm. A woman who loves to smile has a good mood, strong self-confidence, is peaceful and kind-hearted, and a moment of smile may be eternal in the hearts of others. "If you are not afraid of old people, you are afraid of old hearts. "A woman with a strong heart, even if her face has left traces of time, she still retains her youthful vigor and demeanor.
Personality independence
Independence", this word is no stranger to modern women, today's women no longer have to revolve around the family, husband, and children all day long, and do not rely on men to live, but in addition to economic independence, elegant women pay more attention to emotional independence and ideological independence. An emotionally independent woman is not a burden to her lover when she is in the same boat with her lover, and she still faces life calmly when she leaves the care of a man and lives a beautiful landscape. At all times, you should stand like a tree. When the wind is good, quietly enjoy the comfortable breeze and warm sunshine, and hold up a green shade for yourself and others; When the wind and rain are blowing, take deep roots in the earth and bravely resist the storm of life.
An independent-minded woman is a kind of certainty and recognition of herself, a woman who knows what to do and what not to do, does not blindly follow, does not follow the crowd, has her own ideas, and insists on her own opinions, will win the respect and love of everyone. Mystery is the ** and charm of an independent-minded woman. Things in the world are like this, and what you don't know will give you a sense of mystery and create an attraction for people to explore and discover its secrets. A woman with a sense of mystery often fascinates men, and this ** power lies precisely in her inexplicability and uncontrollability, and men are happy to explore it in order to conquer and accompany her.
Pay attention to self-cultivation
Elegance is not innate, it cannot be achieved overnight, the quick elegance can only stay on the surface, only after years of experience, artistic edification, and ideological accumulation, can we reveal personal cultivation in every gesture. Cultivation is integrated into real life, every bit is the embodiment of cultivation, politeness, integrity, tolerance, kindness are elegant and charming cultivation.
Politeness is the basic cultivation, gentle, generous, natural and sincere, without a little pretentiousness; Listen patiently when talking to others, respect and accept the opinions of others; Never bombastic, always humble and low-key. Integrity is an important cultivation, abide by commitments, have a strong sense of time, even if you encounter difficulties, never break your word, make every effort to solve them, respect each other, and reduce the adverse impact on others as much as possible.
Tolerance is a difficult cultivation, instead of heart-rending accusations and criticism of others, it is better to understand deeply, make appropriate concessions, and maintain a tolerant and empathetic attitude towards the world. Kindness is a great cultivation and the embodiment of the brilliance of human nature. A kind woman cares about society with a sincere heart, gives sympathy and support to misfortunes, and never harms others. Kindness is contained in the simple details of life, and it is an umbrella that opens for you in the wind and rain to protect you; It is a fire that is lit for you in the cold winter, giving you warmth.
I am a big-eyed libra, focusing on emotional words, using warm and rational words to enrich the days when you want to be wrong, love your persistent appearance, and wish you had light in your eyes and a direction in love. Like my text, remember to follow my Baijia number: Big Eyes Libra].