Jin Yong said in "Book of Swords and Enmity": Affection is not long, and wisdom will be hurt. A relationship is not how vigorous and fascinating it is, but it is plain but misses each other, which makes it more unforgettable. A long-term companion is the most beautiful confession! The likes that are said are never by the side of the other party when they need it, which is even more appreciated. But in real life, how many feelings are faded while walking, and how many relationships are far away. When a relationship becomes the same as chewing wax, the food is tasteless, and it is a pity to abandon it, what is the point of two people being together? When a man doesn't love you anymore, he will often say two words to you: busy. 
01. Being busy = not available to youWarren Buffett said it well: It's only when the tide goes out that you know who's been swimming naked. When the relationship is strong, none of us knows how long a tenderness can last. Some are getting closer, some are drifting away. Until the day the devastation is revealed, no one knows what the rot will look like inside. Only in a relationship, we really feel the pain, the discomfort, and the grievances. I really understood that the other party had already changed his mind. The reality of fading passion is always the most painful. And the person who is always not available to you will also reject you again and again in the coldest tone, making you retreat! 
02, busy = you leaveDon't take yourself too seriously, because you overestimate yourself and are doomed to fall badly. You think that the other party can't do without you. Until you leave his world one day and don't show up for a long time, the other party doesn't even take the initiative to find you. Only then do you realize that he doesn't lack you anymore. The person who lacks you will be nervous about you, and if you don't contact him, he will take the initiative to contact you. Because he'll worry about someone else taking your time. But what about the people who don't lack you? You just don't have time to contact him, you invite him to refuse, you are always too busy with you, and you are always too idle with others. The completely different attitude is actually telling you nakedly that his world is not lacking in you, and he is even a little tired of you. The person who always tells you that he is busy, don't bother anymore, because the things he is busy with do not include contacting you. 
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